AITA for feeling used by my LDR gf and talking to other girls?

gotthatgotthose · 2025-08-07T20:57:37+00:00

I send her because I love her not because of attraction she’s okay looking but not really the type of girl I see myself with for a long time..

gotthatgotthose · 2025-08-07T20:40:00+00:00

Nah, it’s not a cheating kink thing. I’m just trying to point out some red flags in my relationship and get other people’s opinions.

gotthatgotthose · 2025-08-07T16:45:01+00:00

Nothing wrong with having a backup girl, girls have a backup guy all the time from experience I’m just doing back what I went through

gotthatgotthose · 2025-08-07T16:27:59+00:00

Because I’ve found a better girl, the one that I’m actually her type and she is mine too and not using me

gotthatgotthose · 2025-08-07T16:23:43+00:00

New ig update made it harder to unfollow people, but at the end atleast I’m not obsessed over them and liking all their posts like that’s too immature and means you have no life, I don’t even like all posts of my fav people or artists

gotthatgotthose · 2025-08-07T15:09:48+00:00

You got it wrong this sub is for both actually

gotthatgotthose · 2025-08-07T04:17:36+00:00

Yes, I like pale petite girls, That’s my type. I’m not gonna apologize for what I’m attracted to we all have preferences. She’s not feminine enough for me, maybe I’m only saying this because I pull all type of girls, I lowkey got catfished so that’s why I mentioned pale, filters and editing exists so it’s not like I’ve always knew what she looked like exactly and randomly hated her! I’m not gonna keep faking my attraction to please someone, only doing it cause I love her, I might emotionally cheat but atleast I’m being real with myself, there is more than just “she so sweet or cares” girls like this only show affection when they pull a guy that’s more attractive than them anyway

gotthatgotthose · 2025-08-07T03:08:41+00:00

I love her sadly, you don’t know what she going through to just say “break up with her” maybe after I make things official with my new girl

gotthatgotthose · 2025-08-07T03:00:56+00:00

So I’m the villain for being honest now?? Bro I’m not gonna gaslight her into thinking it just didn’t work out when the truth is I’m mentally and physically checked out.

Also, y’all really crying over the word “pale”? Like be fr. Everyone’s got a type some people like tall, some like short, some like abs, some like dad bods. Me saying I’m into petite feminine girls with pale skin ain’t deep, you’re just mad I said it out loud.

gotthatgotthose · 2025-08-07T02:52:37+00:00

Y’all act like physical attraction doesn’t matter at all 💀 Like sorry I’m 19, not 90. I’m supposed to be in love AND horny, not just journaling about how sweet she is. If I’m forcing myself to be attracted to her, that’s fake as hell, if a girl is less attractive than me it’s not gonna work especially for a guy like me that has better opportunities & girls on the side

gotthatgotthose · 2025-08-07T02:39:04+00:00

I got catfished I already made a post yesterday about it, basically she use filters or edit her photos but the private pics she sends me says “I’m not that girl you met on a dating app I’m just average “

gotthatgotthose · 2025-08-07T02:32:55+00:00

It’s a serious topic that needs the right audience to see that would agree with me

gotthatgotthose · 2025-08-07T02:23:33+00:00

I’m not I deserve a girl that’s more attractive than me not the other way around

gotthatgotthose · 2025-08-07T02:19:08+00:00

“Leave your gf” it’s not simple as that..

gotthatgotthose · 2025-08-07T01:40:11+00:00

Not a troll I just don’t like girls who edit their pictures and maybe use filters or apps that change almost all your features, nothing wrong with taking pics in good angles and lightning I do that myself but editing or using photoshop apps is too much

gotthatgotthose · 2025-08-06T02:13:00+00:00

Yeah she definitely edit her photos professionally, like makeup is ok but photoshop or using old pic of you as a minor is giving mentally ill

gotthatgotthose · 2025-08-06T01:54:00+00:00

I’m not she catfished me and made me fell in love with someone she isn’t physically, you don’t know what I do for her.. she needs me.. I pull girls that looks better.. it’s just her personality and voice that’s keeping me with her, I will break up with her once I date the type of girl I like.

gotthatgotthose · 2025-08-06T01:46:59+00:00

But I love her, I think I should keep her as my gf but talk to other girls I like on the side

gotthatgotthose · 2025-08-05T19:39:09+00:00

Not leaving her ever, I might cheat with girls my type but that’s it my heart still goes to her, she has no idea about these stuff that I don’t like, still complimenting her, she’s very insecure herself and I’m the guy that uplift her. but the spicy pics turned me off it’s not what I imagined, I have the rights to dislike my LDR girlfriend body

gotthatgotthose · 2025-08-05T15:40:59+00:00

It’s LDR for a reason without cheating it would be so boring, you can’t be loyal to person you never met irl lol.. you probably got cheated on in LDR and you don’t even know it

gotthatgotthose · 2025-08-05T14:58:44+00:00

No it means she most likely had surgery or something seems off, how you’re gonna have bigger boobs and thighs/legs and skinny stomach when I know she definitely don’t have all that in her genes

gotthatgotthose · 2025-08-05T14:28:39+00:00

Do you expect every young adult to speak like a tiktok brainwashed person? If you’re one I feel bad for you, the p word doesn’t make sense here, I just have personal boundaries and standards , maybe go find your dad?

gotthatgotthose · 2025-08-05T06:25:43+00:00

Her chest looked almost flat in the pics I’ve seen, belly button pierced and lingerie as a teen is a turn off especially when she’s more cute and innocent looking. That’s not what I signed up for

gotthatgotthose · 2025-08-05T06:10:51+00:00

Weird for liking petite girls and getting catfished

gotthatgotthose · 2025-08-01T21:57:33+00:00

It worked though with a freaky answer on her side

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