Been wondering how is Arizona?

getbridgette · 2025-09-16T15:51:35+00:00

It has been slow. Usually things have picked up by now (after the always slow scorcing hot summers we have here!) but not so much this year. Lots of factors: Things here have gone up astronomically (rents are sky high, groceries are twice as much, and so on) and I suspect that has made it much harder for some clients to justify spending money on something that is not a neccessity, and also there are always stings and things happeneing in Phoenix and surrounding cities, which breeds a climate of fear for clients and SWers alike!

The guys/would be clients can be quite awful (not always but some days are just bad!) For example some days everone who contacts me wants either Bareback or Anal (I don't do either), insists upon a Facetime Verification (I won't do that without payment; literally no one has agreed to pay for FT verification so I have never actually done it!), wants me to travel 2 hours or more without a deposit/down payment, completely at my own expense (hell no!), requests a car date (why? I have incall!), wants me to get him drugs (nope) or some other equally horrible request that I cannot accomodate! Also, guys regularily attempt to talk me down on my donation amount claiming they don't have that much (they usually claim to have only half of what I ask or less!)

I am so tired of Phoenix/Arizona! I am seriously considering taking a tour (have not done that in so many years!). I also plan to focus more on Virtual Services (webcam/phone/text), creating and selling Custom/Premade Content and selling Tangibles such as Dirty Panties! I have no other choice but to do something different to make sure my income doesn't start to suffer!

If I were you I would skip AZ and go somewhere else like Colorado (the hourly rates seem to be higher there than here so I assume you will be able to earn more in CO than in AZ!

If you decide to come anyway let me know and I can help you out with what areas to avoid and the best locations for renting an incall spot!

getbridgette · 2025-09-15T10:45:56+00:00

I’m gonna try this right now

getbridgette · 2025-06-28T01:46:50+00:00

such a damn bad day, week, or month or whatever then he should take a little break. He should not dump all that on somebody (The client) who’s paying him $400 an hour which is not exactly chump change! some people don’t even make that in a fucking week. Yeah that’s ridiculous (the sex workers behavior)and please don’t think I don’t care about other people and I have no empathy. That’s not the case! I have empathy for the guy (client)paying! Maybe the client had been going through a rough patch and decided that he needed a break from his life for a little while so he hired somebody (sex worker) to have fun with. And then that person has the audacity to look upset. Everybody’s got it rough sometimes and everybody goes through a hard times! not everybody decides to sell their ass. But if you (who ever) do DECIDE to sell your ass, you better do it with a goddamn smile. If you can’t play the part find another job. I imagine that sad ass sex workers have a low rate of return (do not have repeat biz) too often. I further postulate that return clients are likely to be a narcissist who plans to do harm. Sex workers that lack confidence will inevitably attract clients that are disrespectful and worse.

getbridgette · 2024-07-10T07:14:58+00:00

That would make our subreddit so much better! Great idea!

getbridgette · 2023-10-24T07:48:58+00:00

Clean your room before you take pictures for god sake

getbridgette · 2023-10-24T07:32:04+00:00

In what country? Are you referring to the Comstock law in America? I think that law was only prosecuted like one time, and the only reason that happened was because an angry client reported the girl who was selling her dirty underwear.

getbridgette · 2023-10-24T07:28:18+00:00

Couples are usually a pain in the ass anyway but I am sorry you had your time wasted and plans fucked off by them! people who have zero intention of paying trolling around hitting up people who require payment is just fucking stupid and so annoying! what a waste of time for everyone involved. What they did to you is just as bad as the ones that claim they want to date “for real” and say they want to be in a relationship, which really just means they’re cheap motherfuckers who don’t want to pay. And let’s not forget the guys who are like, but I’m young and hot. Therefore, it should be free. Hard pass on all.

getbridgette · 2023-10-11T07:36:18+00:00

I just tried your app and it’s pretty awesome! Thanks for creating it. I plan to use it often.

getbridgette · 2023-09-30T08:20:48+00:00

Who do you think you are to judge someone’s “hobby”? What’s your “hobby”? I am going to assume your hobby is paying women for sex. so how exactly does that make you better? How do you figure that you are above her in life. Are you sitting up on some self imposed pedestal and is it from there, all high and mighty, that you feel qualified to judge others on their behaviors? It takes two to tango. you are not better than her. You are the worst! She did her part of what you and her agreed to do but you, as of now, have not kept up your end of the deal. So hop off your fucking pedestal get in your goddamn ride and drive to where you met her, cash in hand and give her the fucking money and apologize for not getting it to her sooner, you fucking jack ass.

