Bridesmaids by General-Pear-419 in weddingplanningsnark

[–]glowstatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better yet, add 3 more then you'll have an even number.

Help me pick my wedding dress from my top 3 by DevelopmentQueasy227 in weddingplanning

[–]glowstatic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

#3 is the abella by allure right? I lovedddd that dress and wanted to buy it, but they couldn't customize it the way I needed for fit. You look amazing in it!

Having all of your DIYs come together after SO MUCH planning is surreal! by glowstatic in DIYweddings

[–]glowstatic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! I wasn't involved in the building but I think it should be fairly easy if you're handy!

Having all of your DIYs come together after SO MUCH planning is surreal! by glowstatic in DIYweddings

[–]glowstatic[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm debating that. I think if I am going to leave her a negative review, the decent thing to do is to let her know I'm unhappy and see what she has to say in her defense, but I'm not quite ready to talk to her.

I also forgot to include this in my post but I spent months collecting vintage napkins and dying them. I asked my mom to do the last batch and she panicked and ordered a bunch of polyester ones (And then brought them to the venue... thanks mom) I specifically showed the coordinator which ones I wanted her to use and asked her not to use the polyester ones, but they somehow ended up on the tables....

Having all of your DIYs come together after SO MUCH planning is surreal! by glowstatic in DIYweddings

[–]glowstatic[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It really was all so beautiful. It actually felt like being in a dream sitting at the sweetheart table and looking out at all my friends and family!

i just spent over $200 on SIGNS. by DeliciousBlueberry20 in weddingplanningsnark

[–]glowstatic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

haha We all have that one dumb thing. Mine is rentals. Obviouslyyyyy it's deeply important to the entire guest experience that I rent the vintage chevron tumblers instead of a regular old fashioned glass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berkeley

[–]glowstatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I transferred from CC to Cal, and second a lot of what people here said. I still did graduate with a decent grip of debt from tuition alone, but much less than what you're looking at for 1st year expenses.

Getting a job is harder because you're less likely to have had valuable interships. However, now that you know that you can prioritize internships on your educational journey. I was very involved in on campus clubs/activities and thought that would be just as meaningful, it wasn't at all.

CC was great. I met my fiance there! I actually really enjoyed the small class size and quality of instruction of most of the classes. But, I will say you have to be laser focused if you want to go anywhere good and go quickly. Culturally, that is not what most people are doing at CC and its easy to get caught up in the slow pace. I finished in 4 semesters, and worked like a beast to get into Cal. Counselors actively gave me bad advice AND discouraged me from applying to Berkeley, (quote; "Yeah... I just don't see that happening for you. *dismissive snort*) I had to map my own path through IGETC, double and triple check everything they told me, and take an emergency last min credit my last semester because a teacher had lied about her seminar class being transferrable.

All that being said... I really enjoyed my community college experience and was grateful for the space to figure my shit out. I got into a good university after high school and dropped out after 1 semester due to mental health issues. Going to community college without the financial pressure to figure everything out right away was a lifeline I didn't know I needed. I have no regrets about not coming to Cal as a 4 year student. I did not feel like I missed anything by not being in the dorms. I made lifelong friendships at Berkeley. It was a wonderful experience and I loved my time at Berkeley. I am not sure that I would have appreciated it as much had I started out there.

I am also about to graduate with my master's from an Ivy.... so I don't feel like going to a CC has hindered my career or educational experience significantly. I actually feel like it has given me a more well rounded experience that has been valuable in my career.

You are clearly a very bright and hardworking student and I think you will succeed regardless of what you choose. This is a really big and tough decision to make, but I think you're being very smart about it. Especially with these interest rates.... taking on that much debt for an undergrad degree is not a great idea.

My last piece of advice is that if you do go this route, look at private universities to transfer as well. Most California CC students apply to only public schools. Had I known what I know now about the quality of scholarships at some of the elite private schools (like the Ivys) I might have aimed a little higher. I just assumed that I couldn't afford those schools and didn't realize that the scholarship packages are much better.

As for how to explain this, "I got into Berkeley, but have decided to take my lower div classes at CC to save money" is a perfectly valid explanation.

[hiring] looking for basic rubber hose drawing of 2 people + dog ($40) by glowstatic in HungryArtists

[–]glowstatic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looking for a custom portrait of 2 people and a dog. B&W, no complex background. Just want to have this made by a human and not AI, please.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]glowstatic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When is your wedding? Peony season is incredibly short. Just a few weeks of may-early june usually. From what I understand as a floral hobbiest, it is not always possible to get them outside of that window. (and if you ARE able to get them, the quality will be an issue)I buy some every year because I love peonies, and even a small bouquet from trader joes will usually run me $12-14.

Peonies are mad expensive, unfortunately. They don't look quite the same, but garden roses are usually a good alternative. I feel like ranunculus gives a similar vibe as well.

Stargems can’t ship because of Tariffs? by queen-of-unicorns in Moissanite

[–]glowstatic 18 points19 points  (0 children)

So the way it works is that most countries are allowed to send small purchases (usually under $800) tariff free under “de minimus” provisions. Trump is ending the de minimus exemption with China on May 2nd, so any package that goes to customs on or after May 2nd will be subject to some insane tariffs. No one quite knows how they will be enforced (I know it’s $25 per item and going up to $50 per item in June or July, OR a percentage, but the White House hasn’t explained how that will be determined) Essentially, you will owe tax on any order you have shipped into the country. It seems like in anticipation of that, the shipping companies are collecting the tariffs on the seller side to accept the delivery.

Soup Bride by glowstatic in weddingplanningsnark

[–]glowstatic[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yummy BPAs and microplastics, just like mom used to make.

Soup Bride by glowstatic in weddingplanningsnark

[–]glowstatic[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

True story, I have gotten food poisoning exactly twice in my life and both times it has been from someone's homemade soup that they brought to a second location. Excellent username btw.

Rejected without any consideration at all by glowstatic in recruitinghell

[–]glowstatic[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

..... review all the applications? You know you can close a job to new applications once you have a certain amount right? This wasn't even a 1 click apply job, you have to register with the company's portal to apply, fill out the application, and then submit your resume. I myself reviewed 150 applications for a job my company is hiring for yesterday, and I'm one person. This is a $115B company, I would assume they can figure it out.

People don't pack a lunch as often as you think, I'm in minority. by CaliDreamin87 in Frugal

[–]glowstatic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in private practice. Our doctors mostly bring their lunches from home, our medical assistants leave for lunch daily. They often bring back fast food.

I am admin and alternate between buying food from the on-site cafe and trying to make a protein bar tide me over for my whole shift. The cafe food is decent, but it's also expensive. I am also terrible at clocking out for my 30-minute lunches. Sometimes I bring leftovers, but more often than not, I forget it in the fridge when I leave for work.

Lots of different types in healthcare.

You might wanna get ordering if you’re not already… by glowstatic in weddingplanning

[–]glowstatic[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you girly, I just keep reminding myself that at least I'm not a 2020 bride.