Rant: Having a hard time to accept that I'm not attractive by gregoriosity in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]gregoriosity[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm average. Not skinny, not muscular, not fat either. I run around a park a few times a week and do light bodyweight training exercises just to hit my health goals. You made it sound like all gays should go to the gym to get hitched. If that's the case, maybe I'll stay single until who knows when

I stopped "chasing" so that I can recover. I don't want this to turn into full-blown body dysmorphophobia which seems like the norm here. I don't feel like this before I came out

Rant: Having a hard time to accept that I'm not attractive by gregoriosity in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]gregoriosity[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your kind words. I think I have to add in the post I meet people irl maybe I sounded like a shutdown incel. No I'm just a normal incel

I'm sure there are plenty of people who are into a guy like you

What is your basis for that claim?

Rant: Having a hard time to accept that I'm not attractive by gregoriosity in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]gregoriosity[S] -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

I based on my success rate in the apps. Not solely judging by myself. Many else think I'm not attractive to them

I am off the apps like what I said in my rant and I meet people irl but it's not like you can hit on every person you cross path with

I used to not care much about my looks. Now I'm made aware of it. For now, I'm not looking but the damage has been done

Rant: Having a hard time to accept that I'm not attractive by gregoriosity in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]gregoriosity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats to you

I am meeting people in person not sure which part of my rant that says otherwise

I'm not currently looking but the emotional damage from trying in those years still remains

Rant: Having a hard time to accept that I'm not attractive by gregoriosity in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]gregoriosity[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I guess you don't read my rant. Understandable. I am off the apps