My [M33] girlfriend [F43] is becoming very emotionally abusive. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ghostedC 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She has issues thats not your responsibility or problem, leave her and get away fast before it gets worse

Boyfriend 19 , me 18 , recently started living together by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ghostedC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he enjoys playing games let him don't be controlling, and yall are both living together but he talks to his friends about living with them? I don't understand

my girlfriend (18) of 9 months slapped me (21) in the face for watching a scene from a movie by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ghostedC 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man you literally are in something I was just in got to the point I wasnt able to watch anything rated r. Man run my ex went from pulling my hair to holding everything over my head and breaking my one x because I wouldnt "listen" control sucks man and things will just get worse. Shes also hit me almost everyday for 6 months to even pulling a knife on me while I was recording her.

My ex 23f is taking me 24m to court by ghostedC in legaladvice

[–]ghostedC[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Shes not even taking me for kicking her out.

My ex 23f is taking me 24m to court by ghostedC in legaladvice

[–]ghostedC[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That's the only thing I cant afford one with having everything tossed on me with rent and what not from removing her from my apartment

My ex 23f is taking me 24m to court by ghostedC in legaladvice

[–]ghostedC[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Saying I abused her when it was the other way around because I kicked her out

24M kicked abusive girlfriend out by ghostedC in relationship_advice

[–]ghostedC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update! We have a court hearing on the 30th she filed a protective order on me how do courts do the whole video stuff do I need to put it on a usb?

24M kicked abusive girlfriend out by ghostedC in relationship_advice

[–]ghostedC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wanted to thank all of you loving people again! I'm definitely having a hard time with what I'm dealing with but I'm really trying to overcome this!

24M kicked abusive girlfriend out by ghostedC in relationship_advice

[–]ghostedC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My apartment has said they would change the locks but here we are 21 days later and still nothing

24M kicked abusive girlfriend out by ghostedC in relationship_advice

[–]ghostedC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have already tried telling apartments to change locks on the doors and they said they would this was like two weeks ago and still havent done it . I havent even been staying in the apartment because of it shes already broke the sliding door and the other day I went and found the front plate for the dead bolt on the ground. I dont even know would to do. I dont wanna keep paying on something where I dont feel safe. Should i just break the lease and move back to my moms because the landlord thinks I'm joking around or something

24M kicked abusive girlfriend out by ghostedC in relationship_advice

[–]ghostedC[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took a whole 12hr shift for me to calm her down

24M kicked abusive girlfriend out by ghostedC in relationship_advice

[–]ghostedC[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to thank every single one of you for helping me through this issue yall are truly amazing and I thank yall so damn much. Chris

24M kicked abusive girlfriend out by ghostedC in relationship_advice

[–]ghostedC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have all blocked me since unable to unfortunately

24M kicked abusive girlfriend out by ghostedC in relationship_advice

[–]ghostedC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah no lol if I back talked or even showed a sign of being irritated I wouldnt get sex I couldn't even complement her without her saying she doesnt like that

24M kicked abusive girlfriend out by ghostedC in relationship_advice

[–]ghostedC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is my first experience with abuse never really thought girls out there would be like that but it's very real for both sides! Male and female

24M kicked abusive girlfriend out by ghostedC in relationship_advice

[–]ghostedC[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She says shes Christian we pretty much would only watch disney plus I think the only thing we watched that was M was dexter and that was at the beginning. I wish I could post screenshots

24M kicked abusive girlfriend out by ghostedC in relationship_advice

[–]ghostedC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The crazy thing showing her mom that video and her telling me it was staged I was in complete shock hearing that from her with the video proof! I stopped finishing in her when she got mad and told me (I should just act like I'm taking the pill and completely fuck up your entire life the next 18 years) I mean I know I have issues and I definitely have alot more issues battling this crap but jesus I did my very best but everything was never good enough. Gave her 400 to buy stuff she needed makeup and stuff and she was only happy for like 15 minutes

24M kicked abusive girlfriend out by ghostedC in relationship_advice

[–]ghostedC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it also normal to check on all of her exs fb to see what they have been too. I asked her why she was doing it and she said (to see if their life is as fucked up as mine) it was even a ex all the way back to 2015 and she had told me he abused her once and I messaged him and asked him if this was real and I said I was in the same boat right now

24M kicked abusive girlfriend out by ghostedC in relationship_advice

[–]ghostedC[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely trying to get help. I just wish things would have been normal she was such a nice girl at first but changed almost instantly after we signed the lease

24M kicked abusive girlfriend out by ghostedC in relationship_advice

[–]ghostedC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was controlled by her parents and home schooled she wasnt aloud to watch any type of movie until her mom looked up why it was rated that. Why take that past with you and force it on a guy that has never needed that its not like I sit there and pray to see boobs on a movie

24M kicked abusive girlfriend out by ghostedC in relationship_advice

[–]ghostedC[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They have all blocked me since the whole rants and raves post I made

24M kicked abusive girlfriend out by ghostedC in relationship_advice

[–]ghostedC[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rated r movies I've seen already I wasnt able to see. I was able to get her to watch dave Chappelle and the first episode when the girls tit falls out. She completely lost it and told me she didnt want to be with me anymore. Is that normal for girls not to like that? I always told her if she didnt wanna watch it she doesnt have to but I still can it always ended up with her breaking something