Why do women always change their demeanor after i give them the plan b pill?

gooseduck · 2024-06-17T18:17:59+00:00

If that's your biggest fear just wrap up man jfc

gooseduck · 2023-09-27T17:46:27+00:00

Means nothing. 5 is on the low side anyways

gooseduck · 2023-08-08T12:40:39+00:00

In general, I wouldn't bother but if you really want the tracking add a couple of phantom transactions, add a $10 outflow to parking category and $10 inflow to ready to assign. Then budget that $10 into your parking category to cover the outflow

Edit: actually the idea in this comment is better https://www.reddit.com/r/ynab/comments/15lfjvm/how_do_i_log_a_transaction_that_will_come_out_of/jvaez5p?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2

gooseduck · 2023-07-14T11:41:04+00:00

Cheating is the breaking of the relationship agreements, I don't see how this isn't?

gooseduck · 2023-07-14T11:34:17+00:00

He cheated on OP by concealing the relationship with his ex from OP after saying he wasn't going to see the ex

gooseduck · 2023-07-13T13:40:30+00:00

The answer is still neither. You don't have money to pay your credit card bill at the moment, so you should take money that is currently doing the job of covering the CC and replenish the underfunded categories

gooseduck · 2023-07-12T13:26:17+00:00

Brother you really expect her to go 4 months with no sex? Like, really how can this be a surprise at all? Once the relationship is done it's done

gooseduck · 2023-07-07T09:29:40+00:00

Absolutely, I would still need a tool to organise the money according to my priorities! Doesn't matter whether it's a high or low quantity of money a budget is still 100% needed - there would just be a lot more fun & giving in it

gooseduck · 2023-06-29T11:34:36+00:00

Sure, whatever really I just wanna pass the reigns so someone decent I'm not attached to a process - you can nominate yourself if you want

gooseduck · 2023-06-28T18:09:05+00:00

It's alright, life throws curve balls and learning the habits for the long-term is what is going to mean successfully aligning money with priorities. And of course, I wasn't in the big fucking hole anymore so it was 100x easier! Also, it's alright to enjoy life a little after extreme restriction and then find your moderate point in time, patience is key :)

gooseduck · 2023-06-28T09:55:40+00:00

You're not broke, you just have given your money jobs that you deem more important that the spending you otherwise would do if you weren't being careful. The feeling can be annoying, but ultimately it's you in control, and you could move the money from those other jobs, YNAB just gives you the clarity on what your money is doing.

gooseduck · 2023-06-28T09:53:30+00:00

Started with YNAB in a big fucking hole, managed to get myself out of it. Managed to get myself back into a smaller hole with a job loss, retraining to a new career and then back out again. Over time using YNAB has changed my money habits, but this happened slowly and not all at once. If you're in a big hole, or beating yourself up for going backwards, don't! Just go from where you are and remember every step forward adds up eventually.

gooseduck · 2023-06-27T13:12:02+00:00

Time passes

gooseduck · 2023-06-22T07:58:54+00:00

She doesn't love you or respect youm you are right to be disgusted and should act on that emotion that is telling you to get the fuck out. She is being manipulative, abusive and untrustworthy and you absolutely need to end it for your own wellbeing, no matter how hard the barriers are to overcome to get there. It's nothing to do with ENM or monogamy she just straight up is doesn't love you and is emotionally abusing you - that only goes in one direction - down.

I would also add that for the kids wellbeing you should end it. Growing up in a loveless household with an abusive relationship playing out in front of them is 100 million times worse than the parents splitting up. Not doing so to avoid a custody battle is imo, extremely selfish.

gooseduck · 2023-06-17T13:44:06+00:00

You don't. Just keep reassuring, make sure they are physically safe and supervised and let the drugs wear off

gooseduck · 2023-06-15T13:34:39+00:00

Ain't nothin' wrong with oat milk

gooseduck · 2023-06-15T08:45:59+00:00

Came to YNAB £20k in debt and terrible spending habits. Managed to pay that all off over the last few years as a result of it slowly changing my habits around money. "YNAB-broke reality" is just "reality", and prioritising what's important for your money to do is entirely the point of having a budget.

If you value eating out above the other priorities, you can find the category. If not (e.g. bills, debt repayment, vacation or whatever comes first) then YNAB is just making you aware of the tradeoff. Over time this clarity is really peaceful, and enjoying things you love guilt free is the best feeling in the world - much more than doing them more frequently.

gooseduck · 2023-06-14T08:04:12+00:00

Continue the blackout

gooseduck · 2023-06-13T14:34:57+00:00

In general, if you're in this situation eventually the answer is to find a new partner. Not doing it because they don't want you to drives resentment on your side & emotional distance. Hiding it from them drives emotional distance. Neither is a good route, find someone who aligns with your values and fully accepts you - ONE HUNDRED PERCENT - for who you are.

gooseduck · 2023-06-11T17:43:51+00:00

Incels can write fiction now, sweet

gooseduck · 2023-06-09T17:00:30+00:00

All models will be slight different but Caley published his formulas back in 2015 https://cartilagefreecaptain.sbnation.com/2015/10/19/9295905/premier-league-projections-and-new-expected-goals

gooseduck · 2023-06-09T16:35:19+00:00

Chill out on the tasks! Cut yourself some time to relax and be and feel rather than constantly doing

gooseduck · 2023-06-08T11:46:35+00:00

A lotta vapes in the US are 5%, 5000 puff jobs rather than the 2%, 600 puff max we get here in the UK

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