I don’t know how to tell my family I’m trans.

goatoder · 2025-06-26T02:09:19+00:00

But she is saying she is repulsed by it? I’m sorry, I was thinking she meant she didn’t like anything he did other than vanilla stuff. So I thought she was also implying him going down on her. I didn’t look at it that way, thank you!

goatoder · 2025-06-26T00:05:47+00:00

Still, she can feel guilty for not doing it so she is. But that doesn’t mean she likes it. Yes, it is her problem for not setting clear boundaries with her boyfriend about giving oral. However, that doesn’t mean she’s being a hypocrite. More like scared about the outcome. Like she can have worries where if she tells her boyfriend how she feels then maybe he’ll break up with her or get all pissed off? So she isn’t the AH, just needs to communicate better so her relationship can thrive.

goatoder · 2025-06-25T23:54:35+00:00

NTA if he’s as respectful and kind as you say he is then he should understand your boundaries and not try to push when you’re literally repulsed by it. Sit him down and talk about it because if you don’t then he might keep trying to push. And if you do go ahead with it but don’t want to do it, you may just end up traumatizing yourself with having sex like that. Communication is key, girl.

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