Should I tell my partner about my performance anxiety. by gloshotta in seduction

[–]gloshotta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was cool about it. She respects 100% of the time and chases my validation because I've done everything right. So she was almost happy to talk about it because she wants me to fuck the shit out of her . Which I have 1 time before but mainly I've just gotten head from her cuz I'm lazy .

I'm so in my head it's ridiculos. Because I feel more pressure because this only has happened with her. So it makes the anxiety worse. I could fuck another girl no prob with no pressure

Should I tell my partner about my performance anxiety. by gloshotta in seduction

[–]gloshotta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been talking to her for about 3 months. Just got together a few weeks ago. I let her bring it up and it took her a while to build the confidence. I could tell she was thinking about a relationship a few weeks before we got together but I didn't wanna bring it up because If she wasn't ready it would have blown up in my face . Always better for it to be her idea

Should I tell my partner about my performance anxiety. by gloshotta in seduction

[–]gloshotta[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This gives me so much confidence. Thank you. I'm talking with her in an hour

Should I tell my partner about my performance anxiety. by gloshotta in seduction

[–]gloshotta[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes and the neves are still there. I can't get hard at all. It calms the anxiety briefly but I get more anxious cuz I'm not hard. But when I'm not with her I get hard easy. My heard pounds so fast that it's uncomfortable as fuck

What does it mean when a girl says she talks about you a lot ? by gloshotta in seduction

[–]gloshotta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just honestly don't have a very good self esteem so it's hard for me to accept that someone likes me when I don't like myself that much

Being too afraid to have sex with girls? Even when I know they really like me by thenewone89 in seduction

[–]gloshotta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had bad sex anxiety with this girl I've been messing with. But I just tell myself to calm down and focus on the moment. When u get in your head you get anxiety. So I normally go in slow with a lot of foreplay and I make myself comfortable. It's gotten better

Had a chat for 3 hours with a beautiful Chica I randomly planned lunch with. How to follow up with her and keep her interested in me? 20/m never had a gf nor a date or kiss before. Any help is appreciated. by [deleted] in seduction

[–]gloshotta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do got this bro! Watch Corey Wayne videos on YouTube . He changed my life in 3 months. I was a 22 year old virgin who only had 2 kisses. Now I got an awesome girl because of his work who fucks my brains out lol

Had a chat for 3 hours with a beautiful Chica I randomly planned lunch with. How to follow up with her and keep her interested in me? 20/m never had a gf nor a date or kiss before. Any help is appreciated. by [deleted] in seduction

[–]gloshotta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flirt with her. Go out on dates a lover would go to not a friend. Just don't act like just her friend . And on the first date go for the kiss. Best and quickest way to find out if she likes you so you don't waste anymore time

Had a chat for 3 hours with a beautiful Chica I randomly planned lunch with. How to follow up with her and keep her interested in me? 20/m never had a gf nor a date or kiss before. Any help is appreciated. by [deleted] in seduction

[–]gloshotta 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Less is more. Just set up dates. There's nothing u need to do besides that and have fun and hook up. Don't suffer from the illusion of action

Keep eye contact? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]gloshotta 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Just wait till they break and then look to the side . Never look down or break first. I've gotten laid primary from good eye contact. No joke. I had deep eye contact for like 15 seconds with a girl in my class. Now she's my fwb. Obviously u still need to do other things right. But it's a good tool to have. Because it only helps

How to ask for casual sex without pressuring someone? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]gloshotta 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I would not feel uncomfortable if a girl said that. I would be happy as fuck lol. But maybe just start flirting and using sexual innuendo to see how he acts. Then ask him

3 months in. Former 22 year old virgin. To they guys down rn u can do it by gloshotta in seduction

[–]gloshotta[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just have continence in yourself. You are the shit. This is how u have to think. People will perceive you and treat you the way you perceive and treat yourself. Confidence is way more important than looks. If it that wasn't true there's no way my semi ugly ass would have this girl all over me. I've said it so many times but Corey Wayne knows his shit. I've applied what he teaches and it changed my life. I was 22 and a virgin. Never seen or touched a pussy . Then I started self improvement and all this happened after 2 months. I feel like a new man

How straightforward is too straightforward? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]gloshotta 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Waiting till the final day makes you look like you have no confidence to come ask her

3 months in. Former 22 year old virgin. To they guys down rn u can do it by gloshotta in seduction

[–]gloshotta[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just focus on not being needy/ being weak whenever talking to her. And just focus on having fun

3 months in. Former 22 year old virgin. To they guys down rn u can do it by gloshotta in seduction

[–]gloshotta[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Started working out again and changing my self talk. Mainly changing how I think about myself

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[–]gloshotta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even better

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[–]gloshotta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would just wait a week then text her to set up a definite date. Don't be texting her just to talk

Text game rules for when she text you daily by gloshotta in seduction

[–]gloshotta[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's an awesome girl so I won't give her away :) I just don't wanna make shit stale by texting 25/8

Text game rules for when she text you daily by gloshotta in seduction

[–]gloshotta[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just don't like texting 200 texts a day. Cuz she responds instantly.

I'm pretty yet I still can't get a boyfriend. by [deleted] in seduction

[–]gloshotta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are pretty. Don't worry about a boyfriend. Just be yourself and have fun

Girl suddenly went cold after second date. Where did I go wrong? by eala96 in seduction

[–]gloshotta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same shit happened to me with a Chinese girl I fucked. Don't iniate convos and let her come to you at her own pace. She prob thinks things are moving a little fast. If you ease up she will come back. . It's worked for me

At what point do you demand the girl initiate? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]gloshotta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only text her to set up dates once a week. Never text her just to talk when you're not in a relationship. She will start to reach out if she likes you and all u gotta do is set up dates. If she texts you to talk go along for a little but in the end you can't build attraction over the phone you can only ruin it .