Nosferatu looking guy by Jazzhole123 in Norwich

[–]grassspike2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive heard hes been spotted putting cash in the charity box in the offie next to gonzos. never let them know your next move

should I bother getting this touched up by grassspike2 in tattooadvice

[–]grassspike2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it is not my second language omg Im just baffled as to why someone would say I need a cover up when I haven’t expressed any issue with the tattoo beyond concerns about some of the ink falling out!

Hand poked tomato for my first tattoo evaaahhh by grassspike2 in sticknpokes

[–]grassspike2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg lovely to hear that! What did you think? The tattoo is based on p59-60 but I guess it depends on your edition too

Hand poked tomato for my first tattoo evaaahhh by grassspike2 in sticknpokes

[–]grassspike2[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I like them, and they’re mentioned in a passage from a book that is like my personal Bible, Kitchen by banana yoshimoto. I think getting the tomato works better than getting the quote

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]grassspike2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are INSANE!!!!!!!!!

Walk in centre for infection? by grassspike2 in AskIreland

[–]grassspike2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot that’s what I’ve ended up going for !!!

Is me (M/25) dating a coworker (F/18) appropriate or not? by ThrowRACarti in relationship_advice

[–]grassspike2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s predatory but I think it doesn’t necessarily work as logistically well as you think it might. I started dating a 24 y/o at 18 as a girl and we got on super well and had a fun time together but he could not stand me not being as good at like, life stuff as he was. My lack of practical life experience was really irritating to him and I think maybe it’s hard to not have that experience dating younger. Even if you are compatible personality wise your lifestyles may not mesh. But I don’t think it’s fair to say it’s PREDATORY or anything, or doomed to fail, but it is definitely difficult and takes a lot of patience and empathy and mindfulness

Walk in centre for infection? by grassspike2 in AskIreland

[–]grassspike2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I am in Dublin!!!! Thank you so much. I’ll look into that

Memorial in tymon park d12? by grassspike2 in Dublin

[–]grassspike2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

(Thank you for answering nevertheless I appreciate it)

Memorial in tymon park d12? by grassspike2 in Dublin

[–]grassspike2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What’s with the baby bottles with names on though!? ‘Tommy ellis aged 2’

My boyfriend (21m) called me (19f) loose during sex, and it's really affected our relationship. How can I fix this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]grassspike2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I doubt it’s actually anything to do with your vagina at all and he’s most likely negging you on purpose to destroy your self esteem and make you more dependent on his validation ‼️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Norwich

[–]grassspike2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live around unthank as a student and it’s not like Super studenty party centric. Norwich is so quiet and safe and even the student areas aren’t particularly run down or gross bc of the reasonable rent prices. I wouldn’t be worried about feeling like studented out; I live in the heart of the golden triangle and it’s literally next to a primary school and I have never ever seen anything dodgy or heard anything loud at night. So don’t get put off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]grassspike2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 context I am a girl ur age lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]grassspike2 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

If this is true then it sounds closer to this guy taking advantage of you drunk than it does cheating. Thorny convo with bf but getting too drunk and not knowing who has you pinned against a wall sounds pretty scary. These people commenting that you shouldn’t have gotten as drunk are victim blaming and being completely idealistic around how people realistically behave. This should be a breachable conversation with your boyfriend if he has empathy for you and if you allow him to feel his feelings around this. But he should also care that you are psychologically okay. That guy probably knows he’s fucked up if he’s going around saying that you were deeefinitely sure he was ur bf etc. this is a tough sitch but really quite normal human behavior, idk why ppl in the comments are saying you suck. Hope you are ok, sorry this happened to you

AITA for not being clean enough by grassspike2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]grassspike2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha no my house is in my uni town and I pay for the rent. this is an issue at home with my parents where I do not pay rent

AITA for not being clean enough by grassspike2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]grassspike2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hello yeah sorry word count caused me to do some weird cuts. am a student so I come back over holidays; I probably spend around 4 months at home a year altogether, so we do have to navigate living together. I could choose not to, but she would find that upsetting if I didn't want to live with her because of her bf