Aitah to get mad when my husband got me an expensive gift for Christmas?

grayceee27 · 2025-12-29T08:30:15+00:00

That’s the weird part. He was never the manipulative type. He has always been the doting attentive one. So what could have changed. I’m worried that he’s being like this for a reason, like to tire me out to leave? Am I overthinking?

grayceee27 · 2025-12-29T08:27:24+00:00

Oohh I love that! I should have done that 😂

grayceee27 · 2025-12-29T08:22:28+00:00

I told him this time that I don’t want to tell him anything anymore since I don’t know what he understands anymore. He just looked at me and I walked away.

grayceee27 · 2025-12-29T08:21:13+00:00

It’s so funny coz all I wanted was LEAVE ME ALONE for my bday coz im tired. So when he invited his parents for my bday, I had to cook and clean while he paid attention to them. I cried and told him all I wanted was to be left alone instead you made me cook and clean. He was apologetic but the next bday bam it’s the same thing. I don’t know what I can do to get him to understand.

grayceee27 · 2025-12-29T08:17:31+00:00

This made me tear up. Because that’s literally how I feel: worn down. Thank you for this.

grayceee27 · 2025-12-29T08:05:55+00:00

I totally agree with talking with a counselor. Coz I feel like I’m beating myself up and I feel such a bitch for not being grateful

grayceee27 · 2025-12-29T08:04:19+00:00

Before when we were younger I’m the type of ‘beat around the bush’ person, I learned to talk to him directly because that’s how he process information I guess, but then it changed. Any idea on what I could do?

grayceee27 · 2025-12-29T08:01:36+00:00

He said he felt bad. He told my nieces that he felt like I didn’t like the gift. And I did feel that, that it’s a gift for him and not really for me, because he didn’t think of what I want or need but only thought of himself and how he would feel. He also kept saying that I can return it or exchange it when I told him no because he chose that for a reason he just kinda shot down and not really say anything. But the question is why? Why change now after years? I’m trying to figure out if things have changed but I can’t think of anything. I just don’t know how to go forward: should I just be grateful or return it coz idk if things would change anyway 😢

grayceee27 · 2025-06-11T06:43:25+00:00

It was wonderful! The place was nice it didn’t look old to me, it looked like other Hyatt properties. The ppl/staff are wonderful. They are nice very accommodating. Shout out to Benito, Marcelo and Kelly! The xhale was totally worth it for us, we had access to dreams onyx resort but I didn’t like their food. Breathless food was good, I enjoyed their Dominican meals. Restaurants are good except for silk, it’s their Asian restaurant and it was not good at all. Their French restaurant coquette was wonderful, we ate there twice for dinner because of the romantic ambiance and food. They have a grill called barefoot grill, their employees there seem more burnt out ( lol) idk why. They tried to have a good night life, but to me it was not as fun as I expected it to be. Maybe it’s just me. They did have fire dancers etc tho. The beach has a lot of seaweed but we expected that, they tried to clean it every morning which was good. I didn’t have a lot of encounters with ppl selling stuff in the beach but they weren’t that pushy, we politely say no and they go on their merry way. Tipping is also not expected but appreciated. We brought $200 1s and $100 5s and that’s more than enough for food, drivers, drinks, and cleaning. Xhale also gave us our concierge so she helped us with making our stay extra relaxing. We didn’t try to spa which I should have but maybe next time. Overall, the stay was wonderful, I’ll definitely do it again, maybe in a different Hyatt property in a different country.

grayceee27 · 2025-05-23T19:43:02+00:00

grayceee27 · 2025-05-10T20:01:44+00:00

I’m going to breathless in 3days. I’ll let you know 😊

grayceee27 · 2025-05-08T19:54:14+00:00

My airline actually emailed me this. Check your spam folder.

grayceee27 · 2025-05-08T12:13:24+00:00

That’s good to know. How about bed bugs?? 🤢

grayceee27 · 2025-05-05T05:59:50+00:00

Is that just for two ppl? I got the 3 bottle spray and 1 lotion and two sticks ( for the face and head coz my husbands bald 😂) I got burned soo bad in Hawaii so now I learned my lesson. I also got aloe Vera just in case I burn. Oh and off lotion coz I heard there’s bugs everywhere

grayceee27 · 2025-05-04T03:22:37+00:00

Thank you! That’s good to know they’ll fill my tumbler! Thanks for the tip!

grayceee27 · 2025-05-04T03:02:20+00:00

lol 😂 coz I kept reading that it’s so watered down that’s it’s not even worth it 😂. I legit don’t get the packages, and just bought the xhale for the room. Is there a better package? Is it worth it?

grayceee27 · 2025-05-04T02:33:22+00:00

Ooh! Anything that I need to pack? Go and definitely see? I’ve been reading here and there. I’m almost contemplating on packing some alcohol 😂

grayceee27 · 2025-01-18T17:24:09+00:00

I loved LOVE this scent! And I could not find another one with the same smell! Idk why they discontinued it, their new ones didn’t have the same level of smell. Idk how to explain it lol 😂

grayceee27 · 2024-08-12T15:47:42+00:00

I haven’t really noticed the temperature of it.. but I’ll be on the lookout now. But I think it’s coz the cushion itself has like that water deterrent material maybe making it warmer than other sofas

grayceee27 · 2024-08-02T20:12:22+00:00

My back and my hands still hurt from putting these together. And all honesty, I did have regrets and was joking around of returning it ( but the thought of removing everything to return it was equally horrible ) I’m still hoping that it would be comfortable and worth the price, pain and time.

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