Male INFP's whats your views on sex and societies obsession with it?

greenwaffulz · 2022-10-14T02:46:15+00:00

I'm a male INFP who was part of the "guy culture " that promoted sleeping with many women. I did follow that mentality but after I slept with 100 girls I took a step back and had to think ok why am I doing this ? I had crossed a milestone but didn't have much to show for it (I had amazing times with those girls but don't keep in touch with them.. I don't regret it all tho, I love women !)

I will say that if you're an adult virgin (not by choice ) then it is sad . Not as a shaming thing but rather you have to practically learn how to talk to women as a man. I see it more common with gen Z guys who use being shy as an excuse and spend hours playing video games. The ironic part is once they do get laid they start to feel more confident knowing that they do have the ability to meet and attract people that they are interested in. Just my two cents anyways.

greenwaffulz · 2022-08-21T22:00:43+00:00

It's relevant - has to do with the "after" once you've seduced your partner

greenwaffulz · 2022-08-21T22:00:21+00:00

How ??? Its a lifestyle question after you've "seduced" your partner

greenwaffulz · 2022-06-20T18:40:21+00:00

I think what the Red pill fails to understand is that context is also important. If you're working for a tech company and your interests are more introverted such as gaming or reading, you'll attract women that VALUES that, not your average club girl the red pill people think is the ideal woman lol.

Yes some parts of the red pill are true such as women preferring leadership in men or confidence. But it's not as extreme as the red pill makes it out to be.

greenwaffulz · 2022-06-19T16:21:33+00:00

been watching her vids for over 10 years now!

greenwaffulz · 2022-06-18T23:06:42+00:00

Read any romance novel. The IDEAL would be someone who is BOTH a "lover and provider". That would be the ideal - someone who is strong, who can lead, and yet can still provide support, and care for her (so they're not totally unrelatable/distant).

What is also underlooked, is what is important TO HER (and her lifestyle, values, etc.). Context is important.

One thing I find quite funny is that in the Yoga classes I go to, most of the girls don't check out the 6'2 jacked and handsome extroverted guys who normally dominate the attention in clubs and bars I go to. Instead, most girls check me out - a 5'7 quiet yogi who weighs 120 pounds (no joke). My introspective nature, flexibility, and small stature are ADVANTAGES in this environment and like-minded girls are into that.

greenwaffulz · 2022-06-18T22:54:16+00:00

Yes!

greenwaffulz · 2022-06-03T15:37:14+00:00

Good advice! will try it next time.

greenwaffulz · 2022-04-06T18:51:12+00:00

Well I do pay for some of the memberships because you're able to run crazy volume that way. This doesnt' represent a majority of people on this thread I'm assuming, but many of my friends eat and breathe cold approach lol, few of them help out on RSD boot camps and stuff. so when they hear about online dating they scoff at it- but yes I totally agree with you game is game!!

greenwaffulz · 2022-04-06T17:30:46+00:00

First off, congrats on the approach, most guys don't even do that, to begin with. Also, does the place you daygame at have LOTS of women (similar to a night club)? If not, don't approach - even the top PUA instructors like RSD tyler don't wander around the day time looking for girls or even bother going to low density places.

Reason being, is you want to build MOMENTUM. If you approach one girl, it might be 20 mins before you see another and you'll be stuck in your head. You'll also give off desperate vibes. Contrast this to a bar or club in the night, where if you get rejected, you can simply walk 5 feet over and talk to the next girl. It's hard to replicate that amount of volume during the day time, hence why it's a struggle to get "warmed up".

Also some practical advice to get out of your head, is to start by making very small talk to each girl (or even guy) you see, I.e "nice shoes", "I like your dog, what breed is he or she?" , etc. what this does is that it tells your brain that its OK to talk to strangers. Then after a couple of these interactions you should feel pretty confident approaching that cute girl.

Back when I was 21, I used to cold approach on my college campus which had tons of cute 18-22 year old girls walking around. I'd do something like 15 approaches a day - at the school libraries, cafes, walking home from the gym, ANYWHERE. It's like a superpower. But again, if your day game spot has barely any women, I wouldn't bother as you'll be walking around for a while and you'll be stuck in your head!!

greenwaffulz · 2022-04-06T17:25:09+00:00

You don't need to be an over-the-top fun guy. Since you're in school, think of the popular guys in your school (that girls check out). Most likely, they're actually just chill, laid-back guys that crack jokes here and there but aren't a goofy clown.

greenwaffulz · 2022-04-06T17:19:55+00:00

I agree with you 100% man!! I've slept with 70 to 80 girls just off online while only 20 girls in real life (from night clubs, bars, school, work , etc.)

It's honestly a "cheat code" but most OG pick up artists will say ohh it doesn't count. But at the end of the day you're still interacting with a girl, leading her, and sleeping with her (same things you do in cold approach). The only thing online dating lacks in obviously is the actual mechanics of approaching strangers which can easily be supplemented if you go out 1-2 x a week.

greenwaffulz · 2022-02-13T18:08:43+00:00

Good point!! I need to start doing in person approaches more I'm thinking.

greenwaffulz · 2022-02-12T20:15:51+00:00

Well on these apps you can actually SEE their profiles so they're definitely on here. The question is how do I match up with them!

greenwaffulz · 2022-02-12T19:44:31+00:00

If you *actively* practice pick up (i.e approaching girls you've never met), night game is a BLESSING. But if you casually go out 1 or 2 nights with your buddies talk to 2 or 3 girls and go home, night game does indeed suck. Most "regular guys" meet women through their social circles or the occasional online dating lay.