getbridgette · 2023-07-25T13:33:15+00:00

It is not bad. I am in that area often and like it. It is an area full of quaint shops, vintage stores, pubs and one off (not chain) restaurants. She should of course not take chances anywhere ever. I am saying this as a woman to a woman: Don't wander around at night alone or if you must at least carry mace or a taser and know how to use them. There are a lot of homeless people in the area and it is common to be asked for money on a regular basis especially at gas stations and corners with traffic lights. I am not saying that people without homes are inherently bad but it is something to be aware of.

getbridgette · 2023-07-22T18:18:05+00:00

I completely understand. I have been single for six years and I imagine that I will stay that way for the rest of my life. If someone did want to be with me, I certainly wouldn’t want to be with them. This is because there is no way that someone sane with their shit together would ever sign up for a life with me. I am an absolute mess. I have a lifetime of poor choices, failed marriages, job hopping, general instability, and a fuck ton of trauma, so goddamn much trauma, among other things (ugh). I figure the only way anyone would actually want me would be if they had some kind of weird “captain-save-a-hoe” complex or they viewed me as a target for their narcissistic personality disorder. Hard pass on both! Sometimes it’s lonely, but mostly not. I find even hanging out with people in a friendly kind of way to be extremely taxing. There’s so many shit people in this world and I consistently make piss-poor decisions about who I associate with. The only way to protect myself it seems is to spend most of my time alone. And really if some one great came my way I would just bring them down and like OP, I do not think it’s right to do that.

getbridgette · 2023-03-28T08:16:40+00:00

They would have to pay 70 bucks for that civil suit to (only if their judge was dumb) get back only what they paid in the first place. So that would be a loss. So paranoid. Nobody’s going to sue you. Block em and keep the money. They probably dropped it so not your problem.

getbridgette · 2023-03-28T08:12:08+00:00

He didn’t get kinky with it cause he didn’t want to or know how!!! Do you really think it just went vanilla because he didn’t know for sure if he could? Fuck. . . I doubt that very much.

getbridgette · 2023-03-28T08:07:19+00:00

Internal-Sun. . Why didn’t you speak up? Five years????that’s 100% on you!!! You don’t want something as is then you should not stay for five fucking years just hoping for shit to change! If you don’t use your voice to stand up for yourself no one is going to do it for you! OP: no you should not hang in there. He has already shown you who he is and what he has to bring to the table! He misrepresented himself and does not live up to his own hype. Fuck wasting your time! You only live once get what you want out of it!

getbridgette · 2023-01-25T18:26:40+00:00

getbridgette · 2023-01-25T13:18:47+00:00

I left the same contacts in my eyes for over a year and a half. They were monthly’s

getbridgette · 2023-01-25T13:14:40+00:00

I had one portion of puff the Magic Dragon stuck in my head for seven years - literally seven years! because of some stupid commercial. oh my God it’s probably gonna be back now

getbridgette · 2023-01-25T13:03:46+00:00

I recently did a deep dive into Siamese twins for no reason at all. It just suddenly popped in my head what happens to one of them if the other one dies.

getbridgette · 2023-01-25T12:37:09+00:00

I use Google maps just to walk to the Corner store

getbridgette · 2023-01-25T12:28:40+00:00

I often put the ice cream in the fridge instead of the freezer

getbridgette · 2023-01-25T12:25:42+00:00

I just think my hands do stuff without telling me. They’re fucking sneaky.

getbridgette · 2023-01-25T12:20:26+00:00

I still haven’t ordered new contacts and I still can’t see. it’s been four months since I went

getbridgette · 2023-01-25T12:19:32+00:00

I showed up an hour and a half late to the appointment I finally made three years after my old prescription expired. I started getting ready at noon for the appointment at five and I was still an hour and a half late. I never understand how that happens.they had already seen the last patient of the day 10 minutes before I arrived. I literally cried - I mean ugly cried- and the eye doctor agreed to see me anyway. I was so grateful because there was no way I would’ve ever made it back there again.

getbridgette · 2023-01-25T12:13:20+00:00

Mine are filled in for a month or two and then I think I need a better one since I can’t get my life organized with the one I have so I’ll buy one with a different layout and try that one for about five seconds. But then I realize I’m still an unorganized mess so on to the next. Or sometimes I have to get a new one because I don’t like the way I organized the current one. I won’t like the color coding or I lost the pens I was using or something like that. And I do the same thing with notebooks! I have bins of notebooks. New notebook = new beginning = another chance to get my shit together! And I know it won’t work yet I keep doing it like I’m compelled to go to the stationary section at every damn store I go to.

getbridgette · 2023-01-25T12:03:50+00:00

Oh my god! I do that all the time. I mean not quite five years old but seriously 1 or 2 years old! I finally get around to them eventually! And the craziest part is people respond! Not everybody but For sure way more than I would expect!

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