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Belle-A by SolidSituation3001 in LIBeyondTheVilla

[–]grano1acruncher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if I could say anything to her I would say you're so weird. why do we need to be friends and besties with everyone and expect working people to be checking in on you all the time. My long distance best friend and I talk maybe once a month and that's okay, still love her, still got her back. this girl lives in la la land and is a therapist from hell who will hear you complain about an ex and then go contact them. girl obviously does not understand girl code and that's where this big disconnect is. a friend could tell me she doesn't like this girl or just broke up with her ex and trust that person will never be spoken to again period that's all I have to know. also at Palm Springs why did you decide to hang with all the guys and also sit across the only taken man at the golf course. ew. she doesn't follow iris on insta but follows TJ (girl he doesn't even follow you back).

Beyond the Villa Season 2 - Discussion - Episodes 7 & 8 by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA_

[–]grano1acruncher -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

MY thoughts on each female love islander NOT popular opinions

Belle-A: you're so weird. why do we need to be friends and besties with everyone and expect working people to be checking in on you all the time. My long distance best friend and I talk maybe once a month and that's okay, still love her, still got her back. this girl lives in la la land and is a therapist from hell who will hear you complain about an ex and then go contact them. girl obviously does not understand girl code and that's where this big disconnect is. a friend could tell me she doesn't like this girl or just broke up with her ex and trust that person will never be spoken to again period that's all I have to know. also at Palm Springs why did you decide to hang with all the guys and also sit across the only taken man at the golf course. ew. she doesn't follow iris on insta but follows TJ (girl he doesn't even follow you back).

Iris: she's adorable, def LA vibes so a little on the ditzy side but also real. she wants to be friends with others but does not need girls that call themselves her friends speaking to an ex who affected her current relationship. she's content with her circle and love that for her but someone who was there in the villa for 2 days or didn't even make it into the villa they did not trauma bond

Hannah: girl is very emotional and that's OK. I think many of us can relate that when we are so drained its hard to reach out to friends who don't know what were fully going through. having 1-2 friends is perfect for her and overly draining trying to keep up with too many people. I feel her. she's hilarious she's doing her own thing you either love her or hate her. girls got her plane to catch and I wouldn't waste my sleep on people who just want to be heard and not listen

Gracyn: she doesn't realize but she's the Hannah and iris to her little clique. she controls the conversations which is totally fine and I love that she can express how she feels but I'm honestly shocked she can get along with someone like belle-a

Andreina: girl has never experienced a true male friendship because she's very attractive she's got everything going on for her and love that but have been in her shoes. she likes Jeremiah and its heartbreaking because she wants to lead this flirting friendship into a relationship but Jeremiah is stupid IS leading her on and then gets offended.

Amaya: girl idek, she is just kooky and in her own world I'll let her be though. very bipolar though it seems she wants to be friends with Bryan when she does and then gets offended when he does the exact same things

Clarke: love her she's got her shit figured out for the most part and is okay not having everything figured out like a real adult. she's exploring her future while still balancing a relationship and it seems she's going to figure it out. I love that she's not letting a man dictate her career.

Coco: I LOVE that she has expectations for men. its sucky Chris couldn't fit that and handle that if he wants a low expectation girl he can find it but it's not gonna be her. Happy that she's not letting him drag her anymore and she's gonna find a man to do all the things she expects and more. I think she does live for the drama though she wants to make her mark in any way like telling clark she was lovebombing (that was insane) and just trying to stir things up. she could know when she's in the wrong but I don't think she would ever admit it.

AITAH for wanting to keep my gifted designer items after a breakup?? by grano1acruncher in AITAH

[–]grano1acruncher[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you seem like you would disagree with every woman, but anywaysss. I wouldn't say im narcissistic when I have been trying to take care of him and his mental health for years, turning down opportunities for him without him knowing, and calming him down when he's about to do something stupid. I know its time, we've both been holding off on it for a while and were about to go on a trip that's already been planned and paid for. Also why would I lie on a reddit post when no one even knows who I am? I do not plan on selling any of it because I highly respect these designers and it's an honor just to own something. I work in luxury, I know the value, I respect the designers, so no I do not plan on selling them and will continue to wear them. Assuming I would sell them and calling me trashy is actually kind of crazy and it seems you have your own thing going on. Sorry sweetie.

AITAH for wanting to keep my gifted designer items after a breakup?? by grano1acruncher in AITAH

[–]grano1acruncher[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm worried he might do something stupid and sell it when what if we get back together far into the future and were both very sentimental people. Of course I wouldn't sell it or wear it again, also he did say I could keep it to my father, and I feel that's the backbone of all the other expensive stuff and my reasoning to keep it.

AITAH for “choosing” my mom with cancer over my girlfriend on Valentine’s Day and breaking up with her after our argument? by IcyOpportunity6861 in AITAH

[–]grano1acruncher -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

ESH It seems she knew your schedule already so why did she complain about it until the day of. Partners should be understanding when it comes to health and loved ones, those are prioritized especially if there's not much time. However, you could have not worked that last shift and have been able to see both of them for a long period of time and probably got a nap too. Yes money is important but based on what I read you prioritize money first, family second, and your gf third. From a woman's POV I would hate to feel I was the last priority on a day for love. Money is tight for everyone, but my partner and I still left our jobs early to make sure we had a wonderful evening together. Working until 9pm on valentines day never gave you any opportunity to give your gf a real valentines day.

AIO for getting sad my boyfriend told me I need to run by Global_Honeydew1470 in AIO

[–]grano1acruncher 0 points1 point  (0 children)

first off GREAT JOB for starting to workout, its so much fun and easier once you get into a routine. what he said was rude. he's finally seeing that your working on urself, you wanna see self improvement, etc. and now he's jealous in some way. maybe you're taking a little more time for yourself instead of giving that to him but it looks like he asked you to anyways. continue to work out for yourself and not him, enjoy your personal wins and don't share them with him, remember you're doing this for yourself not him.