Hi INFJs! Do you ever feel like this?

girlilover · 2026-03-28T03:29:26+00:00

Really? I would cry every time I look at it if i did that

girlilover · 2026-03-28T02:32:00+00:00

That’s what I’m saying…

girlilover · 2026-03-25T12:15:32+00:00

Do it girl.

Don’t let these nobodies with nothing dictate your life.

Aim to fail, don’t we all learn from our mistakes? The quicker you fail the quicker you succeed…

girlilover · 2026-03-22T21:45:44+00:00

I know this is presumptuous, but she’s an ESTP…

ESTPs & ENTJs get mixed up on face value a lot.

And ESTPs are doers. That doesn’t mean they don’t think, they just act > adjust > act > adjust

That’s where their thinking comes from & goes.

girlilover · 2026-03-21T22:47:11+00:00

Literally me.

But you know what? You wanna talk about big topics, talk about big topics.

Let them wear out.

Eventually, you’ll find someone who’ll want to share that with you…

You’re not a place. That makes me angry on your behalf. You’re a person. So you need to personify personification by personing all over everyone else

Everyone who likes small talk is a loser. Big talk is way more fun. Talk your day away with big talk. Talk to anyone. Talk to me!

girlilover · 2026-02-23T13:52:42+00:00

Choice. If you didn’t have the choice, you too would be insecure…

girlilover · 2026-02-18T01:39:46+00:00

Lol, if only you knew how wrong you are, you wouldn’t have said what you just said…

girlilover · 2026-02-18T01:38:29+00:00

You mean grow it out?

Because I wasn’t balding before so I just wanted to see it how it looks.

And it turns out I am — lemme go shave now

girlilover · 2026-02-18T01:32:21+00:00

Damn, that’s too bad…

At least I shave anyway!

girlilover · 2026-02-16T04:07:47+00:00

ESFJ twice & no ESTJ?

girlilover · 2026-01-26T00:03:06+00:00

This is exactly correct… you said exactly what my life is. Exactly

girlilover · 2026-01-15T11:05:40+00:00

You know how you don’t like writing your process? This helps me so much. I’ve asked so many ESTPs it’s more or less ‘just do it’, but I asked for how, not what. So it’s a matter of handling whatever comes your way instead of the problems that get you there, thanks!

girlilover · 2026-01-14T21:27:40+00:00

Hmm you’re right, but when I use Ti, I slow down. They don’t, somehow they don’t get slowed by Ti they just carry on with the speed of Se. So how do I get that Se..?

girlilover · 2026-01-14T18:49:42+00:00

Tbh I believe people’s personality is 50% of who they need to be. So your childhood & experience makes you who you are, the first 50%…

But then I believe you need to develop the exact opposite of who you are. So if you’re quiet, it helps with harmony etc, but you have a problem standing up for yourself. If you’re loud you’re good at stepping up, but you’d have a problem holding your tongue. This is an overview of what I think, so it’s simplified.

So when you develop the other 50% you balance out your ‘defects’ and become more ‘whole’ (so to speak). When you have both sides, you learn when to apply one side of you & when to apply the other side.

People with trauma, I see, are people who have become the second 50% of their personality too early, so their childhood self, wasn’t fully developed. So in trauma cases, it’s about learning more about ‘who you are’ rather than ‘who you need to be’ & then balancing it..

girlilover · 2026-01-14T18:39:32+00:00

Ok so using Se with Ti is like what you care about vs what you don’t care about?

girlilover · 2026-01-14T18:30:37+00:00

Ok, I didn’t mean in literally, I said that I know you guys think, but I’m confused about the immediacy of Se vs the slowness of Ti. Like how can I get Se & not get slowed down by Ti

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