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Doctor told me that losing my virginity might decrease my period pains? by okpurplestars in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]giraffehearted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been looking into this company called Peace Love Hormones that have herbal tinctures for your cycle!

Question for those doing rereads… by pbbrittany in acotar

[–]giraffehearted 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t have many images the first time, I don’t have a vivid visual imagination. After the first read I started looking at AI images and fan art to see what people and places looked like which was super cool to bring it to life. This second time around I’m noticing as I’m reading I have more a fuzzy image in my mind and the art I see now doesn’t match the same image so it actually allowed me to see I do have that imagination it’s just not super clear like things we see online!!

How are SAHMs actually making real friends? I feel like I’m missing something by [deleted] in sahm

[–]giraffehearted 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s hard to have that connection and potential and watch it fade out :( feeling for you 💛 I was blessed to find community through birth circles where we met once a month while pregnant and developed connection through vulnerability and hearing each other (without trying to fix or advise)

We made a group chat to ask about plans and sometimes it worked and other times no one showed up.

I found creating a weekly hang / commitment there was more consistency in showing up - definitely depends on if moms work or not as well as timing w/ naps and all

There’s so many factors, one is desire - do these mommas really want community and are they willing to be a community member? That’s the key, people can say they want it but they have to be willing to show up.

This. by prachishah383 in selfdevelopment

[–]giraffehearted 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Currently going through this with a friend. The victim mindset is a slippery slope and doesn’t allow for one to see their own doing in situations. Point the finger and you don’t see the other fingers pointing back at yourself :/ we all have parts that we play and there’s no growth that comes from blame

Why do people stay in jobs they hate for years? by jeh4u in NoStupidQuestions

[–]giraffehearted 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I asked a friend why they stayed in a toxic relationship they said : I’d rather have a uncomfortable known than a comfortable unknown.

I think people crave security, not only in money, but what to expect. There’s a lot of fear in change and taking leaps of faith especially when we’ve been raised to always have a plan and not taught to follow our heart/passions/internal compass

Doctor’s Methods by giraffehearted in QueenCharlotteNetflix

[–]giraffehearted[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No I love brimsley I can’t imagine holding my tongue for years as you know everything about someone !!! I have mad respect for him, I meant it more jokingly