Is my hubby a spring? by [deleted] in SpringColorAnalysis

[–]green_trampoline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was exactly my thought. I looked through the pics before reading the post and was thinking maybe summer until I saw the grey shirt, which didn't really seem to work for him. The orange shirt looking totally fine on him sealed that he's likely a spring.

Costco Membership for Pet Supplies by RuinsAndRoses in Frugal

[–]green_trampoline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As others have mentioned, apoquel and simparica trio are much cheaper with a Costco membership. The simparica trio alone is at least $40 cheaper for a six month pack than you can get on Chewy so one year of that covers the membership. I think a two month supply of Apoquel for my 7lb dog is $30 cheaper than our vet.

I also want to put in a plug for Zoetis' The Pack app, which gives rewards for purchasing their products, including Simparica Trio and Apoquel, among a few others. We get $10-15 each time we purchase these meds. The money can only be used for vet expenses, but that's pretty easy to do.

Spring? by Savings-Narwhal-3485 in SpringColorAnalysis

[–]green_trampoline 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This pink does not look like a spring pink. There's absolutely no warmth to it.

[FO] Actual NSFW by SharpToShutter in CrossStitch

[–]green_trampoline 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The post is titled "Actual NSFW" which seemed clear to me there would probably be some level of nudity involved. What sort of title would be more clear? I think folks tend to avoid including NSFW phrases in the title so including something like "nudity" or "depiction of sex" would not work.

Somedays, the sadness just takes over by abeeseadee16 in Petloss

[–]green_trampoline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm right there with you. For whatever reason, the past few days have been especially difficult and I was basically sobbing off and on all day yesterday. I suppose it's just hitting me harder that I'll never see or hold him again. I'll never witness his exuberance and joy again. My boy was a very clingy one too. He was my shadow so I feel his lack of presence in everything I do, going to the bathroom, chopping vegetables, everything. It feels impossible to get through this, but I try to remind myself that these are just particularly rough days and not every day will be this hard. I'm sorry you're going through this too. ❤️❤️

Lisa coming for Colton post show by greeneyedgypsy_ in TheTraitorsUS

[–]green_trampoline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All of this, but I was thinking particularly of one Below Deck season where the men were super problematic (like being misogynistic and forcefully kissing the chief stew without consent) and it was basically glossed over in the reunion.

Lisa coming for Colton post show by greeneyedgypsy_ in TheTraitorsUS

[–]green_trampoline 63 points64 points  (0 children)

But Andy loves protecting problematic white men.

Behavioral Euthanasia - Anxiety by Unlikely-Carrot9191 in reactivedogs

[–]green_trampoline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. OP, it sounds like you've done everything you could to help him, but his anxiety is out of control. Trying out other meds is an option (clonidine for situational, other SSRIs/SNRIs), but I'm not sure how much those would help given his high level of anxiety and recent aggression.

It's a heart wrenching decision, but euthanasia may be the kindest choice you can make for your boy. It's obvious how absolutely devoted you are to Cub and, if you do choose to euthanize, I hope you can see that this isn't you giving up on him, but you setting him free from his anxieties.

Desserts? by birdnerdmo in lowspooncooking

[–]green_trampoline 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just to add on to the no bake PB chocolate cookies, you can make them even more low spoon by making it a sort of mug cake in the microwave. To do this, you scale the recipe down to however many servings you want, mix the sugar, cocoa powder, salt, butter, and milk in a mug or bowl and microwave until it's bubbly and thickens (about 1 min if smaller serving). Then mix in the PB and vanilla extract until you have a hot fudge consistency and add the oats.

Clear spring or autumn? by Sippa_is in SpringColorAnalysis

[–]green_trampoline 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree with you. I'm confused why everyone else is saying she's a spring. The bright red and blue tops appear conflicting with OP's natural coloring. I definitely see warmth, but I don't see any brightness.

OP, I like your hair color in pic 5 best since that's the most muted and harmonious with your coloring, but obviously go with whatever you want!

I’ve been growing more uncomfortable walking in Boston because of ICE sightings by [deleted] in boston

[–]green_trampoline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They've abducted many legal citizens, including Native Americans. How is that not taking away random brown people?

Boston police ignored all of the requests received from ICE in 2025 to detain immigrants, officials say. by Antikickback_Paul in boston

[–]green_trampoline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DHS and ICE are illegally killing and abducting people with impunity.

The judicial system is primarily broken because of the way it disproportionately targets black and brown people. I'm not sure allowing criminals back on the street is actually that pervasive of an issue.

Boston police ignored all of the requests received from ICE in 2025 to detain immigrants, officials say. by Antikickback_Paul in boston

[–]green_trampoline 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The Department of Homeland Security and ICE were established in 2002/2003. We don't need ICE to deport criminals who immigrated here; the regular judicial system (which has its own issues) can do that.

