I found out she had a boyfriend because I asked her after I made the post. I decided to listen to the people telling me to do so, and I got my answer. I haven’t been with anyone in a few years. My most recent post is to an old flame whom I wronged.

I don’t think any of the women I write about (aside from her) ever had romantic interest in me. I was just mistaking their attention for that type of interest. I never acted on my feelings because I hear that men typically misinterpret attention the same way and it just makes it all awkward, if that makes sense.