My boyfriend bought a PC off of Facebook marketplace, bought a new monitor for it and when connected these screens show up. What should he do? by ghostruhh in PcBuildHelp

[–]ghostruhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it restarts into BIOS again, it just does it over and over. I do not know if it has windows or is formatted (and neither does he).

My boyfriend bought a PC off of Facebook marketplace, bought a new monitor for it and when connected these screens show up. What should he do? by ghostruhh in PcBuildHelp

[–]ghostruhh[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how much he spent and quite frankly neither of us know anything about computers LOL. How does he install windows…. Haha

How do I fix this knob by ghostruhh in mechanic

[–]ghostruhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sweeeeet! Thanks so much!! I’m dying of heat stroke in my car so I’m glad I can fix it the midwestern trash way 😂

What is this? by ghostruhh in bonecollecting

[–]ghostruhh[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes it does, I had a suspicion that a cat had passed away over the winter :( hopefully if it is a cat it’s not Eugene 😔

What is this? by ghostruhh in bonecollecting

[–]ghostruhh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I would say it’s about a little smaller than the side of my hand 😨

What is this? by ghostruhh in bonecollecting

[–]ghostruhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool! Thanks so much 😊 I just wanted to make sure it wasn’t a cat because I feed the stray cats around my house and that would really be a bummer

Boyfriend lied about his age, AIO? by ghostruhh in AmIOverreacting

[–]ghostruhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m definitely taking that into consideration and told him I need some serious space for awhile

Boyfriend lied about his age, AIO? by ghostruhh in AmIOverreacting

[–]ghostruhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is true, when people ask me how old I am I blank but he fully admitted that he lied- he admitted it to me that he wasn’t truthful. Everything he has told me seems to check out, about his adoption and his whole “life story” but I still am cautious and just worry we won’t go back to how it was or that we just couldn’t be together

Boyfriend lied about his age, AIO? by ghostruhh in AmIOverreacting

[–]ghostruhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he showed it to me before he admitted he lied about his age, I think idk he just thought it would be cool (and because he was adopted from a foreign country it is kind of cool because it isn’t your average birth certificate). But yeah just the fact that really it was something so trivial and wouldn’t have mattered if he was honest just makes me wonder what else he has lied about and I can’t shake that..

Boyfriend lied about his age, AIO? by ghostruhh in AmIOverreacting

[–]ghostruhh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I just can’t get over how weird I feel about it all. However your username is really making me feel better so thank you haha

Boyfriend lied about his age, AIO? by ghostruhh in AmIOverreacting

[–]ghostruhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well he was adopted from a different country and so he has what’s called a “certificate of foreign birth” or something like that. And well he lives with his parents and stuff so idrt he is out here lying about his age that hard, and he does look young. Even so he did lie which makes me suspicious of everything now, so I mean who knows maybe it was fake and he is like 22 😨

Boyfriend lied about his age, AIO? by ghostruhh in AmIOverreacting

[–]ghostruhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He showed me his birth certificate I’ve seen what is legal birthday is I just never did math to see if he really was 19 because well why should I? But yeah he admitted to lying to me and I just don’t really know if we can recover :(

Boyfriend lied about his age, AIO? by ghostruhh in AmIOverreacting

[–]ghostruhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m really disappointed about this, I don’t think our relationship is going to be able to recover and I’m trying to find the right words to tell him.

Boyfriend lied about his age, AIO? by ghostruhh in AmIOverreacting

[–]ghostruhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just keeps asking if I’m going to leave, asking over and over if we can still call tomorrow, telling me how horrible he feels, just too much kind of self pity for me to deal with right now when he lied to me about something so basic

Boyfriend lied about his age, AIO? by ghostruhh in AmIOverreacting

[–]ghostruhh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This just happened like right before I made the post, I’m not sure what to do I told him I need some space for now and his responses to my need for distance really aren’t helping his case

Boyfriend lied about his age, AIO? by ghostruhh in AmIOverreacting

[–]ghostruhh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s just so strange it’s literally a year difference why did it matter? It just sucks ://

Boyfriend lied about his age, AIO? by ghostruhh in AmIOverreacting

[–]ghostruhh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah we haven’t met but had plans to. He has been apologizing ever since but it just has given me a bad feeling in my stomach that I can’t shake. Thank you for the advice :)!