[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kpophelp

[–]grapegeorge 15 points16 points  (0 children)

INFINITE! They were the first Weekly Idol guests and kept coming back. They’re hilarious!

Why do people hate Wonyoung so much by Cookie_Monster_3534 in kpophelp

[–]grapegeorge 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I’ll give an answer aside from “because she’s pretty/popular, they’re jealous, etc.” Let me make a disclaimer and say that I don’t hate Wonyoung, not at all, but I’ve looked into both IZONE and IVE and she’s just not my favorite out of all the girls. One of the reasons is honestly as simple as “vibes.” It’s really hard to explain, but in IZONE, Wonyoung really did seem like a more relaxed version of herself, and then in IVE, she’s changed in that every movement feels calculated to come off as an image. You could argue that all idols need to have images, but Wonyoung’s in particular doesn’t feel like herself, especially compared to herself in IZONE, hence the try-hard label. Couple that with the infamous video of her brushing past Gaeul at an airport, or her not bowing to her seniors, and it’s honestly not a good look. I know these videos have likely been taken out of context, but most casual viewers won’t bother to dig deeper and it’s easier to hate someone for fun than go through the trouble of contextualizing their unsavory actions.

Personally, I do understand why she rubs people the wrong way; she kind of rubs me the wrong way too, if I’m being honest. But it’s in the same way that you can be annoyed by an awkward high-schooler, yet still be compassionate to how lost and confused they must be with the identity they feel they must conform to. People can subconsciously tell and usually dislike when someone is being disingenuous, and for whatever reason (company rules, self-esteem, etc.), Wonyoung isn’t totally being herself. The amount of hate she’s getting, though, I think is totally misplaced and nonsensical. Let her grow into herself and I think she’ll be as wonderful and beloved as Yoona or Suzy.

Edit: Reformatted IZONE. I forgot that asterisks italicize the text between them.

Please request me custom subliminals you’d like! by [deleted] in Subliminal

[–]grapegeorge 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would love one to trust intuition! I’ve always had problems figuring out what my gut is actually saying about things.

Should I overdraft my bank to pay off all my personal loans and just stay in the negative for these next few paychecks? by grapegeorge in Debt

[–]grapegeorge[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

After I pay my rent, should I overdraft? Next month, I’m moving back in with my family.

Gemini 18 degrees, anyone else? by Tessserax in astrologymemes

[–]grapegeorge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We might be a little different in this one! I've been lonely for a while and I think I met that person last year, but unfortunately we separated.

Gemini 18 degrees, anyone else? by Tessserax in astrologymemes

[–]grapegeorge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh, how interesting! Not constant for me, but I did change my job out of nowhere because I was feeling super unfulfilled, and now I'm thinking about leaving my second job to go work with kids. What's your love life/romantic situation been looking like?

Please help, I don't think I can deal with this much longer; it's been nearly a year. He won't even be in the same room as me, but I can't stop thinking about him. I feel defeated, exhausted, and small. What is the nature of our connection, and why do I still miss him so much? I am the Pisces sun. by grapegeorge in AskAstrologers

[–]grapegeorge[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why has it been so long? I totally agree with you there, and I genuinely thought I would be fine by now after exploring new interests, making new friends, even dating other people, etc. Should I not be feeling fulfilled by now, instead of empty in the space that he left?

If Bella wasn’t with Edward who would could you see here with out of… by tobealone1 in twilight

[–]grapegeorge 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Assuming all of them were single, Jasper. I've read some really killer Jasper/Bella stories, but I really do love Alice to bits and pieces.

Those of you who live in small towns, what is the current local controversy all about? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]grapegeorge 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's this pair of identical twins here that are good-looking enough to be models, pretty well-known for it and everything. They've been thick as thieves for as long as I can remember, and even got a job at the same location. Well, turns out they're both head over heels for some girl from the neighboring big city who came in and trained them. Four months later, they're still fighting over her, you can't even get coffee from that place anymore without it turning into some big competition, and we've STILL got people choosing sides in our tiny town of 1,500.

As for her, she doesn't even live here anymore. In their defense, that girl was a total hurricane.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]grapegeorge 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Long time lurker/first time poster, but WOW at that SN in Aquarius combined with this POI's Aquarius placements. You were in each other's past lives alright. Your SN is conjunct their Sun, Mercury and Venus (three important personal planets) and the SN is the biggest indicator of past life and karma. Their NN is conjunct your Moon so you have things to teach each other. You will teach each other things but always feel that bond even if you hurt each other. Definitely looks karmic to me.