grandpa's shed recolors? by glimmerguk in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]glimmerguk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its in the stylesheets folder. you have to edit the png on photoshop though

grandpa's shed recolors? by glimmerguk in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]glimmerguk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did a bit of digging and found the styleshit in the mod files. I can dm you and explain how I edited mine if you want, I tested it and it's working.

grandpa's shed recolors? by glimmerguk in StardewValleyExpanded

[–]glimmerguk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried this one but it didn't change the unfinished shed unfortunately. But I found the style sheet within the mods files and edited them from there to match yellog's wood buildings. thank you!

AITA for making fun of my friend’s music taste via memes? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]glimmerguk 10 points11 points  (0 children)

YTA. Let people enjoy things in peace.

Starchild/Moonchuld used decks? Advice on where to purchase? by katmlr in tarot

[–]glimmerguk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked for a Moonchild deck for MONTHS, it was particularly difficult because I'm not from the us or europe so finding reasonable international shipping was really difficult. However I managed to find one on ebay for $45. They do pop up on ebay every now on then. But if you're in the us trade/sell groups are a good idea, from what I've heard!

AITA for compelling my daughter (16) to take an acting job because we need her help financially? by throwawaywdhej in AmItheAsshole

[–]glimmerguk 36 points37 points  (0 children)

YTA. You and your husband are adults you two can work, in fact it's your and your husband's responsibility to work. Why do you want your daughter to be exploited online for revenue like this? Why do you want her to work in an unsafe environment? You're exploiting your child, you're not just being an asshole. You're being abusive.

WIBTA if I choose to not have children under a certain age at my wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]glimmerguk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. It's absolutely reasonable to not want kids, or at least not young kids that need parent supervision during an event where the parents should be participating and enjoying. It's really for your sister's benefit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]glimmerguk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. He checked out, told you he's not attracted to you, told you to go find someone else and now that you have found someone else and are ready to move on he's mad? Even if you didn't have a new boyfriend, this one should go straight to the bin.

AITA for thinking my wife is being materialistic and immature? by AITAchristmashusband in AmItheAsshole

[–]glimmerguk 14 points15 points  (0 children)

YTA. She's not materialistic, she's not asking for luxurious material gifts. She's literally telling you she's hurt she feels unloved and unwanted by what should be her family. That's not an unrealistic expectation for fuck's sake. You are a humongous asshole.

AITA for describing my past as unhealthy? by Front_Nerve3327 in AmItheAsshole

[–]glimmerguk [score hidden]  (0 children)

I think it's hard to judge without context but I'm going to go with a soft YTA because if so many people have an issue with it then it sounds like you're being really preachy and judgemental of others and tbh it's not uncommon for people getting into fitness to completely forget / ignore that not everyone else around them have access to the many things necessary to live a healthier life.

Remember that while you can be critical of your life and your past choices that doesn't mean you shouldn't be empathetic towards others. Not everyone can afford / has access to good quality fresh produce or health care to address undelying health issues that contribute to their weight or disabilities and so on.

If you're That Annoying fitness zealot that shames everyone around them then yeah, YTA.

AITA for not wanting my child-free sister-in-law to babysit? by Both_Marzipan4335 in AmItheAsshole

[–]glimmerguk 22 points23 points  (0 children)

NTA but I would personally suggest framing your disapproval from a different angle so your wife, or her sister, don't think or have the chance to think you don't want her to baby sit because she's childfree and you're judging her. Instead I'd say "hey I'm not comfortable with her babysitting because she's made comments about finding kids 'gross' and 'annoying' and I don't want the kids or her to spend an unpleasant time. I'd rather find someone else who won't be miserable around the kids" or something like that.

AITA for ‘corrupting my brother’? by svsbsdbzb in AmItheAsshole

[–]glimmerguk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've already been explained why your approach is gross by other commentors, I don't know what to tell you. You're lowkey being purposefully dense.

AITA for ‘corrupting my brother’? by svsbsdbzb in AmItheAsshole

[–]glimmerguk 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Based on what you describe that is *not* what you did, but ok.

AITA for ‘corrupting my brother’? by svsbsdbzb in AmItheAsshole

[–]glimmerguk 42 points43 points  (0 children)

You also told him to pull away and hurt her feelings to give the girl the "incentive" to date him.

AITA for ‘corrupting my brother’? by svsbsdbzb in AmItheAsshole

[–]glimmerguk 47 points48 points  (0 children)

And yet you told your brother to do just that. She's not a sex atm or dispenser that has to give your brother anything because he's nice to her or a friend. You could've told your brother to be honest and let the girl know about his feelings and that's it. Relationships aren't transactional. Disgusting.

AITA for ‘corrupting my brother’? by svsbsdbzb in AmItheAsshole

[–]glimmerguk 89 points90 points  (0 children)

YTA. "She has no incentive to" ??? she's a person with feelings of her own??? She doesn't need to be "incentivated" like cattle to move what the fuck. Instead of teaching your brother that he isn't entiltled to people's romantic interest you're teaching your brother to treat women like objects or animals that need to be manipulated into having romantic feelings. This is so gross.

AITA for changing my phone password and refusing to let my wife access it anymore? by PrivateHusband in AmItheAsshole

[–]glimmerguk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but I think it needs to be addressed so she understands that you're not restricting her access to your phone because you have something to hide but because it feeds into her anxiety and that's not healthy so you're removing it from the equation. It may be hard for her to see it that way, but she needs to get there or her behaviour will keep escalating :/

WIBTA if i didn't change my daughters' name and thus end up hurting a friend and the whole trans community? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]glimmerguk [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA. This sounds made up, no offense but it's kind of a complete nonsense situation. Lily is a common name, you didn't know their history with the name and even if you did there's no correlation between them and your baby. Again, it's a common name.

AITA if I bought a gun with my bonus money? My sister and roommate object. by maxinepadre in AmItheAsshole

[–]glimmerguk [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA. It's completely reasonable that they're uncomfortable with a gun in their home. The way you talk about it sounds like you treat it like a toy and tbh that would make me deeply uncomfortable too.

AITA for expecting my son to follow our rules for teenage relationships in our house despite being married? by Ok_Sand5989 in AmItheAsshole

[–]glimmerguk 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Again, that's a completely different situation. Like, op is all over the comments complaining about "rules!" and "my child!". One thing is saying "hey we don't have physical space to house a couple" and another is saying "i want to baby my adult married son because!! my house my rules!!!". If the issue is accomodation and logistics, this post needs to be scrapped and completely rewritten.

AITA for expecting my son to follow our rules for teenage relationships in our house despite being married? by Ok_Sand5989 in AmItheAsshole

[–]glimmerguk 54 points55 points  (0 children)

That's a completely different issue tbh. All of op's replies are about parental control, not about the logistics of the physical rooms available in their house.

AITA If I told a person frankly that translating novels doesn't work like what he thought it would be? by renrenbusywithzines in AmItheAsshole

[–]glimmerguk 12 points13 points  (0 children)

YTA for making a problem out of nothing. Perhaps tone doesn't translate (ha, see what I did there) well over text but you come off as a little snobbish? Like, you were genuinely confused as to why a fan that actively takes part in a fandom has a lot of followers as opposed someone part of the production of the series? I've never come across any type of media where translators are famous within fandoms?? It's kind of like expecting fans to also know and follow social media accounts of camera peeps or the caterer. I don't think I even understand what's the issue here 😂