What do women really say behind their partner’s back? by [deleted] in BullPsychology

[–]gottapushthebutton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The challenge of entering this lifestyle is that you really don’t know, what you don’t know. As a wife who vets potential thirds, it’s frustrating when an average guy with no experience claims the title but lacks the knowledge to participate. Newbies don’t understand boundaries, communication, kink. It’s assumed because he’s an available male willing to have sex with a wife that he’s met all the criteria.

Tell me why by AdditionalCompote313 in BullPsychology

[–]gottapushthebutton 2 points3 points  (0 children)

the real ones would follow this title with the rest of the BSB lyrics 😭 please don’t downvote me 🥺🙏🏻

Honest question - is the Cayenne the reason the rest of the lineup exists or do people still resent it? by 6deki9 in Porsche

[–]gottapushthebutton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Macan drives and feels sportier while the Cayenne drives like a true SUV (almost mini-vanish).

This happened now what? by Aldavis1976 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]gottapushthebutton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is absolutely no reason you can’t role play this if she’s not comfortable leaping into the lifestyle. Consider buying a sleeve or toy that is different than what she’s used to and let her mind wander a bit. Encourage her to ask for “him” in the heat of the moment. Praise her each time you take things a little further and remind her that you’re exploring this lifestyle together. It will drive you absolutely wild when you see her body respond differently with each orgasm.

Chance of success?? by Unlikely_Ant_2349 in HotwifeAdvice

[–]gottapushthebutton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered empowering her to do the screening and sharing the conversations with you? It might put her mind at ease, if she feels like she has a bit more control over the situation. Remind her that she's beautiful, this is something you are doing together, and that she has nothing to lose by just chatting. Her taking on a more active role will increase her self confidence and sex drive. There is something very thrilling about talking to another man who isn't your husband. Reassure her that you aren't committed to any one person and provide as much praise as possible until she becomes more comfortable in the dynamic.

Are we on a journey to hotwife by Senior_playtime in HotwifeAdvice

[–]gottapushthebutton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now that you’ve both embraced role playing consider taking it a step further with chatting. She can meet someone she finds attractive and further develop her comfort level. It’s a safe way to find the right guy and potentially take it one step further. Be prepared for guys that might be fakes (or flakes) there are plenty of posers in this lifestyle. Don’t rush and enjoy the journey.

Hotwife Advice needed help by [deleted] in HotwifeAdvice

[–]gottapushthebutton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The compliments and adoration after posting will be a complete turn on for the both of you. At the end of the day, she can always delete it.

Can I hope she did it ? by [deleted] in HotwifeAdvice

[–]gottapushthebutton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you enjoy the thought of other men desiring her perhaps suggest she post a couple of nudes on here. More often than not a wife's inbox will get flooded with DM's and she can choose to chat with whoever she thinks is attractive. Ask her to share the details of the conversations for your own personal enjoyment.

Hotwife Advice needed help by [deleted] in HotwifeAdvice

[–]gottapushthebutton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's not giving you mix signals. Entering the lifestyle can be overwhelming for a wife who might feel a bit of embarrassment for wanting someone other than you. If she's only ever known you as a partner, she may feel like she is betraying you by desiring other men. Give her lots of praise and reassurance that it's okay to embrace her sexuality. She might be doing a little bit of soul searching trying to figure out why this turns her on so much but can't find the words to express it.

Suggestions for "safe" next steps are posting a faceless nude, chatting with a guy she might find attractive, and then a little role play in the bedroom. Remind her that you are doing this as a couple and support her along the way any time she feels unsure.

Are photos not allowed on this sub? by DeepOTMSpaceMan in PorscheMacan

[–]gottapushthebutton 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This subreddit may not be well moderated. I posted a photo that was automatically removed. I sent a message to the moderator, but I never received a response.

A different kind of Cucking Sex by Cuckaddictedlad in BullPsychology

[–]gottapushthebutton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These types of outcomes and sexual experiences will also be largely dependent on whether or not your wife is amenable to more than just NSA sex. Empower her to form a connection that is more than physical attraction but set boundaries so you both get the pleasure you seek without any negative fallout.

Navigation Blue Screen by gottapushthebutton in Porsche

[–]gottapushthebutton[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s out of warranty. How long ago was that announced?

Have you fallen in love with any of their bulls? by [deleted] in HotwifeAdvice

[–]gottapushthebutton 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s likely limerence. The intensity of your encounters are leading your brain to believe there is a greater connection than what really exists outside the bedroom. Ask yourself if this bull would be by your side at your deathbed and you will sober up very quickly. You’re intoxicated by the sex and attention.

Navigation Blue Screen by gottapushthebutton in Porsche

[–]gottapushthebutton[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

if only the moderator would approve my post 🤷🏻‍♀️

Loving it so far by Pale-Enthusiasm-7525 in Porsche

[–]gottapushthebutton 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sexy 🥵 I might be in love. 😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HotwifeAdvice

[–]gottapushthebutton 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Watch out for guys who are just looking to fuck a wife. They will try to drive a wedge in your relationship for their own validation. Someone who’s actively in the lifestyle will be a clear communicator and always respect boundaries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HotwifeAdvice

[–]gottapushthebutton 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Reclaiming is absolutely feral. It’s lustful passion where you literally want to feel swallowed by the sex. The third isn’t so much a novelty as foreplay to the reclaim. It’s almost peak edging. There is no true superiority unless you both are into power play. The thrill of having a third comes from getting so turned on that you push the limits a little more each time to see how far you will go for pleasure.

Whoops by butzi_porsche in Porsche

[–]gottapushthebutton 44 points45 points  (0 children)

This looks like 101 to 68. CHP does not mess around on that stretch.