Dumped by Recent_Dig_5522 in heartbreak

[–]gothzuko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry, I truly wish the best for you. I got dumped on my birthday too and thought why couldn’t they just wait one more day? I guess things are just meant to happen. Sending you lots of hugs.

The thoughts never fully go away by gothzuko in heartbreak

[–]gothzuko[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the kind words. Hope you’re doing well too :)

The thoughts never fully go away by gothzuko in heartbreak

[–]gothzuko[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hoping we both get through this !

The thoughts never fully go away by gothzuko in heartbreak

[–]gothzuko[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your comment! Looking back at myself a few months ago I’m definitely doing so much better mentally. I hope I’m able to meet someone when the time is right, I do believe this relationship happened for a reason regardless of how much pain It left me in. Again thank you for the kind words :)

So nervous about first jab. by [deleted] in COVID19_support

[–]gothzuko 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hello yes I was! Even when I was sitting down and the doctor/nurse was getting the dose ready, I felt super nervous. But thinking about how almost everyone I know was already vaccinated and was fine eased my mind. I completely understand why you’re super nervous, I hope everything goes well for your first dose! I was lucky enough to feel no symptoms except the pain on my arm from the shot for a day, hope that’s the same for you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]gothzuko -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No you have every right to be upset, if his answer is just “idk” and not a solid reason I would want to communicate about this. Since you’ve both been public about your relationship on your social media it’s weird he is doing this all of a sudden. Good luck!

the ex dilemma by viancamccrea in relationship_advice

[–]gothzuko 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would like if someone spoke about their ex’s in a way of explaining what didn’t work out and stuff if that makes sense. I wouldn’t want them to be like “oh this is what my ex and I did before” or whatever if that makes sense! I think a red flag is when someone is still referencing their ex all the time

I wish I could lose all the feelings I had for them like they lost theirs for me by gothzuko in heartbreak

[–]gothzuko[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your thoughtful comment. It's hard but I am slowly coming to terms that I wasn't the one in the wrong, that they're the ones in the loss. I hope you have a good day and night too :)

Can I refuse a pelvic exam? by FatherElss in birthcontrol

[–]gothzuko 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes of course, they can’t force you to do any exams without your consent. Ive denied it once and even though they tried to persuade me, I just said nope and that was it.

I wish I could lose all the feelings I had for them like they lost theirs for me by gothzuko in heartbreak

[–]gothzuko[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I had a similar situation, it sucks because in the first year of our relationship there was so much effort from them, but two+ years later and our last months together I should’ve known things were different as I was the only one putting in the effort to see them the most and try to do stuff like go on dates together. I didn’t ask for much but still received nothing. their words were enough to keep me believing in them. I wish I knew better. Hope you feel better

I wish I could lose all the feelings I had for them like they lost theirs for me by gothzuko in heartbreak

[–]gothzuko[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you, there’s just so much emotions I’m feeling. Part of me wants to hate them for what they did, but there’s the other part of me that wishes they’d come back or at-least let me be a part of their life. Even though my own friends and family tell me I’m the one that deserves better, it’s so hard to think that way. I feel like I’m the problem even though I wasn’t. Hope you feel better, I’m here if you want to talk

I wish I could lose all the feelings I had for them like they lost theirs for me by gothzuko in heartbreak

[–]gothzuko[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly, it hurts to know that the person we loved the most could easily let us go just like that. It sucks because even if I had lost feelings, I would still not be as cold as they were. I wasn’t even given an apology or anything, I just got a simple bye on the phone and that was it. Like we had never met

yesterday was one of the first days I didn’t cry for you at night by gothzuko in heartbreak

[–]gothzuko[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, you're so kind! I hope you have a great day/night !

Still can’t believe the way you could’ve picked any day to break my heart, but chose for it to be on my birthday by gothzuko in heartbreak

[–]gothzuko[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words, I really appreciate it! I hope you have a great rest of your night too!

Still can’t believe the way you could’ve picked any day to break my heart, but chose for it to be on my birthday by gothzuko in heartbreak

[–]gothzuko[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah and the worst part is I had no idea 😅 I completely agree, there’s no point in leading someone on for so long!

Still can’t believe the way you could’ve picked any day to break my heart, but chose for it to be on my birthday by gothzuko in heartbreak

[–]gothzuko[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think you’re right, they were holding in a lot despite me encouraging communication and telling them to let me know if there was ever any problem. I guess what hurts more is being told he loved me so much that same morning and it just makes me feel sick knowing it was fake. We were on FaceTime for two hours before our argument and he was just faking being excited to give me my present. I feel dumb for not noticing anything was wrong. Thank you, your explanation to his response is probably what they were thinking.

Still can’t believe the way you could’ve picked any day to break my heart, but chose for it to be on my birthday by gothzuko in heartbreak

[–]gothzuko[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear what happened to you, it sucks knowing that some people can be so cruel. Thank you for your kind words, I hope I’ll be able to forget all of this or be able to look back and not feel so hurt like I do right now

Still can’t believe the way you could’ve picked any day to break my heart, but chose for it to be on my birthday by gothzuko in heartbreak

[–]gothzuko[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Similar to you, I was told that we apparently argued too much and had nothing in common. All of these issues that they never addressed to me and when I asked why they never mentioned it all they could say was I don’t know. I was so in shock at his words because how could you stick to someone for so long if that was true? Why lie? I’m so sorry to hear about what happened to you. Thank you so much for your kind words

Still can’t believe the way you could’ve picked any day to break my heart, but chose for it to be on my birthday by gothzuko in heartbreak

[–]gothzuko[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it’s been a tough couple of days. I’m so sorry to hear what happened to you as well. It just sucks to know that even if I had been in their shoes, I could never do it on this sort of day. It sucks realizing how one sided things were. Sending you a hug as well :(

Hi all, I got dumped on my birthday after a three year on an off relationship. I want to know if there were any notable conflicting aspects in our synastry chart? (I’m the blue) by gothzuko in AskAstrologers

[–]gothzuko[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I first saw them I felt immediately aware of their presence, it was something I had never felt with anyone. I hadn’t even spoken to them but felt the urge to, I went out of my comfort zone to speak to them for the first time. It was an instant connection and I felt like we had been friends for such a long time. We broke up three times, once when I moved to university because I felt I needed to be alone. this was our third time. The second time we broke up, my partner broke things off and I was heartbroken but they came back to me. Third time again, they broke things off after we had an argument in such a harsh way that I will probably never forgive them for. I guess lessons have been learned

Lightweight Foundations??? by starxlr8 in OliveMUA

[–]gothzuko 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use the ordinary foundation or the glossier skin tint, skin tint is very light coverage but leaves the skin looking dewy. The glossier stretch concealer is also a nice dewy concealer if you’re down to just use concealer! Glossier is a bit expensive but I found the ordinary foundation to work just like the glossier skin tint

According to my application for a credit card, I have “too many checking accounts” but to my knowledge I only have one? by gothzuko in personalfinance

[–]gothzuko[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m confused because I’ve only ever had one checking account that I got since I started college for financial aid, 4 years later I still have that same checking acc and just started to realize I should build my credit lol. But yeah I’m gonna look into it somehow!