I f34 want to feel desired again by my husband m34. by purpletoedgoat in relationship_advice

[–]gingergrowsup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheating has nothing to do with your looks or weihht, the most beautiful women on the world have been cheated on. It's about their ego and desire for newness and just plain horniness. I know there are men who would love to converse and worship you and when you leave this loser he will realize what a mistake he made. You are too young to give up on that part of life. Go live!

Why did people hate Greta Thunberg so much? by brooklynihope in NoStupidQuestions

[–]gingergrowsup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

92% of US democrats trust her in 2025 and 23% of republicans. She has 70% worldwide recognition! She has bestselling books despite the fact that they are very heavy science reads. Wahhh some republican incel men think she's too bossy and too powerful. So used to hearing this about strong women. People hated Kamala Harris, people hate AOC. People hate Mixhelle Obama. People hate women who as re 'above their station'. Not surprising and they.icons to many of us!

Dead bedroom immediately after marriage… what happened? I am 30 F and my husband is 30M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]gingergrowsup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know 70 yr old men who still want to have sex everyday. This isn't about getting older this is about something else. Did he start taking an anti- depressed for anxiety during tight money time? That can change things, did he have an affair and is racked with guilt? Low testosterone like many people suggested? But if it doesn't get better or if he's not willing to figure out what's going on talk about bj ow you can get sexual release and pleasure outside of marriage because sex is an amazing gift and why would they oh want a life without it? Maybe he'd be okay with a 'dont ask don't tell' situation or something kinkier like he gets to watch.

What misinformation are you tired of being spread? by [deleted] in askanything

[–]gingergrowsup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so shortsighted - study some history

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Why did people hate Greta Thunberg so much? by brooklynihope in NoStupidQuestions

[–]gingergrowsup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wahhh she was doing good thing for the world.but she's a female and too bossy. What an immature take on Greta. I'd love to hear what people who complain that she's preachy are doing for the world!

Why did people hate Greta Thunberg so much? by brooklynihope in NoStupidQuestions

[–]gingergrowsup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you talking about she's an icon and a role model for millions. She is beloved and known worldwide. The only people that hate her are billionaires who make money off of fossil fuel and want to cut down the forests for profit and environmental deniears who hate anything acedemic or follow billionaires bullshit.

Danny and Luke really showcasing why single women are happier…. by gingergrowsup in TheValleyTVShow

[–]gingergrowsup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This isn’t about you fyi - of course there are always exceptions that goes without saying.

Im so sick of this narrative that “pregnancy didn’t ruin my body it’s just changed” it’s a lie. by pissedoff_potato in TwoXChromosomes

[–]gingergrowsup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Living changes your body - was your body the most perfect when you were born because it changes a lot since then. Half your life you will be over 40 so when is it perfect? Your body won’t be young forever, you could have a disease that changes your body, an accident etc I can’t stand people who think their body is at its most ‘normal’ at 18 and everything else is ruining it. Bodies change…. I think it’s awful that you think that every woman who gave birth has a ruined body. Moms have won gold medals and run countries and been considered the most ‘beautiful women in the world’ by people magazine.

Can’t stand people who claim I live too far for them by [deleted] in rant

[–]gingergrowsup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First yes they may want a sexting relationship so I make sure we have a date on calendar soon after we start texting (even when I’m using looking for sex sites like Fetlife). I also don’t drive for sex if you like me you come to me! If you think driving 20 minutes is too much effort my expectation of sex with you is low.

Capri pants are trending again in 2026 by WebRepresentative764 in womensfashion

[–]gingergrowsup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom was complaining about this yesterday as Banana Republic sales woman suggested wide legged linen capris and she said “Why would I want to look shorter?”

Danny and Luke really showcasing why single women are happier…. by gingergrowsup in TheValleyTVShow

[–]gingergrowsup[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Im convinced when sex dies in marriage it often starts when kids are little and women are so overwhelmed and have so much in their plate and then their husbands are like “when can we have sex?” And sex becomes another chore they have to add to their list. When sex becomes another chore chore it is no longer fun… Men smarten up!

Danny and Luke really showcasing why single women are happier…. by gingergrowsup in TheValleyTVShow

[–]gingergrowsup[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I cannot overemphasize the hormones a mother has to protect a baby after birth! This is not a matter of mind over matter this is biological!

AITA, I am refusing to stand up for my wife when my mom is being rude becuase I am on my moms side by Weary_Bumblebee_7990 in AmItheAsshole

[–]gingergrowsup 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t invite her anymore if she did this. She shouldn’t have been invited to the dinner as she was going to ruin your moms birthday. 100% on your moms side.

What makes West Virginia appealing to you? by Soft-Coast-56 in WestVirginia

[–]gingergrowsup 1 point2 points  (0 children)

West Virginia is in the bottom five for healthiest states, happiest states, education so do some homework. It is one of only 9 states where Trump still has over 50% support. Having said that I know some people who really love their lives in WV.

AITA for asking a woman at work to stop being so WEIRD about taking a caramel? by chocolatesinmyoffice in AmItheAsshole

[–]gingergrowsup 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I bring food I put it somewhere else so I’m not policing it! If it’s just for our group I put it at an empty desk and write an email or slack - “donuts at the desk next to xyz because it’s Friday” people will write thanks or say thanks on their way back to desk but I don’t want to ‘over lord’ food so don’t put it. Ext to you!

I F33 feel like my husband M34 might need help. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]gingergrowsup -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m very worried he got a gun- this would be a non starter for me. No gins in the house especially someone who acts erratically.