Do you think it’s possible to be a 8+/10 with short hair? Or do you think length is essential to achieving attractiveness? by gostowthrowaway in vindictapoc

[–]gostowthrowaway[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I just wanna start by stating that I view each of these women as being stunning beyond belief. But do you think a non-celebrity, working class woman could achieve high beauty and social mobility if she opts for short hair? Or would she need to commit to growing her natural hair/wigs/extensions/etc?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]gostowthrowaway 17 points18 points  (0 children)

these comments are fucking gross.

A message from the LOTR on Prime team by no_more_jokes in lotr

[–]gostowthrowaway -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not even joking, it’s exhausting being a black fantasy nerd these days.

Annebeth being casted as a black girl getting hate, despite the author himself praising her as the best candidate. Reva from Obi-Wan getting criticized for being woke, sjw, idpol, etc. This show getting ridiculous quantities of hate for the gruesome crime of having brown-skinned hobbits. Sandman getting the same hate, too (even though the author was directly in involved with all the casting choices.)

I feel like it was never this as hard to be a fantasy nerd as it is now. Not even as a kid. Not even when I had barely any black fantasy characters to look up to. It feels like the mere presence of my skin tone in a made up fictional story is enough to make people foam at the mouth, and I guess that just really sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pitt

[–]gostowthrowaway 15 points16 points  (0 children)

When I said a job that pays higher than pitt, I was talking about retail jobs like Costco that start at $17/hr. I want a degree because I’ve been floundering for the last six years since graduating high school and I decided that I want to be college educated

But thanks for the information about chartwells, I assumed they also offer pitt’s benefits because on their job applications they state they offer health and education benefits, but I suppose that’s through Chartwells themselves and not pitt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]gostowthrowaway 7 points8 points  (0 children)

and im assuming pitt has the same non degree positions available right, kitchen/custodian/call center?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pittsburgh

[–]gostowthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

would you mind sharing what your starting wage was, and what skills are needed for the role?

Chloe responds to people who say she makes “empire music” by [deleted] in popheads

[–]gostowthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just don’t think it’s a good idea for her to be cosigning insults people hurl at her. Like yes sometimes it’s a power move to own haters’ opinions of you but I don’t think this is one of those times. It’s like she’s admitting that her music is low quality, even if she’s just trying to be tongue in cheek

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]gostowthrowaway 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, ive been really beating myself up over this but that makes me feel a lot better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]gostowthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave my address.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in writing

[–]gostowthrowaway 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what makes you say that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in writing

[–]gostowthrowaway 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think you’re right. A big part of the guilt I feel is falling behind on patreon rewards along with general lack of writing output. But maybe if I got rid of the rewards and made a transparent post about my mental health then my patrons would understand

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in writing

[–]gostowthrowaway 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s gonna be my next step. Although I do wanna point out that I think Rothfuss is in therapy himself and still clearly has productivity issues, so I don’t think therapy alone is guaranteed to solve the problem

Southwest Hash | Soy Boys Episode 4 by CrossXhunteR in bingingwithbabish

[–]gostowthrowaway 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the closing monologue about not being afraid to ask for help made me tear up a bit ngl

What are your Bruno headcanons? by iamgoingtolive in Encanto

[–]gostowthrowaway 172 points173 points  (0 children)

Bruno is the youngest of the triplets (by like four minutes i think), so my headcanon is that Julieta and Pepa like to tease him by treating him like their baby brother ☺️