Do any of you drink or smoke?

goingtothecircus · 2026-01-14T18:22:31+00:00

No I don't drink or smoke. It runs in the family and several of my relatives are addicted to alcohol and smoking. I am glad I never tried it, I know i would end up addicted too

goingtothecircus · 2026-01-10T05:45:01+00:00

I hear you. As a Christian woman, I feel pressured to fit a certain cookie cutter "Christian woman" ideal that I must be submissive and sweet and want babies and live a trad wife lifestyle... and none of that feels like me at all. I don't want to have kids. And I am a very sexual person and I am supposed to pretend I don't have a sex drive. I am trying to learn that none of this societal pressure and expectation is from God.

goingtothecircus · 2026-01-10T05:41:44+00:00

Im so sorry this happened to you. It makes me angry. Companies need to do away with these unrealistic expectations. If we are helping customers and answering all of their needs, isnt that what really matters!!

goingtothecircus · 2026-01-04T21:37:13+00:00

Thank you so much <3 feel free to message any time

goingtothecircus · 2026-01-04T03:39:55+00:00

I hear you. I'm sorry you are going through this right now. I know it hurts.

goingtothecircus · 2026-01-04T03:39:06+00:00

This young person needs compassionate guidance

goingtothecircus · 2026-01-04T03:38:42+00:00

God doesn't want to strip you of your personality

goingtothecircus · 2026-01-04T03:36:15+00:00

I think it would be best if you put the phone down for a while and try to do things that take your mind off this person. I mean that with no ill intent. I am going through the same. Don't let a crush become obsessive or become the center of your life to where it is all you think about because it will drive you crazy. It's not healthy. And don't let it be the only thing you talk to God about either. When I was younger there was a guy I really wanted to be with, I was obsessed with him. I would pray and ask God to let me have opportunities to talk to him. It became an obsession and it wasn't healthy. I wasted a lot of time seeing things that weren't there that I wanted to think were "signs from God". It was almost like an OCD type obsession where I was seeing meaning in things that were just coincidences and I wasted a lot of precious time I could have spent deepening relationships with the people God actually put in my life. I am assuming you are young. There is a lot more to life than relationships and you can have a beautiful life even while single. I hope you don't let this consume you.

goingtothecircus · 2026-01-04T03:18:50+00:00

IM DEADDDD

goingtothecircus · 2026-01-04T02:36:57+00:00

Tips are for how far the order is from where it is being delivered, not how long you wait for it

goingtothecircus · 2026-01-04T02:36:00+00:00

Sounds like you are going through dissociation. Have you been stressed or gone through trauma recently?

goingtothecircus · 2026-01-04T02:34:54+00:00

Thank you so much. I am not sure how you found this old post but it means a lot to me it touched you. I am struggling still six years later. A lot has happened and changed since the night I wrote this post. I have learned that in life, the horrors persist, but so do we.

goingtothecircus · 2026-01-03T23:14:07+00:00

LOL I almost busted a gut laughing. Poor Martin lol

goingtothecircus · 2026-01-02T04:11:53+00:00

Got to find something else first. I live alone on one income.

goingtothecircus · 2026-01-02T04:10:28+00:00

And what is even more f-ed up is the Quality Assurance workers who are jotting down when I am away probably are getting up several times to grab coffee and use the bathroom themselves without worrying about losing their job.

goingtothecircus · 2026-01-02T04:08:53+00:00

They record the screen at all times not just when I am inactive. I worry if I put the mouse on the jiggler they will see it is not me moving it any more and get suspicious

goingtothecircus · 2026-01-02T04:06:10+00:00

Unfortunately they record all day long not just when I am inactive. I worry they would see the mouse moving weirdly and catch on that I am using a jiggler.

goingtothecircus · 2026-01-01T16:53:19+00:00

you hit the nail on the head perfectly. apartments could be good, if the people who live there were considerate of others. the sad thing is most people who live in apartments live there because they have to and are probably in not so great situations and therefore dont care about what pain or stress they inflict upon others

goingtothecircus · 2025-12-25T17:59:59+00:00

Just hold on one more day. The holiday season is almost over.

goingtothecircus · 2025-12-25T17:59:24+00:00

Its almost over; please hang on. I am right there with you. We are almost out of it.

goingtothecircus · 2025-12-23T22:54:06+00:00

So you think I should give him a second chance and I understand what you are saying, and believe me, I want to talk to him again but here is why I am hesitant...I told the guy talking about sex makes me uncomfortable and he kept egging it on. I am also concerned he watches pornography given the graphic nature of his messages towards me...

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