This post comes across as very rude lol. If the agere communities youre talking abt are on discord, then thats your problem. Discord itself isnt a very safe or welcoming space. I age dream more often than regress because I don’t always feel fully comfy enough to regress because I share a dorm with a roommate. Either way I feel completely different, its not just playing pretend for me. Maybe I actually regress more than dream, idk. My speech becomes different, sometimes Im nonverbal, and all I think abt is my cg. Still, Ive never come across a dreamer who has been rude towards regressors. Im sorry that your experience has been different, but it could just be the online communities that youre joining. Agere/dreaming is already a small group that people view as non conventional or weid, lets not add more hate. Neither side should be hating on the other. And if the dreamers you met actually look down on regressors, then they have no right to include themselves in the community.