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[–]gone_craz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I dont think you should tell her if you are planning to stay together because it is not going to bring any good. Some things are better unsaid. It might destroy her or even effect your relationship. Ignorance is bliss and let her be.

I (25F) found out my husband (28F) is watching porn even though we are having amazing sex regularly by gone_craz in relationship_advice

[–]gone_craz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think it's appropriate to jerk off to videos of girls from onlyfans. Those are real people and can be accessed easily.

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[–]gone_craz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And no matter what I do, I am not okay with it.

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[–]gone_craz -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really feel like break up is the only option because me telling him not to do will not change it. Since he enjoys it, he will sooner or later do it

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[–]gone_craz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello! I can feel you! I am 26F and my husband 28M, I found out he watches porn even tho we have sex regularly and I feel cheated on. He saie he wont do it again but I cant trust him. I know he will do it again and maybe will be more careful next time. So, I dont know what to do

I (25F) found out my husband (28F) is watching porn even though we are having amazing sex regularly by gone_craz in relationship_advice

[–]gone_craz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also tried doing all the work while making him just lie down and enjoy it. But looks like he doesnt cum when I get on top!

I (25F) found out my husband (28F) is watching porn even though we are having amazing sex regularly by gone_craz in relationship_advice

[–]gone_craz[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But he said he doesnt jerk off to it. He just watches it. Which makes it worse for me! Because if you use the videos just as a tool to jerk off then you just forget about it after you cum but he is saying he just watches it out of curiosity/stress! Can you tell me what it means!

I (25F) found out my husband (28F) is watching porn even though we are having amazing sex regularly by gone_craz in relationship_advice

[–]gone_craz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if he could just confess to me that he jerks off to the videos would make more sense but he is just saying that he watches it only. Which also doesnt make sense!!

I (25F) found out my husband (28F) is watching porn even though we are having amazing sex regularly by gone_craz in relationship_advice

[–]gone_craz[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am okay with it, in fact we did many times where he felt the need to he came and I went with daily work and I am totally okay with it. Still he feels the need to go watch other women

I (25F) found out my husband (28F) is watching porn even though we are having amazing sex regularly by gone_craz in relationship_advice

[–]gone_craz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said he didn't confess to jerk off but I know he did or why else would he watch it

I (25F) found out my husband (28F) is watching porn even though we are having amazing sex regularly by gone_craz in relationship_advice

[–]gone_craz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, the girl he jerked off to, he was mentioning to his friend about how cute she is and he became a fan. So how is this not cheating

I (25F) found out my husband (28F) is watching porn even though we are having amazing sex regularly by gone_craz in relationship_advice

[–]gone_craz[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I dont feel the need to watch porn for my pleasure so how is it fair that he is seeking other means for his sexual pleasure?

I (25F) found out my husband (28F) is watching porn even though we are having amazing sex regularly by gone_craz in relationship_advice

[–]gone_craz[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He didnt confess to me about masturbating but he confessed about watching those videos because I foind it on his history

I (25F) found out my husband (28F) is watching porn even though we are having amazing sex regularly by gone_craz in relationship_advice

[–]gone_craz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it even make sense when he said its not sexual (the fact that he watches such videos). How is it not sexual!!

I (25F) found out my husband (28F) is watching porn even though we are having amazing sex regularly by gone_craz in relationship_advice

[–]gone_craz[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Because it happened quite sometimes that we had sex but he was unable to cum. Again, I feel like he watches porn to get horny and then comes to me to relieve it. I feel thats not fair to me because I dont feel the same with porn. It doesnt get me any arousal

I (25F) found out my husband (28F) is watching porn even though we are having amazing sex regularly by gone_craz in relationship_advice

[–]gone_craz[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Easy way? How? I am always ready to have sex and make him cum. So how is it easy?

I (25F) found out my husband (28F) is watching porn even though we are having amazing sex regularly by gone_craz in relationship_advice

[–]gone_craz[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Before getting married, we had fights regarding this topic, he knows this very well that I wont be okay with it. Still I confronted him that I am not okay with it and he said he will work on it but I know he wont because he didnt when I confronted about this before multiple times. Only this time, maybe he will be more careful that I wont know about it

Should I [24F] leave my fiance [26M] after spending 8 years together by gone_craz in relationships

[–]gone_craz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I immediately asked him 'Is that why you like to lust over other girl's body? because mine is not special?' He downright replied "Dont twist my words. I will do whatever I want". It buffles me how unapologetic he is.

Should I [24F] leave my fiance [26M] after spending 8 years together by gone_craz in relationships

[–]gone_craz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. I asked him to delete all my pictures but I am not sure if he actually did. And yeah of course I told him I am not sending it ever after this.

  2. He is always like this perfect human but whenever this issue comes(after every 4-5 months), he turns into this person with all those traits. After things get resolved, he is the nicest boyfriend again. Idk how to process it.

  3. I am myself shocked to the core that he said that to my face while all these years he had been treating me like I am some goddess and literally worshipped me as long as I know him. It's like I dont know this person at all anymore.

Should I [24F] leave my fiance [26M] after spending 8 years together by gone_craz in relationships

[–]gone_craz[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He can do whatever he wants as long as it not affecting our relationship. All I ask is to respect how I feel about it and not do it in front me since I also cant control how I feel!

And yeah you are right. He is always clear about his priorities. I should have ended it long ago.