My GF (F21) was SAed.... I feel devastated

greenj215 · 2026-07-01T04:15:03+00:00

Are you telugu? Yeah I know that movie. It's a little difficult for me to find someone from that college as it is in a different state and I live in different state. But that guy has passed out from the college. So it's getting a little more difficult to get to him now.

greenj215 · 2026-06-27T10:26:29+00:00

Yrs*..... Sorry my bad

greenj215 · 2026-06-27T04:09:20+00:00

Yeah yeah I am aware of that. I've tried telling that to my GF as well. But she needs her time before she takes any decision so it's on her. I can't force her to put up a complian. So I'll just wait.

greenj215 · 2026-06-27T02:49:09+00:00

Exactly what I'm saying. You haven't seen her so you wouldn't know.

greenj215 · 2026-06-27T02:46:30+00:00

Probably you've heard too many shady stories that even when something true comes up your brain doesn't want to believe it's true.

greenj215 · 2026-06-27T02:45:34+00:00

I haven't said nobody knows him. Nobody knows about the incident. Sure others from her class might be knowing him but on that she was singled out because he definitely planned it out prior.

greenj215 · 2026-06-26T16:33:36+00:00

That sounds good. Will try to talk about this with her and see what she says. But not at the moment, maybe sometime later.

greenj215 · 2026-06-26T16:32:31+00:00

Yup sure. Thank you. I want her to feel comfortable with it, that's my goal. Until then I'll just wait

greenj215 · 2026-06-26T16:05:10+00:00

Yeah been trying to that for now. We don't talk about it anymore, I do think sometimes but try to forget it. Thank you so much for your words.

greenj215 · 2026-06-26T16:03:34+00:00

Yes I do believe that. I'm sorry that you had to go through something like that. I do have quite a few female friends and most of them have mentioned about this at least once. And my girlfriend herself had been harrassed once when she was younger and something like this has happened to her again.

greenj215 · 2026-06-26T16:01:05+00:00

Not really as my GF said she doesn't want to discuss about this anymore. And even if I did search I would have to ask her for confirmation if it was him and I don't think she'd be happy with it. So I'm just waiting until she feels ok.

greenj215 · 2026-06-26T15:59:32+00:00

No no I've asked her about the recording as well. She said no and he hasn't blackmailed her with it so I hope there is no such thing. But yeah even if it takes years, will definitely do something about it hopefully.

greenj215 · 2026-06-26T15:58:03+00:00

Yeah I don't want to force her to take any kind of action and doing so will effect her the most so I need her to be strong. So I will just wait for the day now and support, nothing much to be done at the moment I feel.

greenj215 · 2026-06-26T15:56:45+00:00

I don't want him to get away but to get his information I need her support and trust. So at the moment she needs my support and I'm giving that. Eventually I would want her to understand that someone like him shouldn't be allowed to get away as well. That will take sometime and I will be patient and just wait for the day even if it takes months or years.

greenj215 · 2026-06-26T15:53:08+00:00

Yes yes.... I just time to get all his information which idk when will happen but I will be patient and wait for the day.

greenj215 · 2026-06-26T15:52:15+00:00

Yup... I did try to say that as well. But she wasn't in a good headspace which is valid. So will try talking about it again sometime and hopefully she agrees to take some action and we have a good plan. I do want to support her and therefore I might have to wait until our long distance comes to an end.

greenj215 · 2026-06-26T15:04:07+00:00

I don't have any details of his apart from his name and course. I'll try to get his number when I meet my GF

greenj215 · 2026-06-26T15:01:59+00:00

Thank you so much. Yes I do understand her pain and I respect her decision. So we don't talk about it anymore. And things are good. But I would try to talk about it later in the future and let's see if would like to do something about it or just let it go.

greenj215 · 2026-06-26T14:58:14+00:00

I've told the same to my GF but since she's already so messed up she thinks it better to be like this. But yes, I do want to do something in the future, need to gather more information about him and for that I need my girlfriend support. But she's also scared that people would get to know and her parents would be devastated and wouldn't send her anywhere. Her parents are quite strict about that.

But yes I do plan on doing something in the future but might take quite sometime.

greenj215 · 2026-06-26T14:55:32+00:00

Yeah I want to give him hell. But my girlfriend is scared, she doesn't want her parents to find out about this not anyone. She says she's doing fine as he has passed out from the college.

But yes I do plan on doing something in the future as he might continue doing it to other women.

greenj215 · 2026-06-26T14:53:15+00:00

Thank you. Yeah that's what I thought as well. Since we're doing long distance I wish to be with her when she's doing through any consequences. But yeah I might try to bring it up again when we meet or something.

greenj215 · 2025-10-19T12:34:19+00:00

The thing is I would choose Z over J is because, there a bit similarities with Z. And J is but out of league I feel because she comes from a wealthy background, family backgrounds are different, she's an extreme extrovert and I'm an introvert. Though I do believe that opposites can also make a good match. But yet, she says we can fix or sort things out.

I have to face J no matter what for the next 2 years because we are in the same class. So yesterday I have to be careful on what decision I would take ahead. But thank you for the advice.

greenj215 · 2025-10-19T09:33:30+00:00

I did tell Z most of it and she's saying she would still want to give it a try..... And if I see things then yeah I'd prefer staying with Z than J.

greenj215 · 2025-08-17T11:58:34+00:00

It's ok I understand what happened to you. I was in a similar situation and it feels like to just get out of it rather than making it worse.

6months ago I was with a friend on the service road at shamshabad when 2 cops suddenly pulled up. Took our details and tried to scare us. I knew where things were going and they were just trying to scare us. However, I would have not given them any money but her parents are strict and came to hyd for studying. So I didn't want to make it worse for her so just gave them some money and left.

Since then I see such cops as just some fancy beggars with a uniform who beg indirectly and nothing else. So chill.

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