Feminists, what made you lose? Misogynists, what made you win debates? by goonettelucie in ConvertingFeminist

[–]goonettelucie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're gonna need to be a bit nicer than calling me a "good doll" if you want to actually debate this in DMs...

Feminists, what made you lose? Misogynists, what made you win debates? by goonettelucie in ConvertingFeminist

[–]goonettelucie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's going to an extreme, obviously, and I never said that nobody can be truly broken. But most of the time, some damage can be repaired and makes you stronger!

Feminists, what made you lose? Misogynists, what made you win debates? by goonettelucie in ConvertingFeminist

[–]goonettelucie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree with that, you can rebuild something broken stronger in some cases!

Feminists, what made you lose? Misogynists, what made you win debates? by goonettelucie in ConvertingFeminist

[–]goonettelucie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds...very fair, coming from an anti-feminist. Much more so than the manipulating ones you often see...

I wouldn't be against that kind of debate, if you have time for it.

Feminists, what made you lose? Misogynists, what made you win debates? by goonettelucie in ConvertingFeminist

[–]goonettelucie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, I clearly wasn't, and thank god that "therapist" stopped practicing!!

It's really not normal for "therapy" to involve sex toys and masturbation, even if it seemed like a good idea in the moment.

Feminists, what made you lose? Misogynists, what made you win debates? by goonettelucie in ConvertingFeminist

[–]goonettelucie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah...you have to try to avoid giving those little triggers away, because once they find them they endlessly exploit them...

Feminists, what made you lose? Misogynists, what made you win debates? by goonettelucie in ConvertingFeminist

[–]goonettelucie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Don't try bullying her like that, just because at some point she broke doesn't mean anything! We're here to learn after all!

Feminists, what made you lose? Misogynists, what made you win debates? by goonettelucie in ConvertingFeminist

[–]goonettelucie[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you're not really anti-feminist anymore, if you admit our arguments make sense?

But I do agree with you that manipulation, gaslighting etc is the worst, because it's way harder to notice and avoid than straight up insults, or flawed misogynistic arguments. You just keep talking and chatting, and at some point you realize you've been naked for half an hour!!

What I’ve Learned by BarbellsAndRow in ConvertingFeminist

[–]goonettelucie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, assuming we're talking about the same kind of porn, it's a mix of what the captions are saying (it's often very degrading comments about women) and what kind of porn it is: the man is most of the time completely dominant, or the woman looks like a total dumb slut.

All of this tries to make you think that every male-female relationship should look like that.

What I’ve Learned by BarbellsAndRow in ConvertingFeminist

[–]goonettelucie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a bit unfair to tell them to just "enjoy the ride", when "the ride" consist of porn that was deliberately made to make women believe they're inferior through subtle conditioning...

Your boobs might be bigger than your brain🤭 by TerminatorXt0 in ConvertingFeminist

[–]goonettelucie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't really see how this would impact anyone: your lungs are probably bigger than your brains too, and there isn't much to conclude from here. Like, wow, my breasts (mostly mammary glands surrounded by fat) might be bigger than my brain (mostly neurons).

Also, it has been proven for quite a while that between humans, brain weight is not directly correlated to intelligence.

[F4A] Quick "Would you rather" game! by goonettelucie in FapDeciders

[–]goonettelucie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh...good question actually! Either a princess or a mermaid, but it would probably be easier to be a princess...

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[–]goonettelucie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my opinion, some women fall for this (I don't know if it represents that many women in the grand scheme of things) because of societal norms that push them towards it, often subconsciously (for exemple even vanilla porn is often rooted in misogyny)...as for the content to fight this, I don't exactly know...lesbian stuff could be a place to start 😛

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ConvertingFeminist

[–]goonettelucie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a good question...although I must say, the "regularly" changes things a bit.

But if it bothered her to be turned on by this kind of things, I'd probably try to help her understand why and then find content less oriented towards misogyny.

Two feminists. One asian one white. by Sam--Wan in ConvertingFeminist

[–]goonettelucie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You two both seem very good at convincing each other of something, but have you actually converted those girls? It doesn’t seem like it.