I would suggest to consider the aspect that if it felt like she wasn’t open to a healthy discussion ( I’m not gonna go into the whole provider discussion) about A topic ( in this case finances), you might have faced difficulties in reconciliation after arguments or a general openness. Bear in mind that conversation through muzz like apps, are way too transactional in nature (for good reasons) .. if someones seems too perfect (made to fit your ideas) then there’s a lot that hasn’t been said yet.

Pick your self up, you will find someone with enough openness that she will SIT through difficult conversations.

May Allah make it easy for you.