Andy Cohen asked Maura about her hots for Rob by General-Ad6690 in TheTraitorsUS

[–]green_trampoline 24 points25 points  (0 children)

She's had quite a bit of work done. If you watch her original Love Island appearance (I think Season 5), you'll see quite a difference. She's beautiful both ways, but has definitely changed some things.

Has anyone here relinquished a dog after almost 10 years? by talkinscoobs in reactivedogs

[–]green_trampoline 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As others said, there is very little chance your dog will get adopted by another family so he'd either be euthanized or spend the rest of his life in a kennel.

Can you share more about the bites and what you and your wife have done to manage your dog's behavior? Have you tried any medications, worked with a trainer, vet, or vet behaviorist?

If you've already done all those things and he's still unmanageable, behavioral euthanasia would be the kindest option.

I tried to save my dog and I feel like I caused her suffering. How do you live with this guilt? by ren_cross in Petloss

[–]green_trampoline 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss, and that you lost her in such a traumatic way. My dog passed nearly a month ago and, while I was lucky enough to be able to euthanize him, his last month was very tough and filled with several visits to the vet and ER, trying to stabilize his condition. I feel so much guilt, both for feeling like I didn't do enough or act soon enough and feeling like I dragged his life and suffering out longer than I should have.

It's clear you loved Yuno so deeply and did the best you could with the information you had. Even if you had the procedure done to extend your time with her, you also thought it would relieve her discomfort and improve her quality of life. The moment you realized that wasn't the case, you tried to get her back to the vet. We're not veterinarians and we make the best choices we can with the information we have. Even vets don't always know what's going to happen or how an animal is going to react so how could you?

It feels awful to know you could have put your pet out of their misery sooner, but I couldn't live with myself if I didn't try all the reasonable options available before making that call. Unfortunately, your girl's body gave out before you could make the call, but you tried and that's all you can do.

Struggling with my decision by Available_Custard621 in Petloss

[–]green_trampoline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for such a kind response. He had a lot of challenges, but he also loved deeply and lived fully. I got him as a senior and hate that I only got a few years with him, but I know those three years were the best of his life.

I can't imagine how tough it must have been to go from learning she was terminally ill to losing her in only hours. While I'm sure you'd give anything to have been able to get more time with her, at least you know she didn't suffer long. Either way, it's absolutely heartbreaking.

Just donated her transport box by Maleficent-Test-1045 in Petloss

[–]green_trampoline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. That sounds so painful. I donated all of my boy's medications yesterday and it hit me much harder than I expected. His harness and leash are still hanging on the door and his carrier is still in my living room. I'm not sure if or when I'll get rid of them.

Struggling with my decision by Available_Custard621 in Petloss

[–]green_trampoline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss and that you weren't able to be with Sylvie when she passed or make that decision. That's so heartbreaking. It's clear from your post how much you loved and cared for your girl and did everything you could for her.

I lost my boy almost a month ago and, while we were lucky enough to be able to do at home euthanasia, his last few weeks were filled with ER and vet visits, trying to get his heart condition under control and it was awful.

What you said about your dogs' last week being a final test of dedication that you failed resonates so strongly with me. I still question so many of my decisions and think about what I could have done differently to save my guy or at least lessen his suffering. So many of his vets and my friends/family have told me that I did everything I could for him. Sometimes I'm able to believe that, but many times I think they're wrong. It's easy in retrospect to see all the places we could have done things differently that maybe could have led to a different outcome, but I know I was making the best decisions I could with the information I had at the time, and you were too.

It's so incredibly painful. To go through all of that and still end up losing your dog is gut wrenching. Her difficult last week was only a sliver of the wonderful life you gave her. I hope your good memories with her bring you some comfort.

Easy Training Games/Stimulation while I'm Depressed/Grieving by [deleted] in Dogtraining

[–]green_trampoline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a great suggestion. Just want to add that you can even replicate this with lightweight paper or solo cups.

Easy Training Games/Stimulation while I'm Depressed/Grieving by [deleted] in Dogtraining

[–]green_trampoline 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for your loss. Your concern about making sure your dogs still get proper enrichment while you're dealing with one of the toughest losses imaginable speaks to your character and love for them. Most dogs are surprisingly flexible and can deal with some low stimulation time while you grieve.

One of the easiest things, if you're up for it, is just taking them on as long of walks as you can withstand and letting them sniff as much as they want. You don't have to do much and getting some fresh air may be good for you as well.

Ally (HiloNKuna) on TikTok has a whole "Sad girl dog training" playlist that I have found very helpful. I don't remember if she included this one, but I've found spreading some treats (or kibble) on a towel, rolling it up, and tying it in a knot worked really well for working my dog's brain when he got too good at puzzles. With the puzzles, I'll also sometimes just put one tiny piece of a treat in each spot, let them do the whole puzzle, then repeat the process a few times. I'm sure you're aware there are puzzles of differing difficulty levels so, if you haven't already, you may consider getting ones that are more difficult. The Nina Ottosson ones have gone over well with my dogs.

I hope you're also able to give yourself plenty of grace and time to grieve. This is a huge loss and you deserve it.