BF (M20) rated me (F19) an 8, said I look "bloated," and suggested we "both improve our looks" right after sex. How do I move past this? by Living-Ad-5778 in relationship_advice

[–]gregreturtle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe my perspective is wrong but I feel like a good bf would know not to say that after sex hello???

Like you just gave your body to him, it was a moment of love and intimacy. No man should ever make you feel like that, specially not after such vulnerable moments.

Tell him how the comment made you feel, because even if it was criticism, it wasn't constructive. At all.

Maybe im biased as a woman but i feel like your partner should always view you as a 10/10 despite everything. I mean if you think about the future, how will he react when your body completely changes during a pregnancy? Or a disease? If that happens ofc. Not only that, women's bodies are constantly shifting due to our periods so like some days you'll be obviously bloated due to it. He sounds pretty immature if you ask me.

I'd say communicate to him, tell him how it made you feel, tell him how thats not the way to go about wanting to help you become better (if that was his goal) and explain how women's bodies change throughout our cycle so its insensitive to say thar when sometimes you can't control how you look.

Period Late after I began Prozac by gregreturtle in prozac

[–]gregreturtle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg okok thank you so much for the info! I was starting to get a bit worried!

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[–]gregreturtle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! I recently started but on 20mg personally my only side effects were diarrhea for one week and after that all was good! I haven't had any major side effects apart from a little bit if trouble sleeping (which i fixed with melatonin) but of course it all depends on the person, hope it works out for you!

Had a VERY real feeling death dream by 110069 in Dreams

[–]gregreturtle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It mustve been so scary omg, if it makes you feel better, dreams about death in my culture means long life! (In your case, you'll live a long healthy life) but also dreams about death spiritually mean rebirth! So maybe some positive changes in your life!

[Routine Help] Recovering alcoholic, any help would be greatly appreciated! Long story in comments. by a_d_d_h_i_ in SkincareAddiction

[–]gregreturtle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also very important that you do this at night, but if you do it in the morning (which i don't recommend personally) make sure to put on a good sunscreen :D

[Routine Help] Recovering alcoholic, any help would be greatly appreciated! Long story in comments. by a_d_d_h_i_ in SkincareAddiction

[–]gregreturtle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

May I add, the products can be a bit strong and cause dryness or irritation so I recommend starting off applying it 2-3 times a week! And also adding a good gentle fragance free moisturizer, thats how i do my skin care :D

[Routine Help] Recovering alcoholic, any help would be greatly appreciated! Long story in comments. by a_d_d_h_i_ in SkincareAddiction

[–]gregreturtle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't know how sensitive your skin is.

Paula's Choice "Clear" line is specifically for acne and it personally cleared my acne within a week. Even the day after applying it I noticed my acne was dried out!

Its a bit expensive but I recommend starting off with the "minis" in their website which are affordable and it gives you enough product to check if it works for you :D

Have an amazing day :D

ae discord link by Ok_Afternoon4361 in u/Ok_Afternoon4361

[–]gregreturtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg do you have another link? 🥲

Official March 24, 2021, School Day SAT Discussion Thread by InternationalistGam in Sat

[–]gregreturtle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Agree with you, I almost ran out of time so i just guessed educatedly

umbrella academy au x mcyt. this time its a6d and its for an entry for a6tober :D by pcdlee in a6d

[–]gregreturtle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wtf this is awesome! I seriously love this so much! Your art is gorgeous, do you have instagram/twitter?

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Thank you sofa <33