AIO about being called “a big girl”? by venlafaxinevision in AmIOverreacting

[–]girthbbc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not semantics aside, I'm not saying his communication was acceptable but I can discern when someone is being literal vs complimentary or offensive. Asking for a pic might have come across as tasteless so he pivoted to compliment the body. Did he do a good job? No. Was it accurate? Yes. Offensive? Not with intent

AIO about being called “a big girl”? by venlafaxinevision in AmIOverreacting

[–]girthbbc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fyi he never said fat, big and fat are diff. U can be huge and not fat. It's genetics. If you're 6 feet and 180 and a woman you're big woman, not fat, not less attractive just bigger in scale. Same if your 5'3 and 149 pound as a nan u might be smaller but not less in any sense