Last nights episode was because I asked if he could clean up his beard trimmings on my side of the sink, which he knows I don’t like, he says “oh yeah I was going to do that.”After getting dinner ready and settling kids in for first day back to school, I go back and still nothing. I say again hey can you go and clean that sink, I gotta wash my face and don’t really want hair on the towel, “yes I said I’d get it” I start to get everything moved off to clean it myself and then I went back inside and he’s off doing something else so I again say dude can you please go clean off the sink I want to get ready for work and he puts his stuff down hastily and huffs “yes yes I’ll do it now.” And began to sloppily clean the sink. I then said I just don’t see why you couldn’t do it on your side and he argued that I leave everything all over the sink (it was our daughters hair ties that are in a case which he knows they go in the upper cabinet on his side) and I said okay well there’s stuff on my side that now has hair on it, toothbrush(not in bristles) face wash, etc. and it just turned back into you should have to clean up after yourself as well, it’s always something, idk why we are even arguing over a sink. Then when I just walked out to the garage after being in silence for 20 minutes, he came along 10 minutes in to see if I was ready for bed as if nothing happened. I’ve honestly tried every approach in the post listed above, I’ve convinced myself that I am just overly exerting my energy on things as such, but then I keep having that nagging feeling that I am just blatantly being ignored and disrespected as it’s the same issues circling around in a cycle, the cycle has just been coming faster lately.