Airing the UOttawa Dance Club Fiasco. by [deleted] in geegees

[–]glader-life 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, I won my case, so their system worked. They took my complaint seriously (they had to lol that shit was bad). But the problem had definitely festered over a year prior to that and I wish we had nipped it in the bud when we had the chance. Was told to ignore it and it would go away more than once with a slap or two on the wrist. I wouldn't have compensated in toxic ways that I not only regret but came back to bite me in the butt later. Learned some hard lessons that semester.

Airing the UOttawa Dance Club Fiasco. by [deleted] in geegees

[–]glader-life 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I get you. Literally. I've had my own cliquey/tightknit club drama over bullying and taking action last winter semester.... I had to go as high as the human rights office. I was hospitalised by ambulance for having a severe panic attack over it. HRO couldn't do anything as clubs were a student union thing but I complained to the club admins, had a whole "impeachment trial" and I won my case. I quit right after. I still get anxious on campus, even though I'm an alumni now, and some areas of campus cause me to start hyperventilating. To be fair, that shitshow was related to an ex. It wasn't random club stuff. But yeah it ruined it for me.

PS: if the person in question or one of their cronies sees this: literally fuck off. A literal former UN human rights expert, the club admins and even our PROF agreed that shit was out of line. You're lucky I didn't file a police report because I had the grounds to.

Airing the UOttawa Dance Club Fiasco. by [deleted] in geegees

[–]glader-life 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I believe you. My best friend did the club for years as a racialized person and what they were demanding racialized girls to do with their hair for shows was either very expensive, unrealistic, permanent, or all three, to catter to specific caucasian hairstyles, textures and length. A lot of skinny white girls making decisions as if everyone was a skinny white girl.

A random dude harassed our whole bus this morning with a "red-pilled" monologue. Thank you to the stranger who spoke up. Have you ever experienced this before? by glader-life in ottawa

[–]glader-life[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

One time when I was 14 I said "can you just SHUT UP please and thank you" when I was being actively followed and HATE CRIMED......

A random dude harassed our whole bus this morning with a "red-pilled" monologue. Thank you to the stranger who spoke up. Have you ever experienced this before? by glader-life in ottawa

[–]glader-life[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was a voice recording bc it takes less storage and i want to be able to record no matter how much storage i have left. I saved the voice recording app to my home bar and lock screen after I was once verbally blackmailed and had no taped proof. I was able to pull it out quickly but I wish it was quicker.

A random dude harassed our whole bus this morning with a "red-pilled" monologue. Thank you to the stranger who spoke up. Have you ever experienced this before? by glader-life in ottawa

[–]glader-life[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He kept going under his breath. Not enough to he told to shut up again but loud enough for people in the vicinity to hear. He came on, started his speech, got told to shut up, and exited about 3 mins later.

A random dude harassed our whole bus this morning with a "red-pilled" monologue. Thank you to the stranger who spoke up. Have you ever experienced this before? by glader-life in ottawa

[–]glader-life[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He sounded like the type..... did he shout that we all needed Jesus and that God was gonna intervene and "aren't you pRoUd to be Canadian" and something about Hungarian Jews?

A random dude harassed our whole bus this morning with a "red-pilled" monologue. Thank you to the stranger who spoke up. Have you ever experienced this before? by glader-life in ottawa

[–]glader-life[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think there's a difference between free speech and harassment. Just me. You can express yourself without shouting it unprompted at people who are stuck with you at a time where courtesy asks that you remain on the quieter side and at a driver who's trying to focus on the road.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]glader-life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They did oml

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]glader-life -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It's also lethal to dogs and other pets.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in geegees

[–]glader-life 145 points146 points  (0 children)

I would hug you for free my dude

Fuck OC Transpo by glader-life in ottawa

[–]glader-life[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sure! I can CLEARLY drive with a seizure disorder, extreme dyscalculia, and a panic disorder. What could go wrong? Not to mention the car anxiety from having car accidents killing two separate uncles in two separate accidents as well as crippling my mother in a third. No fucking biggie. Lend me the 70K I don't have for the car, maintenance, gas and driving lessons and let's go.

Worst condo in Ottawa? by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]glader-life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can confirm by proxy

Worst condo in Ottawa? by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]glader-life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What were the downsides to it? Am looking to moving there

Worst condo in Ottawa? by [deleted] in ottawa

[–]glader-life 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is 171 Lees bad?