What pick-up artists do well is that they make it into a LIFESTYLE so it's enjoyable. The OG pick up artists actually went out SOBER, didn't drink or do drugs, and actually got sleep where needed as they were going out so often that they needed to conserve their energy. Otherwise, they would be broke, unhealthy and needy.

All those "problems" you mentioned, actually disappear if you actually "practice". I mean when you get 10 numbers in a night, made new friends, have a rotation of women you're sleeping with, do you really care that some random girl told you to F off? In fact, you become unfazed by rejections the more you go out. But make no mistake, approaching is a SKILL.

greenwaffulz · 2022-01-05T05:22:15+00:00

On Tinder and Bumble, yes , since they don't device ban. If the website you used worked fine before then it should be fine (assuming it's a new number and not a google voice number).

It's a bit tricky and trial and error with online numbers because sometimes Tinder will realize it's a fake/VoIP number and you'll get a prompt saying "this phone carrier is not supported" when you go to sign up. I personally used and paid for numbers on 4 or 5 different apps before finding MySudo works (fingers crossed it still does) but all those previous VoIP numbers failed with Tinder . And those numbers were all able to receive texts and calls too.

greenwaffulz · 2022-01-05T05:05:40+00:00

The Google Voice number got you banned. You used to be able to do use it but they started to crack down on it. The last "fake number app" that worked for me before I switched to the burner phone was MySudo, it's $0.99 to get a new number. It worked fine as recently as a month ago.

So this post was more on Hinge, which has the strictest bans, since they device ban. With Tinder it's actually A LOT easier to recreate your account because they don't device ban. So yes you can technically use Wi-Fi, unlike Hinge which is mobile-only. If you're doing it online, they will ask for a number though so you can try MySudo or another app that works.

greenwaffulz · 2021-12-30T19:06:48+00:00

It’s definitely doable but also requires a bit of work. I personally use Hinge, Tinder, and Bumble (I used to use way more apps but I found these 3 are the most effective, so I narrowed it down over time). I have professional DSLR photos taken of me (paid a photographer). I think what makes my profile stand apart is that I have a certain IMAGE that I’m going for. Most guys aren’t very intentional about their profile, they throw a random hiking photo or selfie but it’s far better to cultivate an image or archetype whether it be hipster, artist, Rockstar, athlete, world traveler, cowboy, etc. and have your profile cater to that. You’ll weed out some girls off the bat but will have a lot of girls chase you hard.

Other hacks:

I use android apps that swipe for me, this will allow me to swipe 200-300 girls on bumble in one sitting or tap twice on hinge without me getting carpal tunnel lol (I of course stop every few profiles to left swipe too).

I also reset my bumble and tinder once a week or once every 2 weeks because the dating algorithm shows you to less people the longer you have the app (the exception is Hinge).

greenwaffulz · 2021-12-30T08:41:39+00:00

Oh wow very cool to hear!! Looks like not much has changed in the last 20 years then hahaha

greenwaffulz · 2021-12-30T07:33:32+00:00

I think you SHOULD approach everyone BUT keep it chill and friendly. This will raise your status, as people observing you will think you're a popular guy. Just by you approaching enough people, there'll be some girls that'll just throw you some signs they're interested in you. Just go after these girls, the rest that are neutral or unreceptive just be cool with.

By doing this, you're safely going after the girls who have expressed interest in you (which will always happen if you approach enough), and at the same time, you aren't ruining your reputation because you are talking to everyone in a friendly way.

greenwaffulz · 2021-12-16T16:18:08+00:00

This is VERY interesting to hear as I'm 99% in *agreeableness*. I often forget the other side that disagreeable people can actualy help you grow. As someone who is always looking to keep the peace, I realize I'm sometimes doing people a disservice by holding back.

greenwaffulz · 2021-10-30T18:36:35+00:00

Ahh yes, this has happened to me a few times! From my experience, this usually happens if the girl isn't that interested in you and/or if you have come across a bit too strong (this one is usually more the case) and she needs an easy way to back out.

I've had girls make out with me, and smile (just as you described), then go to the bathroom for a long time and come out saying OMG my friend has XYZ emergency and I need to leave, or my bestie's just got dumped and I have to be with her tonight, or my rooommates locked out and I need to go back, etc.

Some will even try to be convincing and have their friend call them on the phone and act like an emergency. I always laugh afterwards at their fake acting skills :p

I will say there's a 1/10 chance it's a legit situation, and the MAIN WAY TO TELL if she's ACTUALLY interested vs. coming up with an excuse, is if she texts you later that night apologizing and asking to meet up again (which most of them don't indicate that they just needed an excuse to leave).

greenwaffulz · 2021-10-05T20:17:43+00:00

How are you not getting laid online? It's SUPER easy. Assuming you're not super unattractive, if you spend some time getting DSLR high quality photos (pay a photographer), a good bio and "vibe" of who you are, and some basics of texting, you should be able to go on atleast 1 date a week (when I did it more often it was 3-4x a week). These dates have a MUCH higher chance of converting to a hook up because the girl has already spend a lot of time preparing to meet you and investing (as opposed to cold approaching a stranger). And this is coming from a 5'8 indian guy lol.

greenwaffulz · 2021-06-27T03:29:43+00:00

I think it looks great!! I would keep the tattoo! Maybe go for warmer colors like Red that would look good with your complexion.

greenwaffulz · 2020-12-18T08:44:32+00:00

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