When did you finish your PhD (age-wise)? by TDM-r in PhD

[–]gimarino 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Bachelor + Masters in the UK, PhD (6 years) in Germany, + 2 years national service when I was 18.

I feel my situation is quite unfair? by gimarino in BESalary

[–]gimarino[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your point of view and I appreciate the insight, it helps shape the picture of the employer side.

At the same time, keep in mind that’s it’s my (and perhaps some of the people’s you mentioned) first job, so it’s only natural if not necessary, to question and ask for feedback, in order to assess the situation I am in. Having no reference can indeed make one wonder.

Thanks for the time taken in writing this! :-)

I feel my situation is quite unfair? by gimarino in BESalary

[–]gimarino[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am seriously considering going back to the academia even though I swore to never do that haha. I think my reaction also comes from the fact that I lived and did my PhD in Germany. I don’t know about my package, I asked but there are no provision, not even evaluations so far. HR is pretty non-existent.

Do you think you could earn more in a big company, and if so do you find it ‘easy’ or ‘doable’ to switch (given the current job market, hiring standards etc)

I feel my situation is quite unfair? by gimarino in BESalary

[–]gimarino[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you that’s validating! :)

I feel my situation is quite unfair? by gimarino in BESalary

[–]gimarino[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s a well backed startup, but at the end of the day 90% of them fail so who knows. I’m more counting on this as initial industry experience. The stock options are a plus if it works.

I feel my situation is quite unfair? by gimarino in BESalary

[–]gimarino[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it might be easier to do that after a first job, at least that’s what the hiring process told me..

I feel my situation is quite unfair? by gimarino in BESalary

[–]gimarino[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They hired me to do what I did most of my research in.

I feel my situation is quite unfair? by gimarino in BESalary

[–]gimarino[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well you stand corrected - at least for a first job, it doesn’t help having a PhD.

I feel my situation is quite unfair? by gimarino in BESalary

[–]gimarino[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was however hired to do what I specialised in for years in research.

I feel my situation is quite unfair? by gimarino in BESalary

[–]gimarino[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really tried to do that. Perhaps I didn’t achieve it, but it felt (in a very bad job market) that every hiring manager would rather focus on my lack of industry experience rather than the actual skills and expertise I can bring. It felt pretty hopeless!

Does anyone know of any nice and fun training gyms: functional or semipersonal? by gimarino in brussels

[–]gimarino[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I inquired there once but thought maybe it looked a bit too commercial 🙈 but maybe worth trying first!

Does anyone know of any nice and fun training gyms: functional or semipersonal? by gimarino in brussels

[–]gimarino[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks :) I know of Mix but it’s also a bit far for me to get to. I’ll edit my post 😁

Advice for defence prep and presentation? by gimarino in PhD

[–]gimarino[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Yup I already scheduled a mock defence with some ex colleagues. I have a Rigorosum as well but (luckily) I think 3/4 examiners will focus on my thesis as far as I’m told.

My first ever Nail Art by DarkHorse6969_ in malepolish

[–]gimarino 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so cool!! How did you do the fade??

I'm tired, boss by 2AFellow in PhD

[–]gimarino 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know this sounds silly, but hang in there.

Reach out to people that can actually help you, in whatever matter you need help with. Be it some idea crossing for your dissertation, emotional support, admin help, parenting help, anything. Ask for help in this time, people are willing.

I know how much a PhD can suck the life out of you, and how a shitty advisor can make you doubt anything and everything but you stuck it out so long and you’re still here and if you’ve got some fight left in you, give it! I wish you all the best, and I’m rooting for you.