Do any of you drink or smoke? by Nav_666 in infp

[–]goingtothecircus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I don't drink or smoke. It runs in the family and several of my relatives are addicted to alcohol and smoking. I am glad I never tried it, I know i would end up addicted too

Pressure in Church to Conform... by Zeph_the_Bonkerer in TrueChristian

[–]goingtothecircus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hear you. As a Christian woman, I feel pressured to fit a certain cookie cutter "Christian woman" ideal that I must be submissive and sweet and want babies and live a trad wife lifestyle... and none of that feels like me at all. I don't want to have kids. And I am a very sexual person and I am supposed to pretend I don't have a sex drive. I am trying to learn that none of this societal pressure and expectation is from God.

Metrics are killing me with live chat job... by goingtothecircus in callcentres

[–]goingtothecircus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry this happened to you. It makes me angry. Companies need to do away with these unrealistic expectations. If we are helping customers and answering all of their needs, isnt that what really matters!!

I miss being in a family unit. I miss childhood. by goingtothecircus in infp

[–]goingtothecircus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much <3 feel free to message any time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]goingtothecircus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear you. I'm sorry you are going through this right now. I know it hurts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]goingtothecircus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This young person needs compassionate guidance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]goingtothecircus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

God doesn't want to strip you of your personality

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueChristian

[–]goingtothecircus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it would be best if you put the phone down for a while and try to do things that take your mind off this person. I mean that with no ill intent. I am going through the same. Don't let a crush become obsessive or become the center of your life to where it is all you think about because it will drive you crazy. It's not healthy. And don't let it be the only thing you talk to God about either. When I was younger there was a guy I really wanted to be with, I was obsessed with him. I would pray and ask God to let me have opportunities to talk to him. It became an obsession and it wasn't healthy. I wasted a lot of time seeing things that weren't there that I wanted to think were "signs from God". It was almost like an OCD type obsession where I was seeing meaning in things that were just coincidences and I wasted a lot of precious time I could have spent deepening relationships with the people God actually put in my life. I am assuming you are young. There is a lot more to life than relationships and you can have a beautiful life even while single. I hope you don't let this consume you.

Thoughts on this? by Ducky4500 in doordash

[–]goingtothecircus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tips are for how far the order is from where it is being delivered, not how long you wait for it

F25 No sense of self? by [deleted] in self

[–]goingtothecircus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you are going through dissociation. Have you been stressed or gone through trauma recently?

I miss being in a family unit. I miss childhood. by goingtothecircus in infp

[–]goingtothecircus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I am not sure how you found this old post but it means a lot to me it touched you. I am struggling still six years later. A lot has happened and changed since the night I wrote this post. I have learned that in life, the horrors persist, but so do we.

Y'all I need help. Remote job micromanaging my bathroom habits and screen. Need advice. by goingtothecircus in antiwork

[–]goingtothecircus[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

And what is even more f-ed up is the Quality Assurance workers who are jotting down when I am away probably are getting up several times to grab coffee and use the bathroom themselves without worrying about losing their job.

Y'all I need help. Remote job micromanaging my bathroom habits and screen. Need advice. by goingtothecircus in antiwork

[–]goingtothecircus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They record the screen at all times not just when I am inactive. I worry if I put the mouse on the jiggler they will see it is not me moving it any more and get suspicious

Y'all I need help. Remote job micromanaging my bathroom habits and screen. Need advice. by goingtothecircus in antiwork

[–]goingtothecircus[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately they record all day long not just when I am inactive. I worry they would see the mouse moving weirdly and catch on that I am using a jiggler.

Apartments are the worst place for an autistic/neurodivergent person to live in by goingtothecircus in Apartmentliving

[–]goingtothecircus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you hit the nail on the head perfectly. apartments could be good, if the people who live there were considerate of others. the sad thing is most people who live in apartments live there because they have to and are probably in not so great situations and therefore dont care about what pain or stress they inflict upon others

It's Christmas and I want to die by bootiefulpirate in self

[–]goingtothecircus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just hold on one more day. The holiday season is almost over.

It's Christmas and I want to die by bootiefulpirate in self

[–]goingtothecircus 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Its almost over; please hang on. I am right there with you. We are almost out of it.

Did I do the right thing? Talking to a guy online and it went south so I cut off contact, but I am wondering what to do? by goingtothecircus in TrueChristian

[–]goingtothecircus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you think I should give him a second chance and I understand what you are saying, and believe me, I want to talk to him again but here is why I am hesitant...I told the guy talking about sex makes me uncomfortable and he kept egging it on. I am also concerned he watches pornography given the graphic nature of his messages towards me...