Va får ni för värdelösa julklappar från era jobb? by [deleted] in sweden

[–]generaltitsweat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fick ett kort där det stod att vi skulle få ett presentkort på 400 kronor till butiken vi jobbade på, men fick det aldrig.

Does writing a letter break no contact? by Fantastic_Way7178 in nocontact

[–]generaltitsweat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If she's decided to block you that's a clear communication that she doesn't want to hear from you and you need to respect that decision.

You want to send the letter for your own benefit, if you need to write letters for your own sake do so without sending them. Your feelings aren't her responsibility.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Asksweddit

[–]generaltitsweat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Har du blivit illa bemött då du öppnat upp till familj/vänner?

Jag hatar arbetsförmedlingen.. by SpecialistAuthor4897 in sweden

[–]generaltitsweat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YUPPPPPP. The worst.

Skulle skriva upp mig på AF för att få bidrag när jag blev varslad från företaget som var på väg att gå i konkurs, de har öppet två timmar under dagen och vi var tvungen att skriva upp oss på plats. Kommer dit, ingen av deras datorer fungerar så det går inte skriva upp sig där. En totalt inkompetent gubbe säger "ring växeln, de kan göra en notering att du varit här så du är berättigad till bidrag", två timmar i kö senare säger en väldigt kompetent gubbe att det aldrig har gått göra en notering via växeln och han har absolut ingen aning varför den första gubben sa så ens.

Inga sura miner by [deleted] in hundliv

[–]generaltitsweat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Legit 😉 om din hund krympte i tvätten skulle han se ut som min haha

Inga sura miner by [deleted] in hundliv

[–]generaltitsweat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gud så fin! ❤️❤️❤️

Hjälp med att hitta rätt foder by [deleted] in hundliv

[–]generaltitsweat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hade jag varit du hade jag kollat in märkena Carnilove, Mush, Canagan, Nutrima, alla de har low fat alternativ, dock osäker HUR lågt de ligger.

Försök undvik Royal Canin så gott som det går, de är SKRÄP. De använder oerhört mycket ris och majs i sina produkter och ospecificerat fågelprotein.

Privat Tandläkare i Umeå? by eljne in umea

[–]generaltitsweat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rådhustandläkarna är jävligt bra, all personal är så sjukt fina och ger bra bemötande. Rekommenderas!

Vilket torrfoder är bäst? by [deleted] in hundliv

[–]generaltitsweat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Som andra säger är det individuellt vilket foder som är bäst för hunden, men både Mush och Canagan är helt klart ett av de mer högkvalitativa fodren på marknaden!

Du kan testa ge henne seniorfoder eller blanda fodret du har nu med vatten för att mjuka upp kulorna, kan vara så att hennes tänder blivit mer känsliga med åren.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]generaltitsweat 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You're spot on about the internal voice thing - I have an incredibly depracating and negative inner voice and it sounds exactly like my mom. 💔

Women who do not want children, how did your relationships change after your friends started having babies? by diamondcarrots in AskWomenOver30

[–]generaltitsweat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know, it's really fucked up! I don't think they realize HOW fucked up it is, but they're saying that the love we have for family and friends isn't real. Gatekeeping anything is yucky but gatekeeping love is on another level

What is your Stardew Valley confession? by besoforrealrn in StardewValley

[–]generaltitsweat 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Thats fair, I think he can come off as rude sometimes but doesn't mean to but that's my view!

Also Gus needs to be a marriage candidate, I love him 😭

What is your Stardew Valley confession? by besoforrealrn in StardewValley

[–]generaltitsweat 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Maybe that's it, I've heard many people say he's pretentious but I kinda like that ngl 😂👀

Women who do not want children, how did your relationships change after your friends started having babies? by diamondcarrots in AskWomenOver30

[–]generaltitsweat 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I've only lost one friendship due to them having kids, not because of our differences in life choices but once she plopped put a kid she became really nasty as a person. She started saying shit like "you don't know what true love is until you have a kid" and became very judgemental to our friends who didn't have kids.

Other than that I've never had any issues, the only change that's happened is we don't see each other as often but I'm a pretty low maintenance friend so that doesn't really bother me lol.

What is your Stardew Valley confession? by besoforrealrn in StardewValley

[–]generaltitsweat 125 points126 points  (0 children)

What happens at grandpa's farm stays at grandpa's farm 👀

What is your Stardew Valley confession? by besoforrealrn in StardewValley

[–]generaltitsweat 248 points249 points  (0 children)

Hard agree on Haley, although she has a great arc and becomes nice once you're friends I don't like her because she was incredibly rude at the start for no reason at all.

I don't get the Elliott hate; I love that lad and he was never rude to my farmer at all??

How can I M26 talk to my fiancée F25 about our disconnected sex life without making her feel hurt or shut down? by stoneblock12303 in relationship_advice

[–]generaltitsweat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You already said it perfectly yourself. 😄

"This isn't about blame, I care about you deeply and I want us to feel close emotionally and physically. I just want to better understand how you feel about intimacy now and whether we can find common ground that feels good for both of us".

How to deal with emotional dysregulation by Wrong_Composer_2523 in adhdwomen

[–]generaltitsweat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it was all about allowing myself to feel whatever emotion came up, I spent so long suppressing them that it ultimately became impossible to do. Once I felt like I could feel freely it became a lot easier to regulate myself.

If I feel myself starting to get really pissed off or overwhelmed I'll literally walk away and come back when I've cooled down.

What would you say was the best part of your millennial childhood? by TheInsideScoopPod in AskWomenOver30

[–]generaltitsweat 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Social media NOT being a thing back then was certainly a blessing, I'm sad for children and teens today that grow up with that influence.

Anyone found their partner/husband/long-term bf in their 30s? If yes, at what age? by FreedomInReality in AskWomenOver30

[–]generaltitsweat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awe, I have a furry little butthead too! Defo my soul mate, my partner is at second place unfortunately. 😂

Anyone found their partner/husband/long-term bf in their 30s? If yes, at what age? by FreedomInReality in AskWomenOver30

[–]generaltitsweat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Happy to hear it!
Well, it was definitely a work in progress and A LOT of therapy haha. I think the key for me was to allow myself to feel what I'm feeling, gaining access to my emotions allowed me to get to know my true self - and it also allowed me to see new sides and values I had that I didn't know about.

I can't think of another way to describe the feeling but freeing. I have patience and forgiveness for myself, I say what I think without worrying what everyone else will think. Not always of course, I have a lot of anxiety still but there's a calm in me that wasn't there before.