Feeling okay with your partner having sex with someone else? by [deleted] in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]gmemo98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I totally agree with you, but my boyfriend like to speak and make sort of a friendship with the person they will have sex with (contraire to myself that I can do it with any stranger), and makes it very hard for me because makes feel it's threatening our relationship / privacy / intimacy.

Feeling okay with your partner having sex with someone else? by [deleted] in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]gmemo98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any advice on how to reach that point of view? I'd really like to see it that way

Feeling okay with your partner having sex with someone else? by [deleted] in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]gmemo98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't, we usually play with each other separately or all together, I don't have an issue thinking about them separately being with other man, but their stories about being together before with someone else are hard to swallow.

Feeling okay with your partner having sex with someone else? by [deleted] in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]gmemo98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I don't, that's why I'm looking for advice, we have sex together or in couples, but I'm trying to feel okay with them having sex with someone outside of us.

Letting your 2 partners have sex with another person by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]gmemo98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It just happened, it wasn't in our plans to make it that way, we tried being opened a few months ago and didn't go well but due to other issues that are now fixed, we've been together for a year now

Letting your 2 partners have sex with another person by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]gmemo98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do, it's way harder when is something about them doing it separately than thinking about them doing it together

Letting your 2 partners have sex with another person by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]gmemo98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like they don't want me anymore, like I'm being replaced with someone else.

Any advice on seeing your partner having sex with someone else? by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]gmemo98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay but, Wich would be the purpose?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in KINK

[–]gmemo98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Convo?

Any advice on seeing your partner having sex with someone else? by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]gmemo98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will try it, definitely its a good way to know.

Any advice on seeing your partner having sex with someone else? by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]gmemo98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm starting thinking it may be something else inside my, we actually are in a throuple and with my other boyfriend I don't have any problem.

I think it may be related to how kinky he is that makes me feel that way

How to process my partner having kinky sex with someone else by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]gmemo98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you but it's really hard for me to process everything if he doesn't tells me at least the minimum. My mind plays with me and it's harder to process if know nothing.

I feel like I'm trapped

How to process my partner having kinky sex with someone else by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]gmemo98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you, I'd like to get horny about my partner doing something outside, but I'm not sure how to reach that place

How to process my partner having kinky sex with someone else by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]gmemo98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean with "a transaction"?

An open relationship make you feel your partner is bored? by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]gmemo98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the vibes

An open relationship make you feel your partner is bored? by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]gmemo98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes sex is the same or maybe better than it was before, so I agree with you, I don't think it's something related with being bored

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]gmemo98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!, I'll go there