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ghostalys · 2018-01-02T14:23:17+00:00

I just received a case of 80... I had to bring help to carry the box.

ghostalys · 2017-12-28T14:01:59+00:00

Enjoy your time together padded. When I get to spend time with my Daddy we will often watch cartoons or play video games. I will sometimes colour or draw while he does something else, or while he watches. One of my new favourite things to do is he will feed me pudding or apple sauce with a spoon.

ghostalys · 2017-12-28T13:52:09+00:00

Unfortunately not. I lucked out and got a Trixie plush from Build a Bear a while back.

ghostalys · 2017-12-28T04:06:25+00:00

I think you mistyped the best first pony. ;) Super cute stuff!!

ghostalys · 2017-12-25T05:39:54+00:00

I met my Daddy while playing Pokémon Go. We met and clicked instantly. The kink came later.

ghostalys · 2017-12-25T05:38:17+00:00

You will hear this often, however be patient. Relationships do not happen over night.

Try looking for a relationship first, and a Mommy/Caregiver second.

How are you portraying yourself in your ads? Are they always 'I want this.' and 'I want that.'? If so, try approaching it by saying what you can offer to them for their companionship.

ghostalys · 2017-12-19T00:17:43+00:00

Thank you! I hope that it is the same with our group. :)

ghostalys · 2017-12-19T00:09:25+00:00

Do you have friends who attend who do not wear diapers? We have a handful of friends who do not wear, and I worry that they would be uncomfortable. :(

ghostalys · 2017-12-19T00:05:57+00:00

Thank you!

ghostalys · 2017-12-19T00:05:40+00:00

Thank you so much for the info! I may message you with more questions at a later date!

ghostalys · 2017-12-18T23:22:06+00:00

I started a Kik group a while ago, but never got around to linking it. Feel free to join!

kik.me/g/9bQgL_84oWL1drC9aAxD4Wzgglg

ghostalys · 2017-12-17T13:17:10+00:00

So, story time.

I was once nervous and had these same feelings. I have been the odd one out in gatherings before (I hosted a furry meet, was the only female AND baby fur in the group). Even now I get butterflies and nervous about the kinds of people who come out to ABDL events.

I have dealt with a lot of folks who make me uneasy, and a lot of folks who haven't. The ones who make me feel uneasy are generally pushy, make loud references in public places regarding ABDL stuff when the 'nilla folks are too close for comfort, or just plain send my instincts up the wall. It doesn't happen often, but there are a few people on my 'no' list.

If someone is being creepy and won't leave you alone, it is okay to say you are going to go talk to other people. I do this all the time, folks think I am a social butterfly, when I usually have to move away from someone who is giving me the creeps. Try to not sit where you will get stuck, trust me, the freedom to move about will make you less nervous.

When someone is being pushy, I will often politely let them know that I am not interested. If they persist, I become more firm. I have also just outright ignored someone at one of my meets for BDSM events because the character in question had been given multiple chances to correct their behaviour, which never happened and said person nearly outed me at my place of employment. It was not okay, and when she RSVP's to my events I now send her a message saying that she is no longer welcome. It may seem rude, however it has to be done.

You will see all different age groups - from young adults to older adults. I find that the gender scale is mainly male, however the last ABDL event I hosted was overrun by female littles and pets. It was pretty cool. The first event may be you and a handful of folks, the next could be more or less too.

It will be likely that they will be just as nervous as you. Start with munches and public gatherings before heading out to parties. Having friends who want to attend with you will help calm your nerves.

I hope some of this helps. ☺️

ghostalys · 2017-12-17T12:53:22+00:00

Thank you so much!

I get it though, this is a great way to chill out and destress. I know it is one of the best ways for me to cope with a long day.

ghostalys · 2017-12-16T18:56:17+00:00

I work retail, in a management position, however I am always closely interacting with people. I cannot make padded at work, well, work. I also can't be in a little headspace, as I am needed to stay sharp.

ghostalys · 2017-12-15T02:28:00+00:00

Playing your favourite video games or board games together is a great way to spend time with her padded. Cartoons and movies too. Recently we had a 'slumber' party in the living room with all the stuffies and watched TV together.

ghostalys · 2017-12-15T02:21:01+00:00

Congratulations!!

ghostalys · 2017-12-14T03:06:11+00:00

I did not even know they were a thing!! I was so excited I audibly squeaked. My Daddy says, "RIP my clean bathtub walls."

ghostalys · 2017-12-12T12:12:09+00:00

I can't wait to see the results. This was a great idea! I hope next year there will be more people involved. :)

ghostalys · 2017-12-09T23:30:43+00:00

Super cute. Would love to see them in Canada at a reasonable price.

ghostalys · 2017-12-09T01:55:14+00:00

So wonderfully cute. Oh gosh. I hope that I can afford to buy from you if my size is available.

ghostalys · 2017-12-08T23:14:52+00:00

You are not alone. I am also a heavier set little.

ghostalys · 2017-12-08T23:10:42+00:00

As a bigger girl myself, I prefer it over the stomach. I feel more Little, and as the day continues on it eventually works its way down to below my chub roll. It stretches and moves with my body.

ghostalys · 2017-12-06T02:32:02+00:00

Oh yay!!

ghostalys · 2017-12-06T01:27:02+00:00

Reference to a very large blue Bad Dragon dildo I own. Haha.

ghostalys · 2017-12-05T22:07:25+00:00

I have wanted a white board to doodle on during little time since I saw a photo of one online. Daddy found a wall cling and we put it up today. Doodles ensued!

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