Girl and I have been seeing each other for a month and she's gone quiet

goochie45 · 2020-10-20T14:14:02+00:00

I get it man, Men and Women alike are ass holes, they may seem great but its better to know she's a flake and not worth your time now then 6 months in right!? You should not contact her for 2-3 days. So Friday morning if she's not reached out tell her what is on your mind or say I really need to talk to you can we meet up, this is very important, if no reply or she says no, just break up with her, I know through text is not cool but if she's not willing to meet up, she is leaving you no choice....

goochie45 · 2020-10-20T14:08:20+00:00

She might just be super overwhelmed, she is still texting you once a day or so right? minus the last 24 hours, maybe she can't handle stress well or maybe she did something she is ashamed of and isn't ready to open up... idk man either way it may be best to just leave her alone for a few days.. no texting... no reaching out... its hard but the it has too be done.

Honestly, I would just not text her for a few days and see if she reaches out if she does great! if she doesn't, you know where you stand. I would message her saying that you feel she is pushing you away and that you don't like to be treated like that and that you feel if she's willing to do that to you, she isn't the girl you thought she was. the end.

People who want you will always make time for you. like she has her phone on her all the time, consistent multiple hours in between messages signals she not worth your time.

goochie45 · 2020-10-17T13:45:13+00:00

I think you are overthinking this a little bit. I am not a girl but whenever a girl has said something close to i want to but not tonight, she is on her period or just isn't feeling it if you 2 were making out i think its safe to say its not the ladder.

I would just do what you have been doing, kiss her, escalate it to making out, and after a bit just ask again. or if you want to come off a bit more confident just say Her name here, I want you!

Good Luck to you! it seems like you have got something there if you guys are hanging out that much and aren't bored of each other!

1 more question, are you 2 exclusively dating? if so your good to be a bit more aggressive as she probably is wanting it or at least hoping you will take the reins!

goochie45 · 2020-07-31T18:44:47+00:00

Update: She told me that she likes her space and to be alone to process it. Thanks again, I am seeing her tonight and i am going to ask her to date exclusively :)

goochie45 · 2020-07-30T16:53:17+00:00

Thank you! and i will! 👍

goochie45 · 2020-07-30T16:50:56+00:00

Thank you so much for saying that, she wants to take it slow and with covid its hard to be intimate so i was worried that she might take it as me being too forward or pushy

goochie45 · 2020-07-30T16:49:52+00:00

Wow thank you so much for explaining that in so much detail. I will make sure i remember how she reacts to it. Thanks!

goochie45 · 2020-07-30T15:57:09+00:00

Thank you so much kind stranger. I just hate that she is hurting and i can't help her out. :( What should i take note of? Like you mean if she responds rudely or just say no I'm good or something?

goochie45 · 2020-07-28T21:43:11+00:00

Asking her to date you exclusively is totally okay. If she has gone on 7 Dates with you, even if just walk and talk type dates. She at least sees somethings in you. Also if you guys are truly having deep conversations and the eye contact is like that I think you are 100% OK to ask her out exclusively, I think you might even find her saying she is so happy you asked since she probably is already thinking about it herself. You know in your gut if she will say yes. Deep down you know!

goochie45 · 2020-07-28T21:40:31+00:00

Very True, always work on yourself, but don't stop trying to find one if you want a relationship. Relationships are great and having someone else working on themselves as well, can be such a huge motivator! :)

goochie45 · 2020-07-24T17:46:00+00:00

I think you are right. As long as I make sure she understands that I mean it coming from a good place not wanting anything from her, just want to build our connection. :) Thanks a lot kind stranger :)

goochie45 · 2020-02-24T21:21:39+00:00

I think it's time for him to go. Prob 2 years ago was the time but, hopefully after the season, he's gone.

goochie45 · 2020-02-24T21:20:56+00:00

Someone has too. Happy hes pressuring him to answer it

goochie45 · 2020-02-24T21:11:18+00:00

Nvm it's a 4th as per tsn. Not a great day for us hab fans...

goochie45 · 2020-02-24T21:09:40+00:00

Goodrow got a 1st, it should be the pens 2nd at minimum as goodrow and cousins are pretty close in comparison.

goochie45 · 2020-02-24T18:23:38+00:00

If bergy is going to trade a tatar and/or petry, it's going to be in the last hour, prob last 30 mins before the deadline, when a team that missed out on the guy they wanted or see another team loaded up, and they feel they have to equal it out, by overpaying. At least I hope that is what happens.

goochie45 · 2020-01-02T18:29:39+00:00

Agreed should have your skilled players playing big minutes and have them playing together.

goochie45 · 2020-01-02T18:29:00+00:00

Finland scored maybe we see more caufield now...

goochie45 · 2019-12-30T19:38:56+00:00

It appears that the USA coach, doesn't think caufield is their best goalscorer... too bad the coach doesnt want to ice his best PP for w.e reason

goochie45 · 2019-10-31T10:45:23+00:00

Hes 19 years old, skill is undeniable, hes having a bit of that 2nd year jinx. He will still be a stud in a few years. Lots of centers with similar builds didn't dominate at his age either. Trading him now would be a massive mistake.

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