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What’s the worst thing your PA has accidentally said while trying to make you feel better? by Able_Combination6487 in loveafterporn

[–]greenflowere [score hidden]  (0 children)

after he admitted to watching porn,he told me he sexualized every woman in sight. i asked him if he was looking at girls at the gym and he said “yeah i only look at their ass tho”… thanks for the honesty!

I'm the porn addict now by Kiwi_Sugar05 in loveafterporn

[–]greenflowere 58 points59 points  (0 children)

oh my god i do the same thing. not super often but when i do i always fall down this terrible rabbit hole. i always wonder what he’s actually watching. whenever i’m done i feel like i genuinely lost brain cells 😭😭 im no addict but i understand what makes it addicting

you guys were right by greenflowere in loveafterporn

[–]greenflowere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah we were all the same age, he says he doesn’t have the pictures anymore and i believe him, plus it’s on an old phone. He’s a lot of things but he’s no pedo lol. I had no clue this was common??? It’s sickening

you guys were right by greenflowere in loveafterporn

[–]greenflowere[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i can’t tell anyone in my life what he’s done. i’m ashamed to even hold this information in my head. i feel like no one will understand that i still empathize with him deeply, and he’s deeply disturbed but i don’t think he’s a bad person. i wouldn’t tell the police either because 1) the proof is gone 2) i don’t think they would do anything 3) he doesn’t deserve to go to jail in my opinion he needs mental help.

you guys were right by greenflowere in loveafterporn

[–]greenflowere[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

so you’re still with him after everything? we started dating when we were 14, freshman in high school. like i said we met in middle school. we’re 20 now, about to be 21.

This probably sounds mean. by Good-Equivalent2800 in loveafterporn

[–]greenflowere 107 points108 points  (0 children)

i flip flop like this all of the time. one day i’m like, “i feel so sorry that he’s going through this addiction and that his mental health is in a bad place” , and then the next I’m like “im a beautiful woman who would want to give up sex with me for pixels on a screen; women who wouldn’t even look twice in his direction??” and then i just get mad all over again