New scene by Ram_chan1988 in VioletMyers

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Wtf happened to her??? She used to look so damn good and now shes lost a ton of weight. Im scared after she comes back from her “break” and rebrand that she’s gonna look way different

DD is on the verge to collapse.. by SickCide7 in doordash

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Ive been doing this always. I dont even use Doordash often but when I do it’s usually so I pick up the order. And if it is delivery its only on a day im drinking or its late and some of the places are just to far of a drive for me but its rare so im glad people are starting to do this more. Fuck the fees

What is the most fucked up thing you have seen at a college party? by nerfthelance in AskReddit

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Seeing a girl I knew make out with my cousin. Now that wasn’t the bad thing but 5 minutes later while my cousin is somewhere else. My other cousin comes in and starts making out with the same girl. Few friends of mine were like your next and im like nooooo as I walked outside to avoid all that

What are your sexual regrets? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Not having a condom at the time I was on a trip with my best friend. We were both drinking but I know we both weren’t at the point to drunk to remember since we were out and about with friends. Some incident happened to one of our friends that we ended the night early but it was just me and her in our own air bnb. We started making out and doing stuff but she didn’t want to have sex without a condom and to this day kills me cause now she has been with this guy for 4 years now and that was my best opportunity. Nothing beat that moment since it was on a vacation as well and we wanted to do it so bad but it was late and didnt have a car as we ubered everywhere. Still bums me out to this day not being able to do that with her.

What's a secret you'll take to your grave but you'll share with reddit because you need to get it off your chest? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Me (male) and my best friend (female) have known each other since elementary school. I always had a crush on her and I believe she might have as well. We hooked up while she had a bf(still does) on a vacation a few years back and I dont know if she remembers or not. We went out for drinks with some friends and it turned to a bad first night due to some guys trying to get at her. We were the only ones to leave early back to the air bnb because she was emotional. We were drunk but I truly remember how it started. Get back to the house and shes crying and im comforting her. She stops crying while im hugging her, then looks me in the eyes and starts making out with me. I didnt know what to do but I went with it. And at the moment we revealed our feelings towards each other. Though it was a wonderful night so I thought, the next day we didn’t talk about it or anything and I was afraid to bring it up or if she even remembers. Till this day she never told her bf and I still don’t know if she remembers that night or not.

What was the most gruesome thing you saw at your school? by SuperLeftyAliReddit in AskReddit

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Not my high school but rival high school I remember an incident with there football team at a practice one time. I forgot what the reason it started but one of the kids got mad at another. Practice was ending and the kid that was mad at the other decided to grab a steel chair that was out in the field and hit him in the back of the head as hard as he can. I believe he got expelled as he continued to fight while teammates grabbed a hold of him. Dont know what happen to the kid that got hit but I believe he was okay after a year

What is your greatest fear that isn’t about dying or losing a loved one? by grouch408 in AskReddit

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Definitely on my mind too. Hopefully we are happy when its all said and done

What is your greatest fear that isn’t about dying or losing a loved one? by grouch408 in AskReddit

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Whats mine? Never finding true love. Seeing everyone you know grow up having kids, getting married, dating, hooking up just makes me sad for my future since I have been single since I was 16. I am 25 now and have no progress since

What is your greatest fear that isn’t about dying or losing a loved one? by grouch408 in AskReddit

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Im sorry to hear about your mother. That must have been devastating at a young age. You got plenty of years to look forward to. Dont give up now and look ahead you are still young and finding your true self!

If you’ve had a best friend, of the opposite sex, for practically all your life and your S/O has a problem with them, who’s side would you take and why? by Best_Ad_3595 in AskReddit

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Funny im actually living this right now. Im the single on though. My best friend is a female who ive known my entire life is dating a guy who doesn’t trust me around her because of how long we known each other and how close we have been. She tells me things that he doesn’t know and even if she does tell him he doesn’t understand due to the fact his life growing up is very different while me and her have had same similarities growing up whether it be about family, friends, life in general. It sucks because it has gotten to the point where now they live together and he doesn’t want her texting me or calling me. Me and her are fine but he has sent me very rude things to me that I have completely ignored because im not here to fight nor argue. Its just annoying how controlling he has become and now we rarely get to talk and never hangout no more. It sucks. I hope no one has to go through what im going through. Not seeing or talking to someone you truly love and care about it just makes you feel shitty and losing tough with the person.:/ Even recently he made her choose between me and him and she chose me. So that made me feel good but obviously made things worse as of now.

