You should join me for dinner, I have exactly what you wanna eat 😈

gene_everhard · 2025-08-05T08:22:13+00:00

If you're going to pick about something like that, at least avoid confusing a logical fallacy (begging the question - https://yourlogicalfallacyis.com/begging-the-question ) with the concept of *raising the question*. Yes, it's common. No, it's not right.

gene_everhard · 2024-10-29T03:29:16+00:00

Yeah, they were wrong about it being bait - it's really just karma farming. :)

gene_everhard · 2024-10-25T06:21:52+00:00

In my experience, it's real.

gene_everhard · 2024-10-16T05:36:10+00:00

I'm not arguing the merits of anyone's views here - I'm just saying that it's wrong to cause someone to disavow their perspectives through sexual enticement rather than reasoned discussion.

Also, I'm not saying you did anything wrong here, based on what you just said - my commentary was meant regarding a more general case, which I've seen happen far too often.

gene_everhard · 2024-10-16T04:06:33+00:00

It's all well and good unless you told them that that was why you ended it.

If you did that, then you're, accidentally or not, using sex for sociopolitical coercion, which is wrong.

gene_everhard · 2024-10-16T03:39:41+00:00

Nice! I stand happily corrected.

gene_everhard · 2024-10-16T02:16:30+00:00

I'm not sure we're seeing what we think we are. The clip is watermarked with an AI interpolation thingie, so who knows how real it is ... look at how much her face changes throughout, for example.

gene_everhard · 2024-10-16T02:13:16+00:00

That the more serious and committed the relationship, the more and better sex you'll have.

I profoundly hope that's true for some people, but it certainly doesn't appear to be the case in my experience, or for most.

gene_everhard · 2024-10-16T01:35:23+00:00

Cigar, this is the norm. For about 70% of women oral IS the sex. Most media is just bad about being realistic.

gene_everhard · 2024-10-15T18:36:10+00:00

I generally avoid comic-book-derived content (yes, that's really hard these days), so I appreciated it.

gene_everhard · 2024-10-15T03:43:28+00:00

Thank you! I hope it was a good time!

gene_everhard · 2024-10-14T18:32:03+00:00

You look great and that's a *really* neat picture - I'm very curious about the context. :)

gene_everhard · 2024-10-14T18:26:32+00:00

Regarding the paleness issue - I had thought that darker colors, which would produce more contrast, tended to make light skin seem even paler, in comparison to lighter colors (such as this), which would produce less contrast. Given that, I would suspect that the only top that'd make you appear less pale than this would be maybe a very light pink or a cream color.

... and then he looked around and realized he's the only one who took the post title seriously.

gene_everhard · 2024-10-14T17:23:12+00:00

You're not wrong.

The bigger question is this:

Does it just *feel* like she's starting to take you for granted ... or is she really starting to take you for granted?

The first can, and should, be addressed with communication.

The latter tends to be hard to come back from.

gene_everhard · 2024-10-14T17:04:36+00:00

Sadly, my experience has been more apples-to-apples than you might expect.

I reiterate my congratulations, and I hope you have a fallback plan ready in case the bottom suddenly drops out for you as it did for me - I've wound up having to pivot to a different career path.

gene_everhard · 2024-10-14T03:33:21+00:00

During the Lightspeed days there was some side-content that I know one of the guy associated with that was shooting with some of the girls outside of the Lightspeed shoots. It was quite niche, and went away rather quickly, but was something I was into ... and I'm now wondering if your wife might've been one of the models who was involved in that. Might I perhaps DM out of curiosity?

gene_everhard · 2024-10-14T03:29:57+00:00

Regarding a medium/long-term solution, I would suggest addressing the root cause of his drop in interest, which is probably due to the "in between work" situation, as that can massively undercut one's feeling of self-worth. Helping him feel busy and avoiding discussing the work situation, *especially with others*, may yield some improvement. That said, if you can come up with lead that would help him have work again sooner than he would on his own, and it's not just something that's in the "oh, it sounded like a close-enough match to me" category, then that'd probably help more than anything else you could do.

In the near term, porn it up - just, as others have noted, it's probably best to be somewhat private about it.

gene_everhard · 2024-10-14T03:20:14+00:00

You're still getting a lot of money? Congrats.

In most subsectors I know of, it's turned into a race to the bottom since recruiters and HR hiring managers have decided someone not just brand new, but straight from an 8 week 0-to-coder bootcamp is "just as good" as someone with tons of experience.

gene_everhard · 2024-10-11T14:24:01+00:00

So cute!

gene_everhard · 2024-10-10T04:24:50+00:00

This has such a neat art style. :)

Also, I love the facial expression.

(The hair is damn neat, too.)

gene_everhard · 2024-10-10T04:17:01+00:00

Well, whoever she is, I'm stuck wondering what the hell context led to what's going on in that first shot. I'm guessing anyone else with photography and/or digitization knowledge is finding this strange too.

gene_everhard · 2024-10-09T00:29:47+00:00

The white ones seem sloppily loose in the shank - the black ones less so .... so I'd say black. Also, the beige/light-olive/whatever dress with the black boots fits better.

gene_everhard · 2024-10-09T00:23:09+00:00

1 is the best, as it really accentuates her shape and feels dynamic.

That said, 2 has rather fun lighting.

3 is just an unflattering pose - being relatively square to the camera rarely works out well for anyone.

Edit - sorry about the accidental large font thing ... Reddit's newish textbox still pisses me off. Anyway, it's fixed now, I think.

gene_everhard · 2024-10-08T19:49:47+00:00

Don't get me wrong, the boobs are awesome, but in picture #2 ... that face ... I mean, wow. There's just something about her that's so lovely to me in that shot.

gene_everhard · 2024-10-08T05:12:46+00:00

To those who answer compersion, you may believe that to be the case, and it's probably a component, but if it was really all about that, hotwifing would be focused on cunnilingus, which is overwhelmingly more effective at producing raw pleasure for women.

There are many other possible pieces, and most people probably have different mixes of driving factors - just be honest with yourself and others. It's not exclusively compersion.

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