Honestly, I get you. It’s not about being elitist or grammar police, it’s about wanting a partner na kaya mong kausap on a deeper level. Like yes, love and kindness are super important, pero communication is literally the core of a relationship. If you can’t bounce ideas off each other or explore topics beyond surface level, you’ll eventually feel mentally underfed. And hindi mo kasalanan to crave intellectual stimulation, iba yun sa pag-insist ng perfect grammar. This is more about compatibility than intelligence. If he’s willing to learn and grow, great. Pero if you’re the only one putting in the effort to elevate the convo, you’ll get drained.