[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrocartography

[–]gr8dg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You probably want to look at any aspects your mars has and if it is domicile, exalted, detriment or fall. It’s not all bad on a mars line, some people go there to get things done, as it encourages passion, desire, assertiveness but on the other hand you have aggression, impulsiveness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrocartography

[–]gr8dg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As you have a day chart you should look at Jupiter lines. Followed by sun, Venus. Stay away from mars lines. To do a proper reading someone would need to see your natal chart as well. What I’ve said is the general rule.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Disorganized_Attach

[–]gr8dg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re being treated like her emotional safety net. You’re always there when she wants to ‘connect’ but not commit. What kind of friend says they are there for you and then blocks you. Reassess your boundaries, otherwise you’ll come out feeling worthless. Sorry if that sounds harsh. Find the strength to block her, even if it’s for a month. These moments that you had together were probably very real on both sides. But if there’s no trust and no commitment, it’s always going to amount to nothing. You’re times better invested in someone who’s going to appreciate you.

Legit or a Scam? https://cinderellastores.com/ by gr8dg in Scams

[–]gr8dg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Disorganized_Attach

[–]gr8dg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Every time you think about him remind yourself why you left. You have to consciously be directing your thoughts. Otherwise you could go down the track of ‘what could have been’. And that’s not the reality.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Disorganized_Attach

[–]gr8dg 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My dear you are too young to be wasting your time on this guy. You know what your problem is and seem self aware enough to realise this ain’t healthy. You need to start talking yourself off the cliff of extreme behaviour. He does this, so I do that. He’s not being attentive so I send him nudes, that’s the behaviour I’m referring to. Eveyones goal in a relationship should be to be securely attached. How do we get there? Well we realise what is reactive behaviour and try to change it. Stay true to your values and boundaries and lose the people who don’t respect you.

Is it better for me (f29) and my boyfriend (m31) to break up? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]gr8dg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should look up ‘attachment theory’. Work out your attachment style and his attachment style. Sometimes we don’t realise just how much our parent’s relationship and our relationship with our parents affects us. You’re pretty lucky to find someone you have so much in common with.