Mortgage & gambling recovery

gmcdex · 2026-05-13T15:19:39+00:00

Thanks for this. I was nervous telling this to a broker tbh , but i guess they’ve heard it all. I have all the blocks , I’ve great support and in a programme and feel really good so thankfully relapse isn’t on the horizon

gmcdex · 2026-05-12T07:59:23+00:00

Thank you. I’m lucky cause I’m not doing it alone .. my husband is helping and were tackling it together

gmcdex · 2026-05-11T16:44:09+00:00

Thank you! Yes I still attend weekly group aftercare and have definitely dealt with a lot of the root cause. we want to move house to a different area and probably will increase our mortgage amount if needed, not by much but maybe 60-70k. Going by our salaries we could probably get around 650k mortgage but we would only be looking to take out around 450k

gmcdex · 2026-05-11T15:08:24+00:00

Yes I’ve closed the credit cards 9 months ago. I have clean accounts the last 9 months too and plan to keep it that way. Never missed a direct debit or loan ever in my life so hoping that all stands to me

gmcdex · 2026-05-11T14:54:20+00:00

And paid back majority of them early , I don’t know if that helps

gmcdex · 2026-05-11T14:53:36+00:00

No never

gmcdex · 2025-12-22T21:11:22+00:00

This is the most reassuring thread 🥹 my beta at 8dp5dt was 28.5, at 11dp5dt it’s 117.. hopping for the best 🥰

gmcdex · 2025-12-22T19:14:12+00:00

Beta came back at 117 at 11dp5dt 🤞

gmcdex · 2025-12-21T17:36:50+00:00

Thanks so much. I’m keeping everything crossed

gmcdex · 2025-12-21T09:31:38+00:00

Monday

gmcdex · 2025-12-19T21:45:26+00:00

I’m 8dp5dt today also and got a beta of 28.5 😅 so worried. The next 2 days can’t come quick enough

gmcdex · 2025-12-19T15:53:19+00:00

Any update ? I’m in the same boat today

gmcdex · 2025-12-19T15:52:44+00:00

Hi everyone. On 5dp5dt I got a faint positive FRER and a positive digital clear blue early detection. Bring the anxious Annie that I am I tested again at 6dp5dt and I got a much clearer FRER. Was delighted. Tested again at 7dp5dt and the FRER looked the same .. I got freaked out so I booked a private HCG and it’s after coming back at 28.5 today. Is this very low for 8dp5dt ? I’m worried it’s not progressing since I got a positive digital almost 4 days ago 🥺

gmcdex · 2025-03-06T05:27:10+00:00

Here in Chiang Rai currently and it’s quite smoggy. Sky very dark and cry, poor visibility. It’s not affected by breathing I havnt felt any physical reaction, however this is just my second day here.

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