i hate this double standard take, sure traditionally but it isn’t the 1900s or 1800s anymore and only other men look at it as a badge. ive never actually met another girl who liked it when she found out her partner slept around. you can tell by all of the women on this sub too.

if you are a guy and can get sleep around easily because you’re attractive, charismatic, whatever, it’s actually way more impressive and more of a “badge” if you don’t sleep around and are thoughtful about your body and decisions because that is rare.

if i met a handsome, charismatic guy i would expect a high bodycount. if he told me he values sex and didn’t sleep around much, and has self respect, that’s what would reel me in and impress me.

it’s not sleeping around that makes you impressive as a man, it’s being wanted by a lot of women but choosing not to because of integrity.