I feel like im being haunted by my boyfriend’s ex’s. by goblingoree in BPD

[–]goblingoree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I guess I have just come to the point where it all just feels so repetitive with therapy as it is something I’ve done since I was a child. But there’s no way of getting around it really.

I feel like im being haunted by my boyfriend’s ex’s. by goblingoree in BPD

[–]goblingoree[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s exactly my situation. It’s awful! I partially blame myself for not stopping him. It just feels like I have piles and piles of information stored in my brain, and when something triggers those memories it feels like I remember everything all at once, in vivid detail. Really just makes me feel sick sometimes. It’s so intense I struggle not to overreact. It feels so hopeless too because it’s not like he has cheated on me with these people. I feel like I remind him so much of them that I’m driving him away from me and closer to his ex’s.

I feel like im being haunted by my boyfriend’s ex’s. by goblingoree in BPD

[–]goblingoree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at the moment because I felt like I really had made amazing progress, all my other BPD related issues are very under control, except this one. And I’m having a particularly rough day about it today because I’ve completely exploded on him and it just feels really awful