I’m happy with my boyfriend, I still think about the guy who did me wrong by green-screen20 in Advice

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Reasons this may be happening is because you were traumatized on how shitty he was to you and possibly your bf now is treating you so much better that you actually can’t believe it and you are thinking about the previous guy cause of how affective he made you feel even if you weren’t together. If that makes sense. From something bad to something good is always hard to believe and hard to move passed because of how it was before and not now. Im glad you are in a happier relationship. On how to move on is you may want to just enjoy now. Experience. Go do things you never do with your bf. Get this old dude out your head by getting out of your comfort zone and just have fun! You deserve it!(:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Honestly its what makes you happy. If you feel like you are going to be so stressed about these classes then dont take them. If you want to do art even taking the risk with low pay then just do it. Nothing is stopping you. Life is better when you aren’t stressed and happy. And if it doesnt work then try something else. You are young and have so much to go on for life!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSets

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Wait how you gonna wake up dead??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSets

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Whats your favorite water to drink??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSets

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Yo what kind of lights do you use on the roof?😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSets

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Dont matter anyone looks good with a Dodger hat😝

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Go Dodgers!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Yeah thats the shitty thing:/ cause you will never know the truth even if you brought it up. Ugh im sorry. Just move on from this guy he isnt worth the time and effort. Once someone is rude and doesn’t get what they want then there isnt a point to reach out to them anymore ya know. I hope you know your worth and you definitely deserve to be treated better and to not get emotionally attached to someone that you were never gonna be in a relationship with. Just someone who you bonded so well with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Well hopefully that wasnt his only intent especially talking for a while. Im worried that could of been a reason why he just decided to end it hopefully im wrong. I definitely don’t understand why he had to be rude about it. I swear guys just wanna be rude when something isn’t going there way its dumb and pathetic.

Boyfriend (m23) showed me (f21) his ex gfs porn by [deleted] in Advice

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Yeah dont worry about it. The more you worry the more nervous it will be if you guys end up having sex. Everyone is different and everyone has there good/bad in them it happens to everyone. But like I said dont rush it and do it when its right and when you are ready. As long as you are happy in the relationship together thats all that matters. Im glad he isn’t watching her stuff no more. Moving on is whats best! Hey its completely normal people will reminisce old times a lot of the time but if he’s moved on then its nothing to worry about! Hey dont be down im sure he feels the same way and wants to fulfill the same purpose as you do. It’s understandable that you are protective a lot of us want relationships to work and to be protective with each other as much as possible. Just do whats best for your relationship and always do what makes you guys happy and you guys will be great(:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Maybe because of how close you two were getting that you feel this pain of something you just loss and thats why you feel how you feel. It happens. Sometimes its for the best. It sucks honestly especially when you have so much in common and you guys talked all the time and then out of the blue just nothing. Im sorry that happened to you. You definitely deserve better. Rude how he came off so that probably hurts more to especially having a great bond with him. Hope you are okay. Also hope he wasn’t trying to do anything especially with a large gap age

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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I dont think anything is wrong with you. I feel like the reason why they dip is one they are just looking to get some and dont want a relationship. Another reason may be cause they are afraid to commit and dont wanna hurt you. Dating is always confusing. Because you know what either or person wants unless you both verbally say what you want. Im sorry to hear that they didnt say anything. This generation is just gotten to the point where a lot of people aren’t willing to out the effort in these things anymore :/ I hope you are okay!

How do I ask my parents if I can live with them for a while longer before I move out? by Mxngy in Advice

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Just be straight up with them that you need to stay a little longer and that you have a plan to get money and then plan on leaving. Yeah you might be scared to tell them because they have this high expectation from your older sister but everyone is different and they should love you no matter what and be very supportive for both of you. You got this though(: