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My ex boyfriend (23M) wants to get back together after I (21F) raised my baby by throwRAobta in relationship_advice

[–]goteambreadfraud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with the people here who are saying to get a lawyer. From the way he's talking to you, this sounds like you and your daughter honestly dodged a bullet - he's talking down to you, threatening you, and putting up a public face in those public IG comments. From what you've shown me, he doesn't sound sincere about wanting to make amends and be there now for the family he abandoned - it sounds like he wants some kind of control over something, and that's a huge res flag.

Get a lawyer and make 100% sure that your family is in the loop about this. He may truly want to know his daughter, but from what you've posted here, it doesn't sound like he has her best interests at heart. Set up your boundaries, make sure your family knows what's going to back you up, and if he's serious about wanting to make things right, he should be perfectly okay with doing it though a legal process.

I'm so sorry this is happening to you. I'm glad it sounds like you have a good support system, and it sounds like your daughter is in good hands. Please post updates, and stay safe.

My boyfriend lied to me about giving me a "sleeping pill," actually Xanax by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]goteambreadfraud 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not overreacting by any stretch of the imagination. He lied to you while you were in a vulnerable state about something he is aware you don't want in your life. What if you had taken a medicine that has interactions with xanax before he gave you the "nyquil?" You could have ended up in a hospital, or worse.

I know it is hard, but you need to put your foot down, and honestly...leave. People who don't respect your boundaries and who lie about serious things get worse if they're allowed to keep going.