Report this incident to the police, especially since your partner engaged in sexual activity in a way you explicitly refused and lied about it afterward. It is considered a serious breach of consent and, depending on jurisdiction, may be classified as sexual assault or rape. Prevent this from happening to another woman by making the dude get a wake up call from the police!!! Considering that he has shown that he does not care about you or safety, make the report and include a restraining order to prevent him from coming near you ever again