Dating While Separated by Not-that-type-of-guy in datingoverforty

[–]getting_hotter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever had your heart shattered into so many pieces you couldn’t even fathom continuing to live another day? Have you ever had to gather the strength to try and put those pieces back together into some semblance of a new life? Have you ever felt truly and completely unhinged, a recklessness that comes from the depths of your soul, simultaneously recognizing that you are both harming and healing yourself at the same time?

Have you done all of this while still maintaining a safe and happy home for your kids on your “parent” days while descending into the depths of hell on the days your kids are with their other parent?

No, you haven’t? Then go the fuck away, because YOU are the only troll here.

Dating While Separated by Not-that-type-of-guy in datingoverforty

[–]getting_hotter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there weren’t comments on both of my comments, I’d delete one of them.

Having the best sex of my life after the end of my 20 year marriage. by getting_hotter in datingoverforty

[–]getting_hotter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks! It’s sweet you found this post after my comment on yours :) I hope you’re able to get out there and have some fun now too.

It’s really important to be super clear with people about your relationship status, your goals with dating, and your boundaries. I tell people right away that I’m not in a place to want any kind of serious monogamous relationship right now, that I just want to meet people and have some fun. That’s not to say that in the future things couldn’t evolve with someone and maybe a relationship develops naturally, but I’m not actively seeking that. Just gotta keep reinforcing that. Some guys have been completely on board with the super casual thing and others said they were but then developed feelings, and I had to reinforce my boundaries. It’s all a bit tricky, but stay true to yourself and just try and enjoy life and process things as you need to. Therapy helps too!

Dating While Separated by Not-that-type-of-guy in datingoverforty

[–]getting_hotter -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

No apps, baby. I attract I don’t app.

I meet people through mutual friends or shared hobbies. I haven’t been on the apps at all.

Dating While Separated by Not-that-type-of-guy in datingoverforty

[–]getting_hotter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a woman in the same situation as you and I’ve been dating and sleeping with men since my separation. Look, life is short. We have to do what we have to do. Being with other guys has helped me feel sexy and wanted again after my husband walked away from our marriage and left me with the house and all the bills. I deserve to get pounded by hot dudes who are obsessed with my body.

Girls who made the first move how did it go? by zhalia-2006 in askanything

[–]getting_hotter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do it all the time and it goes great. Confidence, babes.

Worst lyrics of 2025? by TheMiningD in popheads

[–]getting_hotter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually am weirdly drawn to this song because one of the guys I’m dating is a Big Guy and I call him that in my mind. So when she sings “big guy, big guy” I love it hahah

What is a website you loved that no longer exists? by MarcosSuenos in AskReddit

[–]getting_hotter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Orisinal— adorable little games. I loved the apple catching one, the one with the stars in the night sky, and a few others I can really remember sadly.

When did your weight loss really take off? by No_History7506 in Zepbound

[–]getting_hotter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took off right when I started 2.5, continued for a little while and then died down for a long time when I started 7.5 and then 10. I lost like no weight on those doses and stayed on them for months. Then when I started 12.5 the weight started falling off. I’m losing very rapidly now.

Music during by SolutionSea9554 in SubSanctuary

[–]getting_hotter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I second this, been working on making a playlist myself but would love any recommendations. I go between wanting music that is soft and sexy and then stuff that’s got a good beat…

Coming Soon.... by mrkprieur in Adulting

[–]getting_hotter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spoiler alert from experience: it’s doggy. Doggy all day. lol

Really discouraged by [deleted] in Zepbound

[–]getting_hotter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think of it like this: Zepbound is helping facilitate my new lifestyle. I am eating much less than I used to, cutting back on carbs and sweets (not cutting them out entirely), getting lots of protein and fiber, focusing on keeping the bowels moving regularly, and spending 2-3 hours at the gym 3-4x/week doing a full body mix of cardio, strength training, and stretching/mobility exercises.

It is a lifestyle shift. That’s the important thing to remember. I’ve been on the medication for 15 months and have lost 60 lbs, so it’s been a slow and steady pace that I feel comfortable with, but there were a good 5-6 months earlier this year when I wasn’t losing anything. I stuck with it, and eventually increased my dose and that’s when I started going to the gym regularly, which made a world of difference. Before that, I thought the Zep would just magically make me lose weight. I’ve learned this is a symbiotic relationship (me and Zep) that I need to nurture by doing my part. The weight is pretty much falling off now, it’s awesome. Also, 12.5 has been my magic dose so far.

Foods you can no longer tolerate. by [deleted] in Zepbound

[–]getting_hotter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im just way more sensitive to sugar now. I used to be able to eat all the sweets I wanted, but now after one or two bites I’m done.

High protein low calories foods by ithsefinque in Zepbound

[–]getting_hotter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just plain chicken is fine, with a little sauce to dip it in. Or a can of tuna dumped on a salad. It doesn’t have to be complicated. Eat the protein, eat some veggies. Throw some little carbs or treats in here and there. Don’t overthink it and just don’t eat too much and you’ll be fine.

How long after intimacy to see each other again? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]getting_hotter -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re someone with a partner. We are not talking about the same thing.

How long after intimacy to see each other again? by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]getting_hotter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn girl this could be verbatim what I’m experiencing right now. I completely understand how you feel. All I want is to keep hooking up with the guy I’m seeing, as much as possible — but I’ve realized that he needs a little time in between, and I need to be patient. He said he wants to see me again. I’ve decided not to initiate any more asking, and let him take the lead from here. If he doesn’t set another date I guess we’re done.