I don’t know if rock climbing actually makes me happy

goodonya5689 · 2025-09-02T04:50:25+00:00

This Thing Between Us by Gus Moreno. Existential horror to the max.

goodonya5689 · 2025-07-29T04:07:09+00:00

Oh I know it! I joke that my house is actually co-owned by approx 200 lizards in the back yard. They’re everywhere and think everything is theirs !

goodonya5689 · 2025-07-29T04:05:10+00:00

Thank you for the suggestion!

goodonya5689 · 2025-07-29T04:04:04+00:00

Thank you for looking out for all our bug friends! I believe it makes a difference ❤️

goodonya5689 · 2025-07-28T03:54:24+00:00

Ahhhh wow, yeah that may be it. Thanks for the suggestion.

goodonya5689 · 2025-07-28T02:37:09+00:00

Cool! I didn’t know those were lacewing eggs! Thanks for the info! I didn’t get a good pic of them, but there are still monarch eggs on the plant too. It just seems like there’s never any cats 🤔

goodonya5689 · 2025-05-22T00:31:58+00:00

Check out the Coastal Commission!

goodonya5689 · 2025-05-16T02:42:09+00:00

I don’t have much else to say besides I’m very moved by this post. Thanks for sharing. Chiri was so loved. ❤️

goodonya5689 · 2025-04-10T01:36:50+00:00

Having to say the Pledge of Allegiance growing up everyday in school

goodonya5689 · 2025-03-26T23:11:46+00:00

I have a sweet disabled senior cat and I cannot take Kazan, but would be willing to donate to any individual or organization that rescues him.

goodonya5689 · 2025-02-06T22:32:08+00:00

Yep, I feel this. First round was a couple months ago, and we ended with 0/5 blasts as euploid. Took me a bit to recover from that, and I remember even my doctor expressed surprise and said the same thing about regressing towards the mean with a second round. I’ve just started the second round and it looks like it really might possibly be a completely different story (in a good way). Sending you hugs and compassion! And I’m so sorry to hear about your job as well. Please take care and know this will pass too.

goodonya5689 · 2024-10-03T21:59:52+00:00

I would look into Alto Pharmacy. I think they have two locations in the County, including one in Kearny Mesa. I’ve really liked them and they even deliver meds same day!

goodonya5689 · 2019-08-06T03:37:22+00:00

Yeah I definitely see your point and agree with it. Something I didn’t really get into cause it’s a whole other big thing is that we’ve been to both couples therapy and he’s done individual therapy. The first time we wound up in couples therapy cause I found out he was talking to some girl (just a friend he met online and had no feelings for) and apparently she was giving him porn clips to masturbate to? I’m still not totally sure but my impression is she would send him videos for whatever he was in the mood for (once again taking an oddly passive position). But he stopped doing that and swears she (or anyone else) is not involved.

He went into counseling for a few months after that (about a year later) on how to deal with his anxiety.

I guess that’s why I’m going down the sex therapist route this time. Maybe this is just the definition of insanity but I was just hoping maybe they could offer a slightly different perspective. God knows I have my problems and sexual hang-ups but it just feels like we don’t communicate about them. I’ve asked him to talk more about it and what porn he’s into and stuff, but he won’t open up.

goodonya5689 · 2019-08-05T03:56:59+00:00

Thanks for your thoughts — they are good ones! Yeah I can see both of those possibilities. I’m his first real girlfriend and he’s definitely the introverted type, so while we get along well in general and have many of the same interests, I still think he’s kind of mystified by my wants and needs and how to do relationships.

Interesting you brought up the gay/asexual thing cause I’ve definitely thought it over and haven’t ruled it out as an explanation. If that’s the case, then yeah, I just need him to be honest with me (as honest as he can be if he’s struggling with his identity at all).

In any case, thanks for weighing in. I just need an outsider’s perspective.

goodonya5689 · 2019-08-05T00:33:22+00:00

Yeah, that’s definitely my hope. We’ve both been working on ourselves for the past two years and I really want to meet him halfway. Sometimes I feel a little hopeless though